winner and loser译文

赢家和输家The word winner and loser have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society. “赢家”和“输家”这个词有很多种意思。当我们是指一个人是一个赢家时,我们并非指他是一个让他人一败涂地的人。我们所说的赢家是能真实地表现出守信、可信、敏锐、诚恳的一个个体及社会中的一员。Winners do not dedicate their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence, and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask. 赢家不会用尽其一生去塑造为别人印象中的形象;相反,自己就是自己，同样他们也不会把精力去演戏，去伪装或去摆布他人。他很清楚，表面爱你的人未必真爱你，表面愚蠢的人未必真愚蠢，表面能说会道的人未必真就知识渊博。赢家是不需要躲在面具后面的。Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge. They can separate facts from opinions and dont pretend to have all the answers. They listen to others, evaluate what they say, but come to their own conclusions. Although winners can admire and respect other people, they are not totally defined, demolished, bound, or awed by them.成功者不怕独立思考和运用其自己的知识。他们能够在事实与舆论之间明辨是非,而且不会假装知道所有答案。他们倾听他人意见,对他们的言论做出评判,但是他会得出自己的主见。尽管赢家仰慕和尊敬他人,但他们不会完全被他人左右,推翻,束缚,或者慑服。 Winners do not play helpless, nor do they play the blaming game. Instead, they a