大学英语口语教程Friendship.ppt

friendshipfriendship friendshipfriendship be familiar with the sentence be familiar with the sentence patterns of friendshippatterns of friendship understand the value of understand the value of friendshipfriendship talk about friends and talk about friends and friendshipfriendship ii. aims of the unitii. aims of the unit iii. key words:iii. key words: friends friends friendship friendship intimate intimate intimacy intimacy honest / sincere /kind-hearted honest / sincere /kind-hearted / reliable / thoughtful / / reliable / thoughtful / generous / loyal / faithful / generous / loyal / faithful / compassionatecompassionate iv. key structuresiv. key structures make friends / be friends / be very good friends / make new friends / maintain old friendship 1.nice to meet you1.nice to meet you 2.nice to meet you, too.2.nice to meet you, too. 3.it3.it s a nice party.s a nice party. 4.what are you doing later in the evening?4.what are you doing later in the evening? 5.what are you doing tomorrow night or for the 5.what are you doing tomorrow night or for the weekend?weekend? 6.would you like to make some plans for 6.would you like to make some plans for tomorrow night or for the weekend?tomorrow night or for the weekend? 7.we thought we might go to a movie.7.we thought we might go to a movie. 8.would you like to come along?8.would you like to come along? 9.do you like (music, movies, dancing, sports 9.do you like (music, movies, dancing, sports etc)?etc)? useful expressionsuseful expressions 1. a person can have many friends but only 1. a person can have many friends but only one or two bosom friends.one or two bosom friends. 2. those who are unfaithful / disloyal to us 2. those who are unfaithful / disloyal to us can not be called our friends.can not be called our friends. 3. to be betrayed by a friend is most painful.3. to be betrayed by a friend is most painful. 4. friendship is based on warmth, trust and 4. friendship is based on warmth, trust and shared experience.shared experience. 5. true friendship is a plant of slow growth / 5. true friendship is a plant of slow growth / is like health, the value of which is seldom is like health, the value of which is seldom known until it is lost / can stand the test of known until it is lost / can stand the test of time.time. useful expressionsuseful expressions 6. a friend in need is a friend indeed.6. a friend in need is a friend indeed. 7. a friend is one whom you can count on / trust / talk 7. a friend is one whom you can count on / trust / talk to.to. 8. a friend is someone who will help you if you are in 8. a friend is someone who will help you if you are in trouble / who will listen to you when you talk about trouble / who will listen to you when you talk about your problems.your problems. 9. real friends are friends forever / for life.9. real friends are friends forever / for life. 10. i10. i d like to make friends with those who are honest d like to make friends with those who are honest / sincere / kind-hearted / reliable / thoughtful / / sincere / kind-hearted / reliable / thoughtful / generousgenerous 11. sharing your friend11. sharing your friend s sorrow is the way to show s sorrow is the way to show your deep friendship for them.your deep friendship for them. 12. if you tell your joy to your friend, your joy will 12. if you tell your joy to your friend, your joy will double; and if you pour your sorrow to your friend, double; and if you pour your sorrow to your friend, your sorrow will be reduced by half.your sorrow will be reduced by half. 13. life without friends is like life on a desert island.13. life without friends is like life on a desert island. dialogues dialogues dialogue 1 making friendsdialogue 1 making friends ( ( yu feng, a sophomore; daniel: a freshman; xia lin: a yu feng, a sophomore; daniel: a freshman; xia lin: a freshmanfreshman they are at a party where the sophomores are helping to welcome they are at a party where the sophomores are helping to welcome the new freshmen.)the new freshmen.) yu feng:yu feng: hi! how are you? hi! how are you? daniel:daniel: fine. how are you? fine. how are you? yu feng:yu feng: i i m pretty busy helping the freshmen m pretty busy helping the freshmen get acquainted.get acquainted. daniel:daniel: maybe you can help me. i maybe you can help me. i d like to d like to meet some nice girls, but imeet some nice girls, but i m not sure how to m not sure how to begin. what do you suggest? do i need an begin. what do you suggest? do i need an introduction?introduction? yu feng:yu feng: my cousin xia lin is here, and shes a freshman just my cousin xia lin is here, and shes a freshman just like you. i could introduce you to her and some of her friends. like you. i could introduce you to her and some of her friends. shes the one with the red sweater.shes the one with the red sweater. daniel:daniel: your cousin looks very nice. who are the other people your cousin looks very nice. who are the other people with her?with her? yu feng:yu feng: those are her roommates. she also had a boyfriend those are her roommates. she also had a boyfriend for a while but they broke up.for a while but they broke up. daniel:daniel: can you introduce me to them? id feel a little can you introduce me to them? id feel a little outnumbered to approach them alone, and im not quite sure outnumbered to approach them alone, and im not quite sure how to introduce myself to strangers in china.how to introduce myself to strangers in china. yu feng:yu feng: oh, come on, man! china is not so traditional oh, come on, man! china is not so traditional anymore. you can speak for yourself. oh, xia lin, i didnt notice anymore. you can speak for yourself. oh, xia lin, i didnt notice you beside me. this is my friend daniel. he wants to meet you you beside me. this is my friend daniel. he wants to meet you and some of your friends.and some of your friends. daniel (embarrassed and surprised): hi. im just a freshman. daniel (embarrassed and surprised): hi. im just a freshman. you can call me dan.you can call me dan. xia linxia lin (a little shy): im a freshman too, and so are all the other (a little shy): im a freshman too, and so are all the other people in my group.people in my group. dialogue 2 an interview about dialogue 2 an interview about friends and friendshipfriends and friendship i=interviewer s=sheng mei, a girl studenti=interviewer s=sheng mei, a girl student i:i: do you have many friends? do you have many friends? s:s: yes, i have many friends and acquaintances but yes, i have many friends and acquaintances but only one of them is very close to me. only one of them is very close to me. i:i: when did you meet this friend and how did your when did you meet this friend and how did your friendship develop?friendship develop? s:s: we met in our first year in senior middle school, we met in our first year in senior middle school, about five years ago. xiaoqing and i were both in the about five years ago. xiaoqing and i were both in the experimental class. we had a lot more free time than experimental class. we had a lot more free time than students in the regular classes, so we did many students in the regular classes, so we did many interesting things eresting things together. i:i: do you have any close friends at the university? do you have any close friends at the university? s:s: no, i think friendship takes time to develop. that no, i think friendship takes time to develop. that s s probably the main reason why i havenprobably the main reason why i haven t made any more t made any more close friends here. iclose friends here. i m too busy studying and going to m too busy studying and going to classes.classes. i:i: why do you think you became close friends with that why do you think you became close friends with that particular girl, rather than other girls in your class?particular girl, rather than other girls in your class? s:s: well, it was due to a combination of factors. at the well, it was due to a combination of factors. at the beginning, we were both chosen to represent our class beginning, we were both chosen to represent our class in a speech contest, so we worked closely together. in a speech contest, so we worked closely together. then, i discovered that she was a very honest person then, i discovered that she was a very honest person and i think honesty is a very important aspect of and i think honesty is a very important aspect of friendship.friendship. i:i: were there any other things that strengthened your were there any other things that strengthened your friendship?friendship? s:s: yes, we were both on the basketball team, so we yes, we were both on the basketball team, so we spent hours practicing together. teamwork andspent hours practicing together. teamwork and cooperation certainly made us appreciate each other cooperation certainly made us appreciate each other even more. we also took part in running races, she even more. we also took part in running races, she helped me a lot. she organized a singing contest and i helped me a lot. she organized a singing contest and i did a lot of things for her. i think helping each other is did a lot of things for her. i think helping each other is another important aspect of friendship.another important aspect of friendship. i:i: do you still see each other on a daily basis? do you still see each other on a daily basis? s:s: no, unfortunately we aren no, unfortunately we aren t in the same city now. i t in the same city now. i passed the entrance examination, but she failed. we passed the entrance examination, but she failed. we were terribly sad, at first. but we are still best friends were terribly sad, at first. but we are still best friends and that will never change.and that will never change. i:i: how would you summarize the difference between a how would you summarize the difference between a really close friend and other friends?really close friend and other friends? s:s: it it s a question of process, depth, and openness. s a question of process, depth, and openness. like a flower, real friendship grows day by day. it like a flower, real friendship grows day by day. it needs many special ingredients to flourish.needs many special ingredients to flourish. pictures related to the topic pictures related to the topic talk about it 1. why was it hard for the four girls to say goodbye at the end of freshman year? 2. how strong are your college friendships likely to remain in your adult life? are they stronger than your childhood friendships or your relationships with your future colleagues? 3. which kinds of friendships do you usually keep the longest? passage reading and speaking passage reading and speaking questions for discussion 1. do you have many friends? how important 1. do you have many friends? how important are they to you?are they to you? 2. do you differentiate between your friends? 2. do you differentiate between your friends? how?how? 3. what is true friendship? what kinds of 3. what is true friendship? what kinds of friends do you think are true friends?friends do you think are true friends? 4. what kind of people do you want to make 4. what kind of people do you want to make friends with? why?friends with? why? 5. how do you make friends?5. how do you make friends? 6. how do you keep friendship alive?6. how do you keep friendship alive? viii. situations for students to practiceviii. situations for students to practice situation 1: your are in the course registration office to help your foreign friend to select his courses. before you start, you are trying to find out your friends plans. situation 2: suppose you are interviewing a student who is a freshman of a college. ask him / her about his / her feelings about friends and friendships. iv. fun time iv. fun time a poema poem love and friendshiplove and friendship by emily bronteby emily bronte love is like the wild rose-b