对婚姻的看法英文

对婚姻的看法英文篇一：Hello,everybody,howareyou?Shirleyhere.大家好，你们好吗？我是Shirley。Inthisvideo,let’stalkaboutmarriage.在这个视频中，我们来谈论婚姻。So,areyoumarried?那么，你结婚了吗？Anddoyouthinkpeopleshouldgetmarriedearly?你觉得人们应该尽早结婚吗？Youknowforme,I’mmarriedandhavetwochildren.你知道对于我来说，我结婚了，有两个孩子。SoyoucanseeIgotmarriedveryearly.所以你可以看到我很早就结了。ButIdon’tthinkeveryoneshouldgetmarriedearly,但是我不认为每个人都要尽早结婚，becauseinmyopinion,因为在我看来，toahavehappymarriageweneedtofollowtwoprinciples.为了有一个幸福的婚姻，我们要遵循两个原则。First,makesureyouarereadybothpsychologicallyand

financially.首先，确保你们在心理上和经济上都准备好了。youhavetobematureandcapableenoughtostarta

familyandbecomeparents.你必须足够成熟和有能力组建家庭并成为父母。Second,findtherightperson,第二，找到对的人，youneedtofindapersonwhocanshareandrespectyourvaluesandthoughts,你需要找到一个能够分享和尊重你的价值观和想法的人，otherwise,yourlifeaftermarriagewillbeunhappy.否则，你的婚后生活会不幸福。Okay,everybody,thisismyideaaboutmarriage.好，各位，这就是我关于婚姻的看法。Seeyounexttime.Byebye!下次见。再见！

篇二：EveryyearintheUnitedStatesalone,2,077,000couplesmakealegalandspiritualdecisiontospendtherestoftheirlivestogether--Andnottohavesexwithanyoneelse.Ever.Hebuysaring,shebuysadress.Theygoshoppingforallsortsofthings.ShetakeshimtoArthurMurrayforballroom-dancinglessons.Andthebigdaycomes.Andthey'llstandbeforeGodandfamilyandsomeguyherdadoncedidbusinesswith,andthey'llvowthatnothing--notabjectpoverty,notlife-threateningillness,notcompleteanduttermisery--willeverputthetiniestdamperontheireternalloveanddevotion.

每年，仅仅在美国就有207万7000对情侣在法律上和精神上决定与对方共度一生，而且不搞外遇。绝不。他买好戒指，她购入婚纱。他们一起置办各种东西，她带他去ArthurMurray舞蹈教室上课，学跳交际舞。之后喜事来临，他们在主和家人，还包括她父亲曾经的生意伙伴的见证下，发誓无论发生何事，无论是一贫如洗还是身患绝症，抑或是遭遇彻头彻尾的苦难，都丝毫不会影响他们永恒的爱与忠诚。Eventhoughweknow,statistically,halfofthemwillbedivorcedwithinadecade.即使我们知道，统计表明，一半以上的婚姻维持不到10年。

Ofcourse,theotherhalfwon't,right?They'llkeepforgettinganniversariesandarguingaboutwheretospendholidaysanddebating--Whichwaythetoiletpapershouldcomeoffoftheroll.Andsomeofthemwillevenstillbeenjoyingeachother'scompanywhenneitherofthemcanchewsolidfoodanymore.当然，还有另一半人的婚姻尚未终结，对不对？他们会一直忘记纪念日，为去哪儿度假而争吵，互相争辩厕纸该按什么方向摆。他们中的一些人也会一直享受有对方的陪伴，直到牙齿松动，再也嚼不动固体食物。Andresearcherswanttoknowwhy.Imean,look--itdoesn'ttakeadouble-blind,placebo-controlledstudytofigureoutwhatmakesamarriagenotwork:disrespect,boredom,toomuchtimeonFacebook,havingsexwithotherpeople.Butyoucanhavetheexactoppositeofallofthosethings--respect,excitement,abrokenInternetconnection,mind-numbingmonogamy--andthethingstillcangotohellinahandbasket.So,what'sgoingonwhenitdoesn't?Whatdothefolkswhomakeitallthewaytoside-by-sideburialplotshaveincommon?Whataretheydoingright?Whatcanwelearnfromthem?Andifyou'restillhappilysleepingsolo,whyshouldyoustopwhatyou'redoingandmakeityourlife'sworktofindthatonespecialpersonthatyoucanannoyfortherestofyourlife?研究人员希望知道原因。这并不需要一个双盲对照组研究来破解婚姻失败的秘密：互不尊重、厌倦、沉迷脸书，搞外遇。你也可以举出上述所有的反义词，互相尊重、新鲜刺激，断网，麻木的一夫一妻制，但还是搞砸了。所以维系婚姻的究竟是什么？那些成功携手生同衾、死同穴的伴侣有何共通点？他们做对了哪些？我们能从中学到什么？如果你是个快乐的单身贵族，为什么一定要放弃现在的生活而毕生投入于找寻那个特别的人，那个你一辈子都觉得很烦的人？Well,researchersspendbillionsofyourtaxdollarstryingtofigurethatout.Theystalkblissfulcouplesandstudytheireverymoveandmannerism.Andtheytrytopinpointwhatitisthatsetsthemapartfromtheirmiserableneighborsandfriends.Anditturnsout,thesuccessstoriesshareafewsimilarities,beyondthattheydon'thavesexwithotherpeople.研究人员花费了几十亿纳税人的钱来寻找原因。他们跟踪调查美满的婚姻，研究夫妻间的所有行为和特殊习惯。他们尝试精确定位幸福的夫妻与不幸的邻居朋友们的所有不同之处。结果发现，成功的婚姻的确有一些相似之处，而不仅仅是不搞外遇。Forinstance,inthehappiestmarriages,thewifeisthinnerandbetter-lookingthanthehusband.比如说，在幸福的婚姻里，妻子都比丈夫要苗条好看。Obvious.Right?It'sobviousthatthisleadstomaritalbliss,becausewomen--wecareagreatdealaboutbeingthinandgood-looking,whereasmenmostlycareaboutsex,ideally,withwomenwhoarethinnerandbetterlookingthantheyare.Thebeautyofthisresearch,though,isthatnooneissuggestingthatwomenhavetobethintobehappy.Wejusthavetobethinnerthanourpartners.Soinsteadofallthatlaboriousdietingandexercising,wejustneedtowaitforthemtogetfat--Maybebakeafewpies.Thisisgoodinformationtohave,andit'snotthatcomplicated.明显正确。很明显这一点是婚姻幸福的原因，因为女人都很看重身材和美貌，然而男人大多在乎性，最好是跟比他们苗条好看的女人。这项研究的妙处在于，没有人在暗示说女人要瘦才会快乐。只要比伴侣瘦一点儿就行。这样就不用艰苦锻炼勉强节食，我们只要等着自己的男人发福就好，也许再多烤几个派。这是很好的消息，也不复杂。Researchalsosuggeststhatthehappiestcouplesaretheonesthatfocusonthepositives.Forexample:thehappywife.Insteadofpointingoutherhusband'sgrowinggutorsuggestinghegoforarun,shemightsay,"Wow,honey,thankyouforgoingoutofyourwaytomakemerelativelythinner."研究也显示幸福的夫妻聚焦于事物的积极一面。比如说，一个幸福的妻子，不会指责丈夫腰围渐粗，也不会建议他出去跑步，她很可能会说“宝贝，谢谢你已经开始努力让我显得相对更苗条。”Thesearecoupleswhocanfindgoodinanysituation."Yeah,itwasdevastatingwhenwelosteverythinginthatfire.Butit'skindofnicesleepingouthereunderthestars.Andit'sagoodthingyou'vegotallthatbodyfattokeepuswarm."这些夫妻能够在任何情况下都找到好的一面。“这可真是太惨了。我们在火灾中失去了一切、不过在满天星斗下熟睡也是一桩美事，而且你刚好还有足够的脂肪让我们保暖。”

Here'saninterestingone.Onestudyfoundthatpeoplewhosmileinchildhoodphotographsarelesslikelytogetadivorce.Thisisanactualstudy,andletmeclarify:theresearcherswerenotlookingatdocumentedself-reportsofchildhoodhappiness,orevenstudyingoldjournals.Thedatawerebasedentirelyonwhetherpeoplelookedhappyintheseearlypictures.Now,Idon'tknowhowoldallofyouare,butwhenIwasakid,yourparentstookpictureswithaspecialkindofcamerathatheldsomethingcalled"film."And,byGod,filmwasexpensive.Theydidn'ttake300shotsofyouinthatrapid-firedigitalvideomodeandthenpickoutthenicest,smiliestonefortheChristmascard.Oh,no.Theydressedyouup,theylinedyouup,andyousmiledforthefuckingcameraliketheytoldyoutooryoucouldkissyourbirthdaypartygoodbye.Butstill,IhaveahugepileoffakehappychildhoodpicturesandI'mgladtheymakemelesslikelythansomepeopletogetadivorce.还有一项有趣的研究。这项研究发现在童年时期的照片里笑着的人离婚率较低。这是一项真实的研究，让我解释一下：研究人员并不是看文字记录的童年幸福记录，或者从前的日记之类。数据全部来源于：人们在这些早年的照片中看上去是不是高兴。我不清楚在座各位的年龄，但当我还是小孩儿时，家长拍照用的是一种特殊的相机，里面装着一种叫胶卷的东西。天哪，胶卷这玩意儿真是贵。他们可不是拍上300张，用那种数码录像的帧数速度，然后再挑上一张最漂亮的，笑得最好的照片放在圣诞卡上。哦不是的。他们把你打扮好，排上队，然后叫你冲着相机笑，要不然生日派对直接结束。即使这样，我也有一大堆假装幸福的童年照片，我很庆幸这些照片让我看起来不那么容易离婚。So,whatelsecanyoudotosafeguardyourmarriage?DonotwinanOscarforbestactress.你还能做什么来守卫你的婚姻？不要去赢奥斯卡影后。I'mserious.BettieDavis,JoanCrawford,HalleBerry,HilarySwank,SandraBullock,ReeseWitherspoon--allofthemsingle,soonaftertakinghomethatstatue.TheyactuallycallittheOscarcurse.Itisthemarriagekissofdeathandsomethingthatshouldbeavoided.我是认真的。贝蒂.戴维斯、琼.克劳馥、哈利.贝瑞、希拉里.斯旺克、桑德拉.布洛克、瑞茜.威瑟斯彭，她们所有人在把小金人带回家后不久都成了单身。真的有种说法叫“奥斯卡诅咒”。这是婚姻的死亡之吻，应该极力避免。Andit'snotjustsuccessfullystarringinfilmsthat'sdangerous.Itturnsout,merelywatchingaromanticcomedycausesrelationshipsatisfactiontoplummet.在电影里成功饰演角色不是唯一危险的事情。研究发现，只是看一部浪漫喜剧就能导致婚姻关系满意度直线下降。

Apparently,thebitterrealizationthatmaybeitcouldhappentous,butitobviouslyhasn'tanditprobablyneverwill,makesourlivesseemunbearablygrimincomparison.Andtheoretically,Isupposeifweoptforafilmwheresomeonegetsbrutallymurderedordiesinafierycarcrash,wearemorelikelytowalkoutofthattheaterfeelinglikewe'vegotitprettygood.很明显，苦涩地意识到片中故事有可能是真的，但尚未也很可能永远不会发生在自己身上，这种比较认识让我们的婚姻生活看起来更加难以忍受了。理论上说，假设我们选择看一部电影，角色被残忍的杀害或者死于惨烈的交通事故，我们走出电影院时感觉可能还相当好。Drinkingalcohol,itseems,isbadforyourmarriage.Yeah.Ican'ttellyouanymoreaboutthatonebecauseIstoppedreadingitattheheadline.Buthere'sascaryone:divorceiscontagious.That'sright,whenyouhaveaclosecouplefriendsplitup,itincreasesyourchancesofgettingadivorceby75percent.Now,Ihavetosay,Idon'tgetthisoneatall.MyhusbandandIhavewatchedquiteafewfriendsdividetheirassetsandthenstrugglewithbeingourageandsingleinanageofsextingandViagraandeHarmony.AndI'mthinkingthey'vedonemoreformymarriagethanalifetimeoftherapyevercould.饮酒似乎是对婚姻不利的。是的，我没什么可告诉你们的，因为我读到这句话接下来就不想读了。但这还有一条可怕的事：离婚会传染。没错，如果你的好朋友分手了，你自己离婚的可能性会增加75%。这条一点儿也不适用于我自己。我丈夫和我目睹了一些朋友分家产，在这个充斥色情短信和伟哥还有相亲网站的时代，在我们这个年龄挣扎着独身生活。我觉得这些朋友的经历对于我自己婚姻的帮助比终身治疗的帮助还要大。Sonowyoumaybewondering:Whydoesanyonegetmarriedever?Well,theUSfederalgovernmentcountsmorethanathousandlegalbenefitstobeingsomeone'sspouse.Alistthatincludesvisitationrightsinjail,buthopefully,you'llneverneedthatone.Butbeyondtheprofoundfederalperks,marriedpeoplemakemoremoney.We'rehealthier,physicallyandemotionally.Weproducehappier,morestableandmoresuccessfulkids.Wehavemoresexthanoursupposedlyswingingsinglefriends,believeitornot.Weevenlivelonger,whichisaprettycompellingargumentformarryingsomeoneyoulikealotinthefirstplace.你们可能会问人们为什么要结婚？美国联邦政府列举出上千条法律上的结成配偶的好处。包括监狱探视权，但愿大家永远别用到这一条。除了各种各样的政策福利，已婚人士收入更高。无论是肉体上还是精神上都更健康。生养出来的孩子也更快乐、情绪更稳定，更成功。已婚人士比起他们看似放纵的单身朋友有更多性爱，信不信由你。已婚人士更长寿——要是结婚的话这是个很有力的理由，但前提是你要非常喜欢你的对象。Now,ifyou'renotcurrentlyexperiencingthejoyofthejointtaxreturn,Ican'ttellyouhowtofindachore-lovingpersonoftheapproximatelyidealsizeandattractiveness,whoprefershorrormoviesanddoesn'thavealotoffriendshoveringonthebrinkofdivorce,butIcanonlyencourageyoutotry,becausethebenefits,asI'vepointedout,aresignificant.Thebottomlineis:whetheryou'reinitoryou'researchingforit,Ibelievemarriageisaninstitutionworthpursuingandprotecting.SoIhopeyou'llusetheinformationI'vegivenyoutodaytoweighyourpersonalstrengthsagainstyourownriskfactors.如果你目前没有享受到联合纳税申报的喜悦，