The Comparability of Valentine’s Day of the Western Culture and Double-Seventh Day of the Chinese Traditional Festival中国七夕节与西方情人节的对比.docx

the comparability of valentines day of the western culture and double-seventh day of the chinese traditional festival中国七夕节与西方情人节的对比abstract culture is a kind of social behavior. it is correlated with peoples daily life, and customs and habits. love is a very important part of culture. each nations special culture gives love some special cultural connotation. this paper intends to make an analysis of the different origins of the double seventh festival and valentines day, the different celebrations and cultural backgrounds of the two festivals, as well as different peoples psychological identities of the two festivals. then since we have the unique double seventh festival, we should protect the culture of the festival. and we should give foreign festivals more tolerance and pay more respect for our national festivals. i believe the two festivals can enjoy peaceful co-existence. key words: double seventh festival; valentines day; farming civilization; christianity; different, peaceful co-existence. 摘要文化是一种社会行为，文化与人们的日常生活，习俗和习惯息息相关。爱的文化在整个文化中起着很重要的部分。每个民族的特别文化也给每个民族的爱的文化带来一些特别之处。本文试图对七夕节和情人节起源的不同，两个节日的庆祝方法不同，两个节日的文化底蕴不同及人们对这两个节日的不同心理认同进行分析。我们的七夕节是独一无二的，我们应该保护七夕文化。我们应该给国外节日多一些宽容，也给我国传统节日多一些尊敬.我相信七夕节和情人节这两节日可以“和平共存”的。关键词：七夕节，情人节，农耕文化，基督教，不同，和平共存contentsacknowledgements.abstract.摘要.chapter one: introduction.1chapter two: the different origin of the double seventh festival and the valentines day.2 2.1 the different origin of the double seventh festival2 2.2 the different origin of the valentines day3 chapter three: the different celebrations of two festivals.53.1 the celebration of the double seventh festival53.2 the celebration of the valentines day.5chapter four: the different cultural background of two festivals.8chapter five: the different peoples psychological identities of the two festivals.10chapter six：conclusion.11references.13chapter one introductionthe festival is an essential part of cultural customs, which is also an important part to reflect the traditional ethnic culture. on the other hand, the festival, as a mirror of culture, is strongly influenced by culture. culture is a kind of social behavior. it is correlated with peoples daily life, and customs and habits. each nations special culture gives love some special cultural meaning. different countries have different folk festivals owing to different natural conditions and humane factors. for most western countries, traditional festivals originate from religion, while our traditional festivals come from a farming civilization. the different origins lead to different celebrations. over the many years in past, different regions have celebrated their own festivals. in modern times, with development of globalization, many ethnic festivals are celebrated by all over the world. for example, the western valentines day is widely celebrated by our young people. and chinas double seventh festival is called oriental valentines day. but we should know what the differences are between the two festivals. what can we learn from the two festivals? in this paper, we will discuss the double seventh festival and the valentines day, which reflect the differences between chinese and western cultures about love of various levels. many young people ignore the glorious national heritage of thousands of years. what should we and the government do for the two festivals? chapter two the different origins of the two festivals 2.1 the origin of the double seventh festivalthe legend about a cowhand and a weaver maid originated from the astronomical picture composed of altair and vega. earlier, the deification of altair and vega could be found in the book of songs. there are no love stories and legends about them until the han dynasty when their love story emerged.“long, long ago, there was an honest and kind-hearted fellow named niu lang (cowhand). his parents died when he was a child. later he was driven out of his home by his sister-in-law. so he lived by himself. one day, a fairy from heaven zhi nu (weaver maid) fell in love with him and came down secretly to earth and married him. the cowhand farmed in the field and the weaver maid wove at home. they lived a happy life and gave birth to a boy and a girl. unfortunately, the god of heaven soon found out the fact and ordered the queen mother of the western heavens to bring the weaver maid back. with the help of the celestial cattle, the cowhand flew to heaven with his son and daughter. at the time when he was about to catch up with his wife, the queen mother took off one of her gold hairpins and made a stroke. one billowy river appeared in front of the cowhand. the cowhand and weaver maid were separated on the two banks forever and could only feel their tears. their loyalty to love touched magpies, so tens of thousands of magpies came to build a bridge for the cowhand and weaver maid to meet each other. the queen mother was eventually moved and allowed them to meet each year on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month. hence their meeting date has been call qi xi(double seventh) （ /question/31988243.html?fr=qrl&cid=974&index=3）with the spread and influence of the story about cowhand and weaver maid, many famous ancient poets wrote the double seventh festival in their works to express the theme of love, such as yan ge xing written by cao pi, “qi xi written by du mu, and cui haos qi xi and so on.the love story of the cowhand and the weaver maid is entirely from the folk and the real life of working people, reflecting the living conditions of ordinary workers. many people always think that the china has no romantic love, but the cowhand and weaver maids story proves that chinese people do not lack of romantic pursuit.2.2 the origin of the valentines daythere are many opinions about the origin of the valentines day. the valentines day, is the very typical festival, which has spread to all over the world. there are three forms of its origin: origin 1: the priest st.valentine was firmed in his christian faith and he didnt worship the roman emperor, so he was imprisoned by the roman emperor and finally sentenced to death. the daughter of his prison guard was attracted by his behavior. in the process of waiting for execution, he fell in love with the girl. but he still refused to give up faith because of love. on february 14, ad .270, before execution, he wrote a passionate letter to his love. the inscription is “from your valentine”. people set this day as “valentines day”. origin ii: in the third century ad, rome and other countries had wars in succession. it needed a large number of soldiers to the front, but people hated war very much, and no one wanted to fight. the emperor claudius, who was a famous tyrant, thought it was because the family yoking with men, so he ordered that people couldnt marry. priests were not allowed to uphold wedding ceremonies. a priest named valentine, regardless of the ban, upheld the wedding ceremonies for the young. before long, claudius was very angry on hearing about the news. he arrested st.valentine and tormented him to death. people marked the day he passed away as “valentines day”. origin iii: according to the legend, in ancient times, natural environment was very bad, so every year the romans had to sacrifice to the god in february to pray for health and prosperity. unmarried men and women could participate in the activities on that day, and they could dance together. girls names were written on a small slip of paper, so that the boys could select. the girl who was selected by a boy would become his wife. after many years, this led to many marriages. this day happened to be february 14. people thought this was the achievement of the day. so people set this day as “valentines day”from the origins of the two festivals, we can see obviously that the two festivals have different origins. the double seventh festival, as one of chinas traditional festivals, reflects that agricultural civilization played a dominant role in the process of development of our country. ancient china was a predominantly agricultural country, so chinas traditional festivals are closely linked with agriculture. the double seventh festival embodies peoples respect for nature in ancient chinese culture, and the custom of worshiping the cowhand and weaver maid is the best embodiment. the valentines day reflects the westerns christian faith and the regression of human nature since the renaissance. the christians believe that love cannot be ignored, so the westerners stress more on love and they place it in the first place. westerners think that love is in accord with the feelings of nature. chapter three the celebrations of the two festivals.3.1 the celebration of the double seventh festival the chinese have own characteristics of celebrating the double seventh festival. the double seventh festival is also called qiqiao festival, which means people beg emperor to give them skillful hands like the weaver maids. due to the difference of clime culture in china, there are different celebrations: in jiangxi province, there was a bridge meeting of the double seventh festival. people came to take part in it and built a wooden bridge. at night, people faced the double stars and begged good fate，then cremating the wooden bridge, which meant that the double stars went across the bridge and had a glad meeting. in shandong province, a lot of people did obeisance to stars on double seventh festival. girls who were above 16 years old took part in some activities to beg the emperor to give them good husbands. many young ladies put on new dresses and gathered in a hall, singing some songs with good wish. in shanxi province, every girl should be made up well, putting on beautiful dresses, and then offering all kinds of fruits to their friends.with the development of society, now these customs have gradually disappeared, however, the legend of the cowhand and weaver maid has taken root in the hearts of the people. in recent years, in particular, urban youths have celebrated it as the valentines day in china. as a result, owners of flower shops, bars and stores are full of joy as they sell more commodities for love. our youths focus on their individual character and emotional expression, so as to directly express their feelings. this is a major reason that the double seventh festival is affected by the western valentines day. 3.2 the celebration of the valentines daythe different origins lead to the different celebrations. the western valentines day, first of all, regardless of being married and unmarried, belongs to men and women in love.gradually, february 14 became the day for exchanging love messages and st.valentine became the saint of lovers. the day is marked by sending poems and simple gifts. there is often a social gathering or a ball. so the date of the valentines day becomes much commercialized. many shopping centers take advantage of the day to make promotion. the valentines day is one of the most important festivals in france. france is called the worlds most romantic country. on the evening of the valentines day, the advertisement of gifts is seen in everywhere. you will find the majority of these gifts are designed to women enjoy, but of course, there are some gifts for men, but which, compared with those for women, are inconsiderable. frances valentines day is the women festival. frenchmen do not think that the value of gifts determines the value of emotion. to the wealthy class, they can send cars to their lovers on the valentines day to show their profound love. for the middle class, they can have a nice dinner with their lovers and then spend a romantic night in a couples hotel. to the salaried class, they should bring a bouquet of roses to their lovers or a box of chocolates, even personal underwear, sharing a love dialogue. to the poor, such as students, they may send a letter to their lovers in which they write a heart-shaped i love you. in a word, frances valentines day is a romantic festival.in england, most men give woman gifts. they are willing to give their girlfriends gifts, such as flowers and chocolates. in korean and japan, girls will give chocolates to boys as presents. the more gifts, the more popularity the boys get.in china, generally men present roses to women, and women give chocolates to men.in italy, its the day to express love. unmarried women are most very special- they stand silent before the windows and hope they will see their love.in mexico, the valentines day is the festival to express their friendship and love- both male and female students give gifts to the people who have ever helped them.in philippines, boys send roses to girls, or invite them to share a romantic dinner.in russian, the lovers go out for a fancy meal.in denmark, traditionally, local people give flattened snowdrop to their sweethearts.besides merchants who do their best to attract customers, some local media also add to the romance of the valentines day. the valentines day can be seen having a broad market in china. we can see many harsh critics keep silent for this foreign festivalthe valentines day” ,this silence also can reflect that most chinese people have accepted the values of this western festival of valentines day and the value orientation of the chinese people have become more and more diversified. the two festivals can have peaceful co-existence.from the celebrations of the two festivals, we can see there are different participants in the festivals. the valentines day, although it originated from religion, has now become a couple holiday. on the valentines day, everybody holds roses in the street. everyone can participate in the festival, whether they are young couples or elderly people, and children are also involved in the valentines day. the double seventh festival in ancient china was celebrated mainly by unmarried women, and ancient history books and poetry didnt record that males took part in the festival.the double seventh festival is mainly directed to young single pairs of groups. the aim is to find their loved one, then to make further development with the loved one, and finally to form a family. the valentines day is not certainly for the purpose of marriage; it contains extra-marital affairs. no matter what kind of cultural background, as long as you need love, you can accept the festival.chapter four the different cultural backgrounds of the two festivals the valentines day reflects the western people-oriented sprite. it embodies people as individuals to seek and express their feelings, and it also focuses on the individuality and emotional transmission. the festival encourages people to give gifts to each other, and open their hearts to directly express love.“the double seventh festival reflects the spirit of chinese confucianism and the glory of our national culture”（zhang, 2007）.the double seventh festival is for single women; it reflects that ancient unmarried women begged for good marriage. in ancient families, girl marriage was determined by their parents. they hoped the god could give them good husbands. the gods are the cowhand and weaver maid. the family economic system in feudal times decided that woman needed skillful hands. the wives also begged the god to give them the clever hands. this is also the origin of the “qiqiao” festival.for most chinese people, their marriages are not based on love. after all, they have to obey their parents will to get them married. for many couples, they get married only because of the needs of life. but in the legend, the combination of the cowherd and the weaver maid is only because of love. in their marriage, there are no parents will or status. one of the most prominent features of confucianism is the belief of the family; therefore,to the chinese people, the foundation of family-marriage is more important than love. at the same time, the rational taoism makes people choose marriage in a rational way. chinese people are more rational than the west enters in the respect of love and marriage. “the chinese concept of love is relatively well-convinced, rational and quiet. it is free from restraint, and acquisition from the sacrifice. it will make the people feel a little sympathetic.”(she, 2005) on the contrary,the western valentines day focuses on love. therefore, the marriage of the western people, which is based on love, is the need for affection. so there are golden marriage, silver marriage and honeymoon in the west which seem very romantic. but the chinese marriage and love are far 1ess romantic than those of the western people. “of course, chinese people regard love far less scared and lofty than the western people to. in the west, love is the most sacred thing which is an important part of human life and should never been sullied. this love has the sacred and absolute features like a religious idol.”(zhang, 2007) “ in western tradition, people used to call western culture christian culture or christian civilization. this is because western culture has three sources: ancient greek civilization, which takes socrates, aristotle as representation and developed to be subsequent scientific tradition, and ancient hebrew and jewish civilization from the fear of god. the ancient rome legal system deve