新视野大学英语：SECTION A：Being Honest and Open（诚实和开放）38P.ppt

,being honest and open,section a,outline,language learning check of the exercises oral discussion listening song,old to new,intelligent assure consist of enrich tough clarify inevitable external apply,hard, difficult; strong cant be prevented from happening clever outside request officially be made up of make sure or certain make clear, explain improve; make rich,sell out to convenience stand firmly for ones convictions be honest and open about who you really are there is no middle point,chinese to english,贪财图利 坚定自己的信念 诚实坦白地表现自我 两者之间没有折中可言,提高自己的内涵和素质 正视现实 用成熟的心态去迎接 生活的挑战,enhance ones inner value and personal growth face the reality be mature in ones responses to lifes challenges,原句: a good test for this value is to apply what i call the “integrity triangle”, which consists of three key principles. (l. 9),一个检验这一价值观的好办法就是运用本人所说的“正直三角原则”,它包含三大原则。,2) a good test for doing sth. is to do sth. else.一个做某事的好办法就是,句型提炼,(划线部分也可用以下短语： the key / secret / trick / the best course to 或 the guarantee / the art / bottom line / the best way / purpose of 等),expressions & patterns,应用：a. 生活之道就是懂得何时该抓紧和何时该放手。,the art of living is to know when to hold fast and when to let go.,应用：b. 人生成功的秘诀就是有所不为而后可以有所为。,the secret to success in life is to leave some things undone in order to do other things.,原句: integrity means you do what you do because its right and not just fashionable or politically correct. (l. 44),为人正直就意味着去做你应该做的事，因为那是对的，而不是因为顺应潮流或迎合政治上的需要。,4) sth. / doing sth means / suggests / signifies that (从句) 某事做某事就意味着表明,句型提炼,应用：a. 一连串的恐怖袭击表明人类要实现全球的和平还有漫长的路要走。,a chain of terrorist attacks suggests that mankind will have a long way to go to achieve a global peace.,下一页,上一页,应用：b. 生活环境的变革也意味着我们要革除陈规陋习。,the reform in living environments also means that we should do away with our outmoded customs and practices.,下一页,上一页,tell the truth,do not lie,do not cheat on exams,keep your promise,what is honesty?,words related to honesty,straightforward,self-respect,integrity,open,moral,responsible,warm-hearted,sincere,virtue,frank,helpful,reliable,trustful,know any sayings about honesty ? honesty is the best policy. one word of truth outweighs the whole world. one falsehood spoils a thousand truths. truth exists; only lies are invented.,any fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of some sense to know how to lie well. truth fears no questions. a lie told often enough becomes the truth. lenin,the first and last thing required of genius is the love of truth. goethe truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies. ralph waldo emerson,to lie or not to lie?,“i have already seen it.” (so that i wont have to go and he / she would not invite me to see the movie again.) “i have a prior engagement.” (so that i wont have to go.) “i will have to prepare for tomorrows exam.” (so that i wont have to go.) “its just a boring film. lets go somewhere else.” (i think he will understand me and wont waste his time watching such a film.),directions: discuss the following cases in groups and see what you would probably say in each of the situations and why.,1) your friend invites you to see a movie that doesnt interest you.,“cherish the rest of your life. do what you like: traveling around the world to appreciate the beautiful scenery，talking with your relatives and friends available，enjoying all the delicious food you love or you havent had before, etc.”(so that the patient will face reality，enjoy life before his/her death and wont blame me for not telling the truth.) “you will recover soon. there is nothing serious.”(so that he/she will believe that he/she will get well， which will be beneficial.),2) you are a doctor and one of your patients is dying of cancer.,“you only have one month to live.” (to a person who probably still has half a year to live, so that he will build up his confidence when he finds himself still living after several months.) “you are dying.” (to an optimistic person) or “you dont have to worry.” (to a pessimist),“i went shopping to buy you a present.”(so that the boss would not scold me.) “i was late because the train arrived behind schedule.”(so the train is to blame， not me.) “i had a stomachache.”(to show that i didnt want to be late.) “im sorry i overslept because my alarm clock broke down. but it wont happen again.”(to show that im honest and honesty is the best policy.),3) you are late for work because you overslept. your boss asks you where you were.,sometimes people have to lie for good purposes, which are called white lies. tips for cases in which white lies are usually made: to tell a dying patient he is hopeful to comfort a heartbroken person to avoid hurting others dignity ,tips,listening 1,wrinkled considerate mean faced white lie look sb. in the eye one in a million,有皱纹的，起皱的； 考虑周到的，替人着想的； 脸部难看的，丑陋的 无恶意的谎言 直视某人 万里挑一的，无与伦比的,new born babies as pretty as a picture,新生儿 像画一样美丽,exercise 1-1,directions: listen to the passage and complete the following sentences according to what you hear from the passage.,1) newborn babies often have angry expressions on their faces that seem to say, “ _.” 2) to a parent, that bald, wrinkled, mean-faced baby is _ _.,go away! i hate everybody,the most beautiful and perfect child in the world,exercise 1-2,when that proud father or mother asks you, “ _ ” you usually say, “yes, she is! shes _. shes _. shes going to be _! i can tell! shes _ _. ” white lies dont hurt people. people use them to _ . it is important to be honest. but many people feel that _ is sometimes more important.,being kind and considerate,3) 4) 5),well， what do you thinkisnt she beautiful?,a real beauty,one in a million,a movie star,as pretty as a picture,make a difficult situation a little easier,tapescript 1,very often，newborn babies are not beautiful. they are wrinkled or bald, or they have angry expressions on their faces that seem to say，“go away! i hate everybody.” but to a parent， that bald， wrinkled， mean faced baby is the most beautiful and perfect child in the world. when that proud father or mother asks you， “ well，what do you thinkisnt she beautiful?” what are you going to say? is this the time for the truth? of course not! you look that proud father in the eye and say， “yes, she is! shes a real beauty . shes one in a million. shes going to be a movie star! i can tell! shes as pretty as a picture.”,tapescript 2,this is what we call in english a white lie. white lies dont hurt people; they arent cruel or angry words. people use them to make a difficult situation a little easier. when people refuse dates，forget their homework，or taste something new that they dont especially like while eating at a friends house， they tell a white lie. they are trying to be kind. they dont want to hurt someones fee lings. it is important to be honest. but many people feel that being kind and considerate is sometimes more important.,directions: listen to the passage carefully and note down the three scientific findings about lying. women are _ _ . 2) men are _ _ . 3) when people lie, their behavior changes _ _.,better liars than men， particularly when telling a white lie,more likely to tell more serious lies,in a number of small， apparently unimportant ways,listening 2,_ 1) a. you are short of cash right now and so unable to lend him any. b. you will probably hurt his feelings if you lend him the money. c. he will forget to pay you back and you dont want to remind him. d. he is in debt and wont be able to pay it off.,c,directions: listen to the passage again and choose the best answer for each of the questions you hear from the tape.,_ 2) a. women are better at telling white lies. b. women are better at making empty promises. c. women are more likely to tell one side of the story. d. women are more likely to tell serious lies. _ 3) a. they dont want to hurt peoples feelings. b. they dont have to fulfill all the promises they make. c. they want to have a better relationship with their target consumers. d. they hope to gain some advantage from the lies they tell.,a,d,exercise 2-3,_ 4) a. they move about in their chair more often. b. they make more gestures than usual. c. they blink more than usual. d. they tend to sweat more than usual. _ 5) a. people tell white lies to flatter others into believing they are beautiful. b. on the whole , men and women are equally good at telling lies. c. when people lie, they will say, “i wish i were somewhere else.” d. businessmen are good at telling lies from which they hope to profit.,b,d,tapescript 1,what exactly is a lie? is it anything we say that we know is untrue? or is it something more than that? for example， suppose a friend wants to borrow some money from you and you say， “i wish i could help you but im short of cash right n o w.” in fact， you are not short of cash， but your friend is in the habit of forgetting to pay his debts and you dont want to hurt his feelings by reminding him of this. does this quality as a lie?,tapescript 2,a scientific study of lying shows women are better liars than men， particularly when telling a “white lie”. when a women at a party tells another woman thats he likes her dress， she really thinks it looks terrible. however， this is only one side of the story. other research shows that men are more likely to tell more serious lies. they tend to make promises which they have no intention of fulfilling. this is the kind of lie politicians and businessmen are particularly skilled at. they hope to profit from these lies in some way.,tapescript 3,research has also been done into the way peoples behavior changes in a number of small， apparently unimportant ways when they lie. it has been found that， if they sit down， they tend to move about in their chair more than usual. it seems as if they were saying to themselves “i wish i were somewhere else now.” it has also been observed that in extreme situations， people perspire more than usual and they blink more often.,honesty,i