爸爸想对女儿说的话（What daddy wanted to say to his daughter）

1、爸爸想对女儿说的话（What daddy wanted to say to his daughter）The society has too many of the jungle, if you dont know that any one is enough to make you head broken and bleeding. This one of the most secret strange rules, if you do not know, even if you win the whole world, finally can let you in the invisibl

2、e and the most qualified doomed eternally, and most worthy of your trust, my father is going to tell you, so every girl should remember, should understand.Father said: the greatest enemy of women is not time, not rights, not money, not even themselves, but men and love that cannot extricate themselv

3、es.Dad said: in addition to me, and your future husband, who is not worth you paid too much for me, because I give you half a lifetime of love to pay for your husband, because the rest of your love, he will be to.My father said, dont cry for a man, even for me, she said. Women should put their caree

4、r and dreams first, and men will always be second or third.Dad said: let your enemy know who you like, but dont let her know who youre falling in love with. Once you do that, its not just you. Even the man you love is in danger.Dad said: women should be strong, should not only know how to cry, unles

5、s your beloved left you, you can shed tears, otherwise, who is not worth it.Women can learn to drink, but they cant get drunk on any occasion, says dad.Dad said: to be a taste of the woman, must be generous, gentle, smooth and clean in content.Dad said: life should be low-key, we should know that th

6、e gun hit the bird, and more want to go out of their heads, what problems will be encountered?.Father said: women also have to play, every woman must have a circle, standing in this circle of people, it is worth your life to guard, as to who, who outside, will see their own skills.Dad said: friends,

7、 not too pure, otherwise you will slowly be secular gold coat blind, as long as you have the ability to pay, but not rape, fraud, bad but not slippery, because of this, you can watch out for yourself if he was playing, whether he played.Dad said: do not believe any person in the most dangerous time,

8、 in addition to their loved ones, who cant believe, we will not harm you, others say.Dad said: I want you to do, is a noble, rather than an upstart, so no matter how much you have, no matter in what place, to be humble, polite, modest study he will not be neither humble nor pushy, and do not know, o

9、nly in this way, you can continue to progress, climb the peak.Dad said: in my deathbed hundred years, I dont want you to ensure that there is more rich, more right, but I want to assure you that you have the ability to create wealth and get right in this way, I was assured.Father said: love may love

10、, but do not love deeply. Dont let the man you like affect your work, or let your job influence the man you like.Dad said: girl alone at home, by any grievances, dont give up, dont be angry, you should keep in mind, one day, all of them pay back.Dad said: dont do what you regret, to do, do the thing

11、s that others regret, a lifetime is not long, if you live in the memories, and then abolished.Dad said: dont believe the oath, dont believe the promise, the fact can prove everything, the person who really loves you, wont give you too many vows and promises.Dad said: I most despise not filial person

12、, you should stay away from those who do not obey a bit further, even their loved ones because they do not care, how will you care about this stranger?Dad said: do not look at yourself too low, as you have more people, do not look at yourself too high, you do not have as many people, you have to do,

13、 is to make the former more, the latter less.Mommys busy? My father taught my daughter for my mother Ha ha, joking! In fact, a lot of truth, mom does not understand, or dad understand, these words are very worthy of girls to study and understand things! So, no matter what my father said or my mother

14、 said, please write down, there are always a lot of problems on the way of life, but only when I understand the truth of being a man will I be good at myself!Teach post-80s parents how to do good parent-child communicationMost parents are busy now, especially fathers, who often have no time to commu

15、nicate with their children or even eat with their children. Suggested mother to create family dinner opportunities, as father and child communication lubricant, with family meal build a platform to communicate with the childs mind.Fathers eat with children, according to a new study in britain,Help t

16、o improve childrens communication skills, if little family dinner, the children and their parents is deprived of the opportunity to talk; the Columbia University for a study of children aged 1217 showed that compared with their parents eat dinner with children, the family to dinner a week more than

17、5 teenagers, bad temptation opportunities reduce.Case oneLius home in the west, and her husband in the east of the city work, because business is busy, far away, a few times a month to return home, and Ms. Liu also often work overtime, son from 8 years old began to learn to live independently. But a

18、 few days ago, Ms. Liu saw at home that the 13 year old son had a very close manner with a boy older than him.Expert moves:Family cooking dinner, leading to Lius sons emergence of this phenomenon is due to his lack of fatherly love for a long time, but also the lack of his father as a male image of

19、the establishment and guidance. Ms. Liu should think of ways to create opportunities for children to contact with his father, his father took the children to the weekend as a temporary residence, the whole family to do dinner, let the children through working together with his father, father, learn

20、to absorb more manly, and understand their own behind except the mother, father and strong attention with the company.Case twoMs. Wangs husband has been busy with his work and neglected his education. But since he was a junior high school student, he has been particularly interested in the developme

21、nt of his children. He always comes home and asks the child for a days performance and study. Can shine from junior high school, but do not want to talk to more parents, usually ask what are casually prevarication. In order to reduce the war, the husband often go out alone after dinner to go home.Ex

22、pert moves:When he was young, his father didnt have enough time to communicate with him, and his parentage was very strange. What Ms. Wang wants to do is persuade her husband to go home for dinner and talk to the children more. She can talk about the topic, let her husband praise and identify with t

23、he child more, tell the child about his childhood experience, and let the children also express their views on some things. In this way, not only can children feel important in their fathers mind, but also parents can communicate well with their children.Case threeMs. Zhangs daughter just on the pri

24、mary school, after her daughters life by her alone. Her husband recently decided to share her childs education and decided to spend an hour after supper with her daughter. A week later, the daughter said happily, I love my daddy.Expert moves:After dinner game, Ms. Zhangs husbands method is very good

25、, through dinner after an hour, let father and children fully communication. Friends, the way of communication, the child as an independent person, at this time of the parents of the child is holding an equal attitude, the childs growth will be very helpful. Montessori, a famous English educator, sa

26、id, let the child know how to take care of himself. Let him know how to wear shoes, how to dress, and how to undress. In his joy, the human dignity is reflected, because human dignity is derived from a persons independent sentiments.Successful tutoring is closely related to the language of parents,

27、says the expert. Especially the tone of parents talking to children, it will have a profound influence on childrens EQ, intelligence quotient, temperament and accomplishment.A trusting tone of voiceChildren especially want to be trusted by adults, especially parents, so show confidence when talking

28、to their children. If the child wants to learn to play badminton, you say in confidence: the stars, as long as you study hard and study hard, you will learn to play. This virtually gives the child a confidence, and let him understand, only to persist in order to succeed. If you use a sarcastic tone

29、of voice: you are three minutes like this, you still want to play? Will bring harm to the childs self-esteem, so that he is not confident of their ability.Respectful toneFrom two or three years of age, the childs self-awareness began to sprout, and as the age increases, this self-awareness will beco

30、me more intense. Children have their own ideas, that children know their strength and ability. When he makes his own opinions and demands, do not think that he does not listen to you, and against you, and violently against him. If you ask the child to learn English, but he wanted to talk about playi

31、ng buddies, you can not be angry: the more not obedient, not Study hard, see you grow up what. Doing so will only make children more disgusted with learning. Should be respectful tone: that you play for a while, however, comes to an end, you can be sure to learn english. The child is happy to accept

32、 it.The tone of discussionEvery child has self-respect. Ask a child to do something,In the tone of the discussion, let him see that he is equal to you, and that you respect him. For example, if you want your child to tidy up a litter of litter on the floor, you can say, stars, toys, litter, bad habi

33、ts. Would you please clean up your toys with mom? Never use the tone of command: whats wrong with you? Toys are thrown around. Hurry up and tidy up.! Otherwise, the child listens to you to rebuke, in the mind can have the repugnance, even if does according to your request, is also unhappy.An appreciative tone of voiceEvery child has his strengths, his desire to perform, and the discovery of a childs strengths and appreciation will make him more willing to act. The child drew a picture, perhaps not very well, but the enthusiasm a