跨文化交际_Unit_3

Unit3DailyVerbalCommunication Compliments gratitude apology PracticalCourseforInterculturalCommunication Everytalecanbetoldinadifferentway GreekProverbBynaturepeoplearenearlyalike bypracticetheygettobewideapart Confucius 性相近 习相远 Case1AnInvitationtoDinner Whilenotparticularlyreligiousthemselves theystillfeltthattheirchildrenmightbenefitfrombelongingtoachurch P41 para1 l 2 AsenseofbelongingMoral ethicalguidanceSundayschooleducation SundayschoolnounaclassheldonSundaystoteachchildrenaboutChristianity主日学校 星期日学校 在周日对儿童进行基督教教育的学校 Sundayschool Case1AnInvitationtoDinner FirstCommunionTheFirstCommunion orFirstHolyCommunion isaCatholicChurchceremony Itisthecolloquialnameforaperson sfirstreceptionoftheSacramentoftheHolyEucharist 圣餐 thebodyandbloodofJesusChrist Catholicsbelievethiseventtobeveryimportant astheEucharistisoneofthecentralfocusesoftheCatholicChurch Case1AnInvitationtoDinner Thisisaonce in a life timegatheringformydaughter Howcanyouchooseoveraregularparty Case1AnInvitationtoDinner Discussion Howwouldyoumediatetheirstrainedrelationshipifyouwerethedirector Case1AnInvitationtoDinner Comments 1 differenceinthewaysinwhichtheyprepareforadinnerFilipinospreparemorefoodthanenoughandwouldn tmindiftherewereleftovers Americanspreparefoodaccordingtothenumberofguests Case1AnInvitationtoDinner 2 differentconceptaboutthefirstcommunionFriends gathering religiouscelebration Case1AnInvitationtoDinner Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerParty Howcouldyouembarrassmeasmyfriend WhichdoyouthinkisthetruereasonaboutJose scancellationofthedinnerparty Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerParty Case2TheCancellationoftheDinnerParty InthePhilippines apersoncannotbeafriendandacriticatthesametime oratleastnotinpublic InNewZealand afriendcanopenlyprovideconstructivecriticism Solution Stanshouldvoicehiscommentsinprivate particularlytosoutheasternAsians Case3Whyshouldtheydolikethis Hello I mstillhere bBesides youarereallyloud Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby NoEtiquette NoSeeingOutWhenGuestLeaves Nooffense butweCanadiansdonotseetheguestsoutwhentheyareleaving Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby NoEtiquette NoStand upWhenYourLeaderComesIn Youdon thavetooffermeseatunlessyouaregoingout Chineseareaccustomedtorespectingallthoseinauthority Case4TheEmbarrassmentCausedby NoEtiquette Idon tneedyourhelp DoyouthinkI moldanduseless Inthewest thereisnoneedtohelpoldpeopleunlesstheyaskforhelp ComplimentsandComplimentResponses ComplimentsandComplimentResponses Example1 It sexquisite Thecolorsaresobeautiful It sjustanordinarydress Appropriateresponse Thankyou Iamflattered It sagiftfrommyboyfriend Implication TheAmericanwoman stasteinclothingwasquestionable ComplimentsandComplimentResponses Example2 Mr ChenisanoutstandingphysicistandoneofthenicestpeopleIknow ShouldIblush orshouldItellhimyoudon treallymeanit Appropriateresponse Nicetomeetyou Implication Thehostesswasnotsincere ComplimentsandComplimentResponses Fishingforcompliments Growingflowerismyhobby butI mnotmuchgoodatit Ireallyknowlittleaboutthesubject SocialFunctionsofCompliments Otherfunctions EncouragingpeopleSofteningcriticismStartingaconversation DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments Example1 Youlookterrifictonight Mary Flatterwillgetyounowhere Mr Jackson Flirtation Orjustsubtlerelationship Example2 DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments GenerosityisafinequalitythatChinesecherish P52 DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments TheSemanticFormula Englishcomplimentscontainoneofahighlyrestrictedsetofadjectivesandverbs P52 Thiswasagreatmeal Ilikeyourhaircut InChinese positivewordsexpressingcomplimentsaremainlyadjectives adverbsandverbs P53 你的裙子很漂亮 你干得不错 你该受表扬 DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments TheSemanticFormula Englishcomplimentsoftenbeginwiththepronoun I Ilikeyourhaircut Iloveyourglasses Ireallyenjoyedyourclass Chinesecomplimentsoftenbeginwiththepronouns you or your 你的裙子很漂亮 你干得不错 你该受表扬 DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments TheSyntacticFormula EnglishcomplimentsNPis looksreallyADJe g Yourshoesaregorgeous Ireallylike loveNPe g Ireallylikeyourpaintings PROisreally intensifier aADJNPe g That sreallyabeautifulgarden DifferencesBetweenChineseandEnglishCompliments TheSyntacticFormula ChinesecomplimentsYouVADVe g 你干得不错 NP You is intensifier ADJe g 你的外套真漂亮 PROisADJNPe g 那真是一幅不错的挂历 PRO You V deserve Oe g 你值得称赞 IlikeNPe g 我喜欢这张画 CommonResponseFormulasofEnglishandChineseCompliments 才花了我十元 大家努力的结果 还差得远哩 ResponsesinAmericanEnglish I mgladyoulikeit Thankyou Thanks ResponsesinChinese NativeEnglishspeakerstendtoacceptthecompliments atleastinform Chinesetendtoeffacethemselvesinwords althoughtheydofeelcomfortableaboutthecompliments P55 Youlookterrifictoday Oh well tomorrowI lljustgobacktobeingmyself Youdidbeautifuljob Oh well ithadtohappensometime Exceptions NativeEnglishspeakersalsouseself effacingresponsestocompliments Youlookterrifictoday Yes it sthenewme Ofcourse whatdidyouexpect Exceptions WhenaChineseisinanexceedinglygoodmoodorbeingwiththemostintimatefriends heorshemaysay P56 CulturalAssumption You vegainedweight You velostweight ExpressionsofGratitudeandapologyinEnglishandChinese Forminorfavors suchpoliteexpressionsareoftenneglectedbyChinese especiallyamongclosefriendsandmembersofthe