TED英文演讲：过错并不能定义你的人生

tedted 英文演讲 过错并不能定义你的英文演讲 过错并不能定义你的 人生人生 在 1991 年时枪杀了一名男子 他说自己曾是 带着半自动手 枪的急性子毒贩 他被判两级谋杀罪而入狱服刑 故事通常在 此画下句号 但相反的 故事仍未结束 这是多年赎罪旅程的 开端 也是一个带给我们谦恭与朴实课题的故事 下面是小编 为大家收集关于 ted 英文演讲 过错并不能定义你的人生 欢 迎借鉴参考 演讲者 演讲者 shaka senghor 中英文演讲稿中英文演讲稿 twenty three years ago at the age of 19 i shot and killed a man i was a young drug dealer with a quick temper and a semi automatic pistol but that wasnt the end of my story in fact it was beginning and the 23 years since is a story of acknowledgment apology and atonement but it didnt happen in the way that you might imagine or think these things occurred in my life in a way that was surprising especially to me see like many of you growing up i was an honor roll student a scholarship student with dreams of becoming a doctor but things went dramatically wrong when my parents separated and eventually divorced the actual events are pretty straightforward at the age of 17 i got shot three times standing on the corner of my block in detroit my friend rushed me to the hospital doctors pulled the bullets out patched me up and sent me back to the same neighborhood where i got shot throughout this ordeal no one hugged me no one counseled me no one told me i would be okay no one told me that i would live in fear that i would become paranoid or that i would react hyper violently to being shot no one told me that one day i would become the person behind the trigger fourteen months later at 2 a m i fired the shots that caused a mans death when i entered prison i was bitter i was angry i was hurt i didnt want to take responsibility i blamed everybody from my parents to the system i rationalized my decision to shoot because in the hood where i come from its better to be the shooter than the person getting shot as i sat in my cold cell i felt helpless unloved and abandoned i felt like nobody cared and i reacted with hostility to my confinement and i found myself getting deeper and deeper into trouble i ran black market stores i loan sharked and i sold drugs that were illegally smuggled into the prison i had in fact become what the warden of the michigan reformatory called the worst of the worst and because of my activity i landed in solitary confinement for seven and a half years out of my incarceration now as i see it solitary confinement is one of the most inhumane and barbaric places you can find yourself but find myself i did one day i was pacing my cell when an officer came and delivered mail i looked at a couple of letters before i looked at the letter that had my sons squiggly handwriting on it and anytime i would get a letter from my son it was like a ray of light in the darkest place you can imagine and on this particular day i opened this letter and in capital letters he wrote my mama told me why you was in prison murder he said dad dont kill jesus watches what you do pray to him now i wasnt religious at that time nor am i religious now but it was something so profound about my sons words they made me examine things about my life that i hadnt considered it was the first time in my life that i had actually thought about the fact that my son would see me as a murderer i sat back on my bunk and i reflected on something i had read in plato where socrates stated in apology that the unexamined life isnt worth living at that point is when the transformation began but it didnt come easy one of the things i realized which was part of the transformation was that there were four key things the first thing was i had great mentors now i know some of you all are probably thinking how did you find a great mentor in prison but in my case some of my mentors who are serving life sentences were some of the best people to ever come into my life because they forced me to look at my life honestly and they forced me to challenge myself about my decision making the second thing was literature prior to going to prison i didnt know that there were so many brilliant black poets authors and philosophers and then i had the great fortune of encountering malcolm xs autobiography and it shattered every stereotype i had about myself the third thing was family for 19 years my father stood by my side with an unshakable faith because he believed that i had what it took to turn my life around i also met an amazing woman who is now the mother of my two year old son sekou and she taught me how to love myself in a healthy way the final thing was writing when i got that letter from my son i began to write a journal about things i had experienced in my childhood and in prison and what it did is it opened up my mind to the idea of atonement earlier in my incarceration i had received a letter from one of the relatives of my victim and in that letter she told me she forgave me because she realized i was a young child who had been abused and had been through some hardships and just made a series of poor decisions it was the first time in my life that i ever felt open to forgiving myself one of the things that happened after that experience is that i thought about the other men who were incarcerated alongside of me and how much i wanted to share this with them and so i started talking to them about some of their experiences and i was devastated to realize that most of them came from the same abusive environments and most of them wanted help and they wanted to turn it around but unfortunately the system that currently holds 2 5 million people in prison is designed to warehouse as opposed to rehabilitate or transform so i made it up in my mind that if i was ever released from prison that i would do everything in my power to help change that in 20 xx i walked out of prison for the first time after two decades now imagine if you will fred flintstone walking into an episode of the jetsons that was pretty much what my life was like for the first time i was exposed to the internet social media cars that talk like kitt from knight rider but the thing that fascinated me the most was phone technology see when i went to prison our car phones were this big and required two people to carry them so imagine what it was like when i first grabbed my little blackberry and i started learning how to text but the thing is the people around me they didnt realize that i had no idea what all these abbreviated texts meant like lol omg lmao until one day i was having a conversation with one of my friends via text and i asked him to do something and he responded back k and i was like what is k and he was like k is okay so in my head i was like well what the hell is wrong with k and so i text him a question mark and he said k okay and so i tap back fu laughter and then he texts back and he asks me why was i cussing him out and i said lol fu as in i finally understand and so fast forward three years im doing relatively good i have a fellowship at mit media lab i work for an amazing company called bme i teach at the university of michigan but its been a struggle because i realize that there are more men and women coming home who are not going to be afforded those opportunities ive been blessed to work with some amazing men and women helping others reenter society and one of them is my friend named calvin evans he served 24 years for a crime he didnt commit hes 45 years old hes currently enrolled in college and one of the things that we talked about is the three things that i found important in my personal transformation the first being acknowledgment i had to acknowledge that i had hurt others i also had to acknowledge that i had been hurt the second thing was apologizing i had to apologize to the people i had hurt even though i had no expectations of them accepting it it was important to do because it was the right thing but i also had to apologize to myself the third thing was atoning for me atoning meant going back into my community and working with at risk youth who were on the same path but also becoming at one with myself through my experience of being locked up one of the things i discovered is this the majority of men and women who are incarcerated are redeemable and the fact is 90 percent of the men and women who are incarcerated will at some point return to the community and we have a role in determining what kind of men and women return to our community my wish today is that we will embrace a more empathetic approach toward how we deal with mass incarceration that we will do away with the lock them up and throw away the key mentality because its proven it doesnt work my journey is a unique journey but it doesnt have to be that way anybody can have a transformation if we create the space for that to happen so what im asking today is that you envision a world where men and women arent held hostage to their pasts where misdeeds and mistakes dont define you for the rest of your life i think collectively we can create that reality and i hope you do too thank you 二十三年以前 在我十九岁的时候 我击中并杀害了一 个人 我那时是年轻的贩毒者 脾气暴躁 有一只半自动的 手枪 但我的故事并未在此结束 相反 它刚刚开始 这接下 来的 20 xx 年 是一个关于承认 道歉 和补偿的故事 是一个 关于承认 道歉 和补偿的故事 但这故事并没有 以你可能 正在想象或认为的的方式发生 尤其是对我来说 这些事情 在我生命中以一种令人惊讶的方式发生 看 我像你们中的很多人一样长大 我是一个优秀生 一个有奖学金的学生 有着成为一个医生的梦想 但是戏剧 性的 当我父母分家并最终离婚时 一切都变了 具体的事件其实很简单 在我 17 岁的时候 我被枪击中 了三次 就在底特律我所居住的那个街区 我朋友赶忙把我送 到医院 医生们把子弹拔出来 把伤口缝好 又把我送回到 了我被枪击的街区 在这次磨难中 没有人抱过我 没有人 安慰我 没有人跟我说 一切都会好起来的 没有人告诉过 我 我会一直活在恐惧中 我会变成偏执狂 或者我对 被枪 击 的反应将会极端暴力 或者我对 被枪击 的反应将会极端 暴力 没人告诉我 有一天 我会变成扣动扳机的那个人 十四个月之后 在凌晨两点 我开了一枪 并造成了一个人 的死亡 当我进监狱时 我很痛苦 我很愤怒 我很受伤 我不 想承担这个责任 我把自己的过失归罪于所有人 从我的父 母 到社会制度 我使自己开枪的动机合理化 因为在我的 成长阴影里 做一个射击者 总好过被别人开枪击中 当我坐 在我冰冷的牢房里 我感觉十分无助 无人关爱 并被世界 遗弃 我觉得没有人在乎我 于是我带着敌意 反抗对我的监 禁 然后我就发现 自己越来越深得陷入了麻烦 我在监狱 里经营黑市 放高利贷 出售非法偷运进监狱的毒品 出售 非法偷运进监狱的毒品 事实上 我的确成为了 密歇根少年 教养院院长口中的 恶中之恶 因为我的这些恶行 在我的 刑期中有七年半 我都被单独禁闭起来 我都被单独禁闭起 来 如今当我回顾时 单人监禁是你所能找到的 是最无人道 和最残酷的地方之一 而我正置身其中 一天 我正在牢房里 踱步 一个狱警进来派发邮件 我先读了一些信件 然后我 看到了那封来自儿子的信 他手写的字母还歪歪扭扭 每当 我收到我儿子写的信 那信就像一束光 射进了你能想象到 的最黑暗的地方 在那天 我打开这封信 儿子用大写字母 写道 妈妈告诉我 你是因为谋杀而入狱的 他说 爸 爸 别杀人 上帝能看到你的一举一动 向他祈祷吧 我当时并不信教 我现在也不信教 但在我儿子的话中 我看到了一些很深奥的东西 这些东西使我审视我的生命 思考那些我以前从未细思过的事情 我第一次想到 我儿子 将会视我为一个杀人犯 我儿子将会视我为一个杀人犯 我 坐回我的铺位上 柏拉图 中的片段在我脑中闪现 柏 拉图 中的片段在我脑中闪现 在 申辩篇 中苏格拉底说道 浑浑噩噩的生活不值得过 这一刻 是我生命转变的开始 但想转变并非轻而易举 在转变中 我意识到 关键点有四个 第一 我有很好的导 师 我知道你们有些人可能在想 你是怎么在监狱里找到很 好的导师呢 但是在我的经历中 我的一些导师 尽管处于终 身监禁 却是我走进我生命中的最好的人 因为他们迫使我去 诚实地看待自己的经历 也迫使我去挑战我曾做过的决定 也迫使我去挑战我曾做过的决定 第二件重要之物是文学 在进监狱之前 我并不知道世 界上有这么多优秀的黑人诗人 作者和哲学家 但之后我读了 malcolm x 的自传 这对我来说是宝贵的财富 它动摇了我对 自己所有的成见 它动摇了我对自己所有的成见 第三件重要之物是家庭 20 xx 年来 我父亲一直支持着我 因为他相信我有能力 把自己的生活转入正轨 把自己的生活 转入正轨 我也遇到了一位令人赞叹的女性 她就是我两岁 儿子 sekou 的母亲 她教会了我 如何用一种健康的方式爱自 己 最后一件重要之物是写作 当我收到我儿子的来信时 我开始写一本日记 记载我童年和在监狱里的经历 记载我童 年和在监狱里的经历 以及这些经历是怎样让我 明白 补偿 的概念 在我被囚禁的早期 我曾接到过一封来自受害人家 属的信 信里 她说她已经原谅我了 因为她意识到我只是 个 幼时被虐待过的孩子 还经历过许多苦难 才会做出一系 列错误的决定 这是我此生第一次 觉得或许我也能够原谅自 己 收到这封信之后 收到这封信之后 我想到在我身边 其 他被囚禁的人们 我想把这种感悟分享给他们 于是我就开 始和他们聊天 了解他们所经历过的事 令我极为震惊的是 他们中的大部分都曾和我一样在幼时饱受虐待 他们渴望得到 帮助 渴望改正自己 可不幸的是 现在的体系 像个仓库 关押了 250 万的囚犯 像个仓库 关押了 250 万的囚犯 却 没有帮助他们改过自新 转变观念 所以我暗下决心 如果 有一天我能被从监狱里释放 我会竭尽全力去改变这样的现状 我会竭尽全力去改变这样的现状