口语演讲 男女差别.doc

English name: EmilyChinese name: Zhao Ze JingProfessor: Whitney LeeStudent Number：2121140039 December, 2012 What women tell and what they really meanIt is a universally excepted truth that women dont always mean what they say. We dont really have a secret language, but we manage to have secret meanings for a lot of the simple and really basic things we say. Guys, I know you have been puzzled by the opposite sex and by no means do we make it easy for you. We say one thing, we mean another. We rarely ever say just what we mean. We only expect you to read our minds, whats wrong with that? Well, in case youre not a mind reader, here are some tips for you on your journey to understanding women. First things first, if you think you understand what we mean when we say certain phrases, you probably dont. If you think we mean one thing, we usually mean another. Here are some examples. When a girl says:1. Im fine: Guys this is a red flag for you. If a girl responds to one of your questions, with an Im fine, I can almost guarantee you she is not. If we say this, we are more than likely pissed at you for something you probably dont even know you did. We are not fine and you better be careful. This typically means we are unhappy. You still need to watch out. 2. Leave me alone:Now this one is tricky. Because when we tell someone to leave us alone, nine times out of ten, we want you to do the opposite. Why do we do this? I dont know, were women, and were just weird like that. Whatever you do, do not leave us alone. Again, this probably means something is wrong and we either need to talk about it or need your comfort. Leave me alone means, please dont leave me alone. Keep this in mind.3. Will you do this for me: Guys, just because this is phrased like a question, do not be deceived. We are not offering you an option here. When we ask you to do something for us, we mean youd better do it, not you get a choice. Your best choice is to do whatever can make us happy. I know this seems a little crazy, but like I said before, were women, sometimes there is no rhyme or reason to the madness. 4. Thanks a lotYoure not being thanked. We are not grateful. When we say thanks a lot you have done something thats really pissed us off. Thanks a lot will usually be followed by a loud sigh. Be sensitive enough to ask where you went wrong, but be prepared to accept nothing for an answer.These are just parts of the “secret words”. But if you have a good knowledge of these words women use, you will have a better than average chance of surviving a negative encounter. Actually what women really want from men, is to be loved, respected and appreciated. Please treat us as you would want us to trea