About the tiger mother.doc

About the tiger mothers education Tiger mother, whose autonym is Amy Lynn Chua, was born in 1962. When she was young, she was immigration to USA with her parents, then her got the Harvard University B.A. (bachelor of arts degree) degree, doctor of jurisprudence, now she is incumbent the lifetime professor in the Yale university. And there are an argumentation about have detonate all over the world, not only the west, but also the east, so there are many minds of - the education methods of east and west. Now, lets see some of the family rules of tiger mother, before I express my views.1. They are not allowed to attend sleepover.2. They are not allowed to learn any other musical instruments except for violin or piano, and play only classic music.3. They are not allowed to have playdate.4. They are not allowed to watch TV or play computer games.5. They must achieve A for every course they take. They should not have any excuses for whatever, just get the job done.6. They should overcome all issues on their own.I think, many people do not agree Amys education methods, because they think Amy gave her 2 daughters too much pressure, she arranged all the things that she wants her child do, seems like she just want to change her children to her privacy pets, cause theyre no rights in their life. Even there are some extreme people think Amy maltreat her children, like her nameTiger mother. But, in my opinion, these people are have a one-sided view, they didnt concentrate on the effect, just pay attention to the process.From the point of my view, I think there are different education system between the West Country and the East country. So we can not say Amys methods are right or wrong, right?For instance, in china, student have too many works to do everyday, such as, Chinese math English politics history geography biology physics chemistry, maybe there are more courses than I said, in fact, the real life china students faced more difficult than adults can think, students have many work to do, many passage to recite, many exam to finishparents, teachers, and the society place their hope on us, meanwhile, the pressure coming. To be frank, I never deny our duty, but, for most students, they can not stand this kind of pressure, how they can find happy in study life? For Chinese education, teacher concentrate on teaching their students read more, study more, write more, calculate more, exam more, all in all, more more more! And we named it basic education. On the contrary, the West country education, especially the USA, there parents, teachers pay attention on other ways that to teach their children to see more, think more, ask more, and then do more. It is obvious that Chinese students are lack of the practice ability comparative the West country students.As we known, Chinese education has a huge drawback- it is serious departure the real life!No matter whose that it is the Tiger mother, or the “Harvard girl”, “Yale boy”, in my opinion, they are the romalpa, and the romalpe didnt have generalization. To be honest, in my own views, this guys success are set up in many failure cases, because in all of the world, specially in china, many parents tried the same way to educate their children, such as abusiveness, threat, lure by promise of gain, etc. At the mention of this, I believe many of us have the same experience, right?In spite of disadvantages of the system, we cannot pay no heed to the fact that it brings us more advantages, at least, for Chinese student, we can not always say Chinese education system are bad, West education system are good, because in my mind, they are no relativity. If you ask me why, I can tell you the reason-the population. Cause of the amount of people, if the government wants to picks up a talent person, it is impossible to choose one person in many people, I think everyone can understand what I said.Personally, I hold the method of Tiger mother. Maybe some of you will ask me the reason why, it is not difficult to see that I am a Chinese people, Chinese girl now, Chinese woman then, many of us preserve the traditional culture of Chinese, just as a popular saying goes:” As parent wants to see their children succeed in life ”, I have the same wish, too. Tough there are exist the drawbacks in Chinese educationSticks underneath, spoil the child. If I were a mother, I will use other ways to treat my child, instead of use stick education ways. I think, some of you have seen a movie named , in this film, Tinas mom use her ways to make her daughter got the crest of success, but it was really grief that, Tina got the top she want and her mom hope, meanwhile, she dyin at length. I can not say her mother have no responsible for her daughter death, she also is a simple mom, she just want her babe get the better life, Tina want to get the perfect, too. The issue is the way is wrong, and the social is cruel. All in all, I still hold my view for educate my child use the strict way. There are some reasons can support my opinion, first I think I am a strict guy, so I want my child to be the best one, meanwhile, I know, it must pay much consideration, perhaps, my child will hate me, maybe she or he will think I am a bad mother, or others, but I believe, in the future, when they get the top of success, in that time, they will understand my heart, and in that time, I will release them, lets they free. Second, the social is really cruel, complex, when a child is born, them just like a piece of blank sheet, there is no chance that I will let anyone to destroy my babe, even themselves! Im not allow that things happen to my child life. And now, I think in our class, many