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EQPlaysaRoleinPersonalSuccess Members DengJing ZhangXiaolu ZhangYaping KongXiangwei WhatisEQ Mixedmodel ThemodelintroducedbyDanielGolemanfocusesonEIasawidearrayofcompetenciesandskillsthatdriveleadershipperformance EmotionalQuotient EmotionalintelligenceEI istheabilitytomonitorone sownandotherpeople semotions todiscriminatebetweendifferentemotionsandlabelthemappropriately andtouseemotionalinformationtoguidethinkingandbehavior Goleman smodeloutlinesfivemainEIconstructs 1 Self awareness theabilitytoknowone semotions strengths weaknesses drives valuesandgoalsandrecognizetheirimpactonotherswhileusinggutfeelingstoguidedecisions 2 Self regulation involvescontrollingorredirectingone sdisruptiveemotionsandimpulsesandadaptingtochangingcircumstances 3 Socialskill managingrelationshipstomovepeopleinthedesireddirection4 Empathy consideringotherpeople sfeelingsespeciallywhenmakingdecision5 Motivation beingdriventoachieveforthesakeofachievement EQPlaysaRoleinPersonalSuccess Para 1Itturnsoutthatascientistcanseethefuturebywatchingfour year oldsinteractwithapieceofcandy Theresearcherinvitesthechildren onebyone intoaplainroomandbeginsthegentletorture Youcanhavethispieceofcandyrightnow hesays ButifyouwaitwhileIleavetheroomforawhile youcanhavetwopiecesofcandywhenIgetback Andthenheleaves PassageReading PassageReading Para 2Somechildrengrabforthetreattheminutehe soutthedoor Somelastafewminutesbeforetheygivein Butothersaredeterminedtowait Theycovertheireyes theyputtheirheadsdown theysingtothemselves theytrytoplaygamesorevenfallasleep Whentheresearcherreturns hegivesthesechildrentheirhard earnedpiecesofcandy Andthen sciencewaitsforthemtogrowup PassageReading Para 3Bythetimethechildrenreachhighschool somethingremarkablehashappened Asurveyofthechildren sparentsandteachersfoundthatthosewhoasfour year oldshadenoughself controltoholdoutforthesecondpieceofcandygenerallygrewuptobebetteradjusted morepopular adventurous confidentanddependableteenagers Thechildrenwhogaveintotemptationearlyonweremorelikelytobelonely easilyfrustratedandinflexible Theycouldnotendurestressandshiedawayfromchallenges 1 AccordingtoDanielGoleman smodel whichpartofthefour year oldchildrens emotionalintelligencehasbeentested Key Self regulationThekeyswhodidnotgiveintothetemptationofthefirstpiceofcandy haveagoodself regulationabilitywhenfacedwiththegentletorture Question1 2 Whatisthefindingoftheexperimentconcerningwatchingfour year oldsinteractwithapieceofcandy Key Thosefour year oldswhohadenoughself controltoholdoutforthesecondpieceofcandygenerallygrewuptobebetteradjusted morepopular adventurous confidentanddependableteenagers Skimthefirstthreeparagraphstofind Question2 Itturnsoutthat Itisprovedthat Sth turnsouttobe sb turnsouttodosth sth sb isdiscoveredtobe dosth 人们发现 Itturnsoutthatascientistcanseethefuturebywatchingfour year oldsinteractwithapieceofcandy 原来他们还是孩子时她就认识他了 Itturnedoutthatshehadknownhimwhentheywerechildren Itturnsoutthat clause 人们发现 人生总是交替于成功与失败之间 交替于A和B之间alternatebetweenAandB Itturnsoutthatlifealwaysalternatesbetweensuccessandfailure Itturnsoutthat clause Theminutethat assoonas 2 Somechildrengrabforthetreattheminutehe soutthedoor 我一见到他就知道出事了 IrecognizedhimtheminuteIsawhim Theminute that IsawhimIknewsomethingwaswrong 我一眼就认出了他 Thesetwochemicalsinteractwitheachotheratacertaintemperaturetoproduceasubstancewhichcouldcauseanexplosion 这两种化学品在一定的温度下互相作用 会产生一种能引起爆炸的物质 3 interactwithtocommunicatewithorreactwith eachother note quicklyputoutyourhandtocatchsth 想抓住某物 溺水之人想抓住最后一根稻草但最终还是没抓住 Thedrowningmangrabbedforthelaststrawbutinvainintheend 4 grabfor Itoftenturnsoutthatwhatonegrabsformostisnottrulyimportantinlife 人们常常发现 一个人最想抓住的并非人生真正重要的 grabfor note agreetodosth thatyouhadatfirstopposed让步 giveaway泄露giveout分发 耗尽 发表giveup放弃 自首 不再指望 5 givein Hiswifewentonathimsomuchthateventuallyhegavein 妻子不停地责怪他 他最终只好让步 Hetriedtosmileanaturalsmile buthisvoicegavehimaway 他努力笑得自然些 可他的声音出卖了他 givein note notacceptanythinglessthanyouhaveaskedfor坚持要 对于那些坚持终生追求不动摇的人 困难只能是增添其信心的砝码 Forthosewhoholdoutfortheirlifelongpursuit difficultiesarenothingbutweightsinfavoroftheirconfidence holdoutfor Theleastacceptablethingaboutlifeisthatalloneholdsoutforturnsouttobenaught 人生最不能接受的 莫过于自己所坚持的一切最终化为乌有 holdoutfor note avoidsomethingoravoiddoingsomethingbecauseofdislike fear orlackofconfidence 6 shyawayfrom 我从不在困难的工作前退缩 I venevershiedawayfromhardwork Thegirlshiedawayfromlookingtheboyintheeye 女孩很害羞 不敢正视男孩 shyawayfrom WhenwethinkofbrillianceweseeEinstein athinkingmachinewithskinandmismatchedsocks butwhy overtime naturaltalentseemstowakeninsomepeopleanddiminothers secondpart Skimming Nowskimtheparagraph4and5asquicklyasyoucanandanswerthesequestions 1 Whatisthemasterskillattachedtohighachievers 2 Whatquestionscouldnotbraintheoryexplain 3 DoyouthinkhowcanwedevelopEmotionalIntelligence Wordsandphrases bewiredforsth havealltheconditionsforsth towork eg Highachievers weimagine werewiredforgreatnessfrombirth 在我们想像中 取得卓越成就的人一出生就注定会不平凡 你具备了成就大业的素质 但关键找到用武之地 Youarewiredforagreatundertaking butthekeypointistofindaplacewhereyoucangivefullplaytoyourtalents atriumphofAoverB avictoryofAoverB A战胜B eg Itseemsthattheabilitytodelayrewardisamasterskill atriumphofthelogicalbrainovertheirresponsibleone 看来似乎能耐心等待收益的能力是最重要的技巧 这里 逻辑性强的思考战胜了不负责任的思考 在这场篮球比赛中 红队最终战胜了蓝队Therewasafinaltriumphoftheredteamovertheblueteam showup appear arrive oftenafteradelay 我请他八点钟来 可他到九点半才到 Iinvitedhimforeighto clock buthedidn tshowupuntilnine thirty 我们预计会有30人来 但有一半人根本没有露面 Wewereexpectingthirtypeopletocome buthalfofthemnevershowedup worship tohaveastrongfeelingofrespectandadmirationforpeopleorobjects oftenwithoutbeingawareoftheirfaults eg Formostofthiscentury scientistshaveworshippedthehardwareofthebrainandthesoftwareofthemind 在本世纪大部分时间 科学家们一直重视大脑这个具体之物和理智这个无形之物 他不喜欢那些崇拜权利和金钱的人 Hedislikesthosewhoworshippowerandmoney upbeat fullofhope happinessandgoodfeelings 我们的目标是在广告宣传活动中传递乐观的信息 We reaimingtodeliveranupbeatmessageinouradvertisingcampaign endup finishbybecoming sth ordoing sth 走遍世界各地之后 她最终当了一名教英语的外语老师Afterworkingherwayaroundtheworld sheendedupteachingEnglishasaforeignlanguage onsight assoonasyouseesomeoneorsomething 他好像一见到她就已不喜欢她 然而他对她一无所知 Heseemedtohavehatedheronsight yetheknewnothingabouther agiftfor of doing sth 她具备难得的自嘲天赋Shehasararegiftforlaughingatherself Youhave3minutestoreadparagraph6 7andthenanswerfollowquestions PerceptionsareRelative Whenitcomestopredictingpeople ssuccess braincapacityasmeasuredbyIQmayactuallymatterlessthanthequalitiesofmindoncethoughtofas character Accroddingtoparagraph7 WhatdoestheauthorthinkaboutEmotionalIntelligence WhatisthetheoryproposedbyEmotionalIntelligencebyDanielGoleman WhatisDanielGoleman sgoalofpublishingEmotionalIntelligence Hisgoalistoredefinewhatitmeanstobesmart thebookwouldnotbequitesointerestingoritsimplicationssocontroversial Thephrase emotionalintelligence wascreatedtotodescribequalitiessuchasunderstandingandregulatingone semotionAccordingtoDanielGoleman whenwepredictaperson ssuccess braincapacitymaybelessimportantthanthequalitiesofmind coinv inventanewwordorexpressionPara 6Line1 这个词是在20世纪40年代二战期间被创造出来的 Thewordwascoinedinthe1940 sduringtheSecondWorldWar Thephrase emotionalintelligence wascoinedbyresearchersfiveyearsagotodescribequalitieslikeunderstandingone sownfeelings 情感智能 一词是研究人员五年前创造出来的 用以描绘人的一些素质 诸如对自身感觉的了解 isabouttohavetheintentionofdoingsth immediatelyPara 6Line3 他眼看要睡熟了 这时电话铃响了 Hewasabouttofallasleepwhenthetelephonerang 由于丹尼尔 戈尔曼的新书 情感智能 这一概念很快会成为国内谈论的话题 为方便起见简称为 情商 Thisnotionisabouttoboundintothenationalconversation convenientlyshortenedtoEQ thankstoanewbook EmotionalIntelligencebyDanielGoleman thankstobecauseofPara 6Line4 多亏了这种治疗 他的病情好多了 Thankstothistreatment hisconditionhasimproved atfirstglancewhenfirstlookingatsomethingPara 7Line1 乍一看 我还以为她是个不错的人 可是我错了 AtfirstglanceIthoughtofherasanicepersonbutIwasmistaken Atfirstglance therewouldseemtobelittlethat snewhere 乍一看来 此说并无新意 have getauthorityoverhavetheabilityorpowertocontrolPara 7Line2 军官有权指挥其下属的士兵 Anofficerhasauthorityoverthesoldiersunderhim Theremaybenolessoriginalideathanthenotionthatourheartshaveauthorityoverourheads 它与感情掌管头脑的说法一样并无创见 amountstohavethesameeffectasPara 7Line3 对其说法不同 而实际上是一回事 Itisstateddifferentlybutamountstothesamething Neitherisitsurprisingthat peopleskills areuseful whichamountstosayingit sgoodtobenice 与人交往的技巧 非常有用 此说也不令人吃惊 这就等于说与人为善是对的 Self awareness theabilitytoknowone semotions strengths weaknesses drives valuesandgoalsandrecognizetheirimpactonotherswhileusinggutfeelingstoguidedecisions Self regulation involvescontrollingorredirectingone sdisruptiveemotionsandimpulsesandadaptingtochangingcircumstances Socialskill managingrelationshipstomovepeopleinthedesireddirectionEmpathy consideringotherpeople sfeelingsespeciallywhenmakingdecisionMotivation beingdriventoachieveforthesakeofachievement Paragraph8Question Inthisparagraph autorreferstomanyexamplestoillustratetwolittlestandpoints youhavetwominutesfindingthem answer EQinvestigationisnotabstract ithaspracticalapplicationsourlifehaveademandforbasicemotionaleducation Thissectiontellsusthatemotionaleducationisimportantinourlife weshoudtakeitseriously LastParagraphQuestion whatdoresearchersworryaboutwhenpeopletalkaboutEQ answer peoplemaygiveaone sidedcommentonother sEQIncorrectnotion HighEQequalstolowIQ 1 contentanalysis 2 phrase howcouplescanincreasetheoddsthattheirmarriageswilllast夫妇该如何提高婚姻延续的可能性theoddsthat clause thechancesthat 可能性exampleHighEQcanaddgreatlytotheoddsthatyouadvanceincareer 高情商可以极大地促进你成功的可能性 Whenstreetgangssubstituteforfamiliesandschoolyardinsultsendinknifeattacks当街头团伙取代了家庭环境 当校园辱骂导致了打架斗殴 substitutefor taketheplaceof usesomethingtoreplacesomethingelse替代exampleHewassubstitutedforanotherathletebecauseofhisinjury 他因受伤被另一名运动员替换下场 somepeopleareblessedwithalotofboth butsomewithlittleofeither 一些人有幸两者都很高 一些人则两者都很低 beblessedwith havesomethingverygoodorspecial被赋予exampleBlessedwithoutstandingtalentandboundlessenergy hecanbeseenasthebe