M4Unit2Thatmustbehardonyoureading.ppt

1、Unit 2 That Must Be Hard On You,Reading,Revision of Listening A&B,1.与某人有矛盾 2.偶尔，有时 3.保持干净 4.找到解决方法 5.背后说某人坏话 6.把。放好 7.度过（困难） 8.改变想法 9.各种各样,have a problem with sb. once in a while keep.clean work out talk behind ones back put.away come through change ones mind all sorts of,Preview of passage A,倾诉； 带来

2、 一批，一群 越。越。 开放性问题,1.pour out 2.bring in 3. a collection of 4. the more .the more 5. open-ended questions,Passage A,Learn to Be Friendly and Charming,Free talk,Lead in,What can you do to make yourself look friendly and charming?,Smile. Listen. Humourous. Appreciate.,Discussion,Why do you think these

3、qualities can make you charming?,Read passage A and match the qualities with the functions.,2 Fill in the blanks with the information you have got from passage A,To make a person socially popular, the very first quality is_. Asking_questions will encourage the speaker to pour out all to you. Laughte

4、r is needed in our lives and the lives of people around us. The more you make your friends_,the more they will_. To be friendly and to be charming is not an art. The only need is to pay_attention to ourselves and_to others.,smile,open-ended,laugh,enjoy your company,less,more,3. Discuss in groups: Wh

5、at else can be done to improve friendships?,Language points,1.We all have different style of talking, laughing, smiling ,responding and communicating. _ respond v. 回答，对回应，比answer 更正式。如： She didnt respond to my question. 她没有回答我的问题。 I offered to help him, but he didnt respond. 我表示愿意帮他，但他没有回应。 respond

6、to a letter respond to a question respond with a smile,我们每个人说话，发笑，微笑，回应和交流的风格都不尽相同。,回信,回复问题,以微笑回答,2. What are the qualities needed to improve the relationship between our friends and us? A. improve意为 “_” 例如 ：The company has improved its quality of service. _ B. 本句中，needed to improve the relationship

7、 between our friends and us是_,修饰_.,哪些特质可以改善我们与朋友之间的关系呢？,改进，改善,公司已经改善了服务质量。,后置定语,qualities,3. The very first quality is smile. _ very意为 “_”,常用于形容词最高级之前， e.g.All papers should be turned in by 5 p.m. tomorrow at the very latest. 4. Ask open-ended questions. That will encourage the speaker to pour out a

8、ll to you. _ open-ended adj._ pour out _ encourage sb. to do sth._,第一个特质就是微笑,十足，完全,所有论文最迟于明天五点前上交。,问一些开发式的问题。这样可以鼓励说话者向你倾诉所有。,无限制的,（感情或说话）奔涌，迸发,鼓励某人做某事,4. Bring in some laughter._ bring in_ 5. The more they laugh, the more they will enjoy your company. _ the morethe more意为 “越越”, 例如： _ _ you practise

9、, _ _ _ you will master. 你练习都越多，你掌握的技巧就越多。,他们笑得越多就会越喜欢你的陪伴。,The more,the more skills,注入一些笑声吧！,引入,5. To be friendly and to be charming is not an art. A. art的常用意是“_”,但在本句中意为 “_”,尤指通过实践得来的技巧，例如： Writing with both hands at the same time is an art._ B. 本句中，to be friendly and to be charming 是不定式，用做_.,成为一个

10、友好而有魅力的人并不难做到。,艺术,技巧，技能,同时用双手写字是一种技巧。,主语,Passage B,Myths about Relationships,Preview of passage B,遇到 最初 现实中 逐渐消失 曾经 停止做某事 与。有关 事实上 对。有好处 产生神奇作用,e across 2.at first 3. in reality 4. wear off 5. used to 6.stop doing 7.have to do with. 8.in actuality 9.do.good 10.do wonders,Scan passage B to answer the

11、 question: What myths are mentioned?,2.Love at first sight.,1.Opposites attract.,3.Honesty is the best policy.,Myths about Relationships,Read passage B and circle the best answer. 1. What does common myth mean in the passage? a. A traditional story or tale. b. A popular but wrong idea about somethin

12、g. c. A famous and wonderful idea about somehing.,2. Based on the passage , why do many people believe that opposites attract? a. Its exciting to be with someone who is very different. b. Youre less likely to have conflicts with someone who is very different. c. Its annoying to be with someone who i

13、s similar.,3. The belief that we should always be honest with our partners might not work. The reason is that_. a. If we always honest, our partner might start lying to us instead. b. Its more exciting to lie to a partner than to make him or her happy. c. Sometimes being completely honest might hurt

14、 the feelings of our partmer.,Myths about Relationships,6. Complete the following table based on passage B.,Opposites attract.,Love at first sight.,Honesty is the best policy.,Remember that the attraction can often fade as quickly as it arrives.,Decide whats most important to you and find someone wh

15、o has a similar list.,Remember to tell the truth about the important things, the small, unimportant lies wont be problems.,7. Complete the outline of passage B.,Introduction: Here are several common myths about relationship that people believe.,Myth 1: Opposites attract.,Myth 2: Love at first sight.

16、,Myth 3: Honesty is the best policy.,Conclusion: Its important to look at how relationships work in a clear and logical way and to believe facts instead of myths.,Language points,1.In my practice as a relationship counsellor, I come across people nearly every day who believe common myths about relat

17、ionships. _ A. come across意为“碰到”，例如： I came across my old childhood friend on the street one day._ B.本句中，who believe common myths about relationships是_,修饰_,在我作为人际关系顾问工作的期间，我几乎每天都能碰到一些人，他们对人际关系的理解都存在误区。,有一天我在街上碰到我儿时的朋友。,定语从句,people,2. Many people believe that finding a partner who is very different f

18、rom themselves is a great relationship match. _ be different from意为“_” 本句中，that引导了一个_,在该从句中，finding a partner是_,who is very different from themselves 是_,修饰_.,许多人认为找一个与自己截然不同的伴侣是绝配。,与不同的,宾语从句,主语,定语从句,partner,3. But while it may be exciting at first to be with someone not like you, in reality, once th

19、e early excitement wears off, you may find that the things you used to find unusual about that person now annoy you. at first_ in reality_ wear off_ used to do sth.意为 “_” 例如： He used to live in Shanghai._ 也可以表示 “_” 例如： I used to take morning exercise every day. But I became lazy now._ be/become/get

20、used to sth./doing sth._ be used to do sth._,和与自己不同的人在一起，起初会很兴奋，但事实上一旦最初的兴奋褪去，你会发现过去你觉得这个人身上不同寻常的地方现在会让你觉得讨厌。,起初,实际上,逐渐消失,曾经做某事,他曾经在上海居住过。,过去惯常做某事，而现在则不了,过去每天早上我都晨练。但是现在我变懒了。,习惯某物/做某事,被用来做某事,本句中，that引导了一个_，该从句中_是主语, you used to find unusual about that person是_,修饰_,从句的谓语动词是annoy.,宾语从句,things,后置定语,things,But while it may be exciting at first to be with someone not like you, in reality, once the early excitement wears off, you may find that the things you used to find unusual about that person now annoy you.,4. Inste