新视野2跨国婚姻MarriageAcrossNa.ppt

Unit3SectionA,MarriageAcrossNations,WhatareyourstandardsforyourMr.RightorMissRight(futurehusbandorwife)?,Warming-upQuestions,Standardsfromwomen,responsible,loveeachother,healthy,considerate,helovesmemorethanIlovehim,house,handsome,humorous,sharehousework,Standardsfrommen,loveeachother,gentleandconsiderate,healthy,between20-30,nobadhabits,shelovesmemorethanIloveher,slim,goodcookandbeabletodohousework,Pre-readingActivityLookandTalk,Lookatthesephotosofcelebrities,canyourecognizethem?theirfamilies?,Weiweis(韦唯)husbandisafamousSwedishcomposer.,Echos(三毛)husbandisaSpanishprofessionaldiver,Maggies(张曼玉)husbandisawealthyFrenchman.,Jiangwens(姜文）wifeisFrenchtoo.,Marriageacrossnationsmixedmarriageinterracialmarriage,Inyouropinion,whatwillbethemainbarriertomarriagesacrossnations?,Warming-upQuestions,Thelanguagebarrier;Theculturaldifferences;Thedifferentpatternsofseeingthings;Thedifferentsocialvalues;Thedifferenteatinghabits;Thedifferentprinciplesofconduct;,Warming-upQuestions,Itissaidthatloveisabusinessbetweentwopeopleandmarriageisabusinessbetweentwofamilies,doyouagree?,familysopposition,Whoarethecharactersmentionedinthearticle?Findoutbriefinformationaboutthem.,ReadingActivities,Characters,Gailsfather,Gailsmother,Younglovers,Marriageacrossnations,Gail,Mark,Deborah,David,Mark(I),Gail,Heisablackman.,Heisacharmingintelligentyoungguy.,HeisnotanAmericancitizen.,Sheisawhitewoman.,SheisgoingtomarryMark.,HerparentsdivorcehasnegativeeffectonherrelationshipwithMark.,SheisanAmericancitizen.,I.Understanding,TextStudyUnderstanding,Thispassageisafirst-personnarrativeaboutthewritersownexperienceofamixedmarriageinAmerica.GailandIdecidedtogetmarried.ButGailsfatherandmother,counseledGailtobereallysureshewasdoingtherightthing.suspectedthatMarksmotivetomarryGailmentionedtheproblemsforthechildrenofmixedmarriageswaitingwonthurtquotedstatisticstoshowmixedcoupleshigherdivorceratesharboredreservationaboutamixedmarriage.triedtopersuadeGailtochangehermind.didntwantGailtomarryforthewrongreasons,ReadingActivities,Deborahsattitude:3)didntwantGailtomarryforthewrongreasons4)waitingwonthurt,1)harboredreservationaboutamixedmarriage.2)counseledGailtobereallysureshewasdoingtherightthing.,ReadingActivities,Davidsattitude:Thereasons:,triedtopersuadeGailtochangehermind.,1)suspectedthatMarksmotivetomarryGail2)quotedstatisticstoshowmixedcoupleshigherdivorcerates3)mentionedtheproblemsforthechildrenofmixedmarriages,MarriageAcrossNations,GailandIimaginedaquietwedding.(Para.1),Meaning:aweddingwithoutmanypeopleorwithoutmuchactivity.,imagine:vt.(here)plantohave,thinkabouthaving,忙碌了一年，我们打算今年夏天在家过个安静的假期。,Weimagineaquietholidayathomeforthissummerafterabusyyear.,Para1,MarriageAcrossNations,Meaning:amixofgoodexperiencesandbadexperiences人生充满了欢乐与痛苦。Lifeisfullofupsanddowns.,3）Butthroughitallwehadhonestlyconfrontedtheweaknessesandstrengthsofeachotherscharacters.(Para.1),weaknessesandstrengths:,weakpointsandstrongpoints,Practice:,了解你自己的缺点和优点很重要。,Itsimportanttoknowyourownweaknessesandstrengths.,GailandMarkwerepreparedtohaveaquietweddingastheybelievedthattheykneweachotherwell.,MainIdeaofPara1,Para2,1.raciala.种族的racialdiscrimination种族歧视,2.enhancev.strengthen,improveenhanceourhealthenhanceourrelationship,Para2,3)andbeingopenwitheachother.,honestandnotwantingtohideanyfactsfromotherpeople,open：,beopenwith,Letsbeopenwitheachother.,Forexample:,让我们彼此开诚布公吧。,作为朋友，我们要开诚布公，而不是相互猜疑。,Translation:,Asfriends,weshouldbeopenwitheachotherratherthanfeeldoubtfulaboutoneanother.,feeldoubtfulabout,Para2,4)beinvolvedwithsth:热衷于，关注，专心于,Hewasinvolvedwithworkingoutaplan.,他专心致志地制订计划。,她过分热衷于打探他人的隐私，因而与人处不好关系。,Practice:,Sheistooinvolvedwithothersprivacytobeongoodtermswithpeople.,Compare:be(get)involvedin,IfIwereyou,Iwouldntgetinvolvedintheirproblems.,Tips:tootobeongoodtermswith,GailsometimeswonderedwhyIandotherblacksweresoinvolvedwiththeracialissue,andIwassurprisedthatsheseemedtoforgetthesubtlerformsofracialhatredinAmericansociety.,盖尔有时不明白为何我和其他黑人如此关注种族问题，而我感到吃惊的是，她好像忘记了美国社会中种族仇恨种种微妙的表现形式。,Translation原文翻译：,Theirracialandculturaldifferencesenhancedtheirrelationship.,MainIdeaofPara2,Para3,havenoillusionsabout:donthaveunrealisticideasabout对不抱任何幻想Ihavenoillusionsabouthisability.Practice:他仍对他们的爱情前景抱有幻想。,Hestillhasillusionsabouttheprospectsoftheirlove.,GailandMarkhadnoillusionsaboutwhatthefutureheldforthemasamixedcouple.,MainIdeaofPara3,GailandIhadexperienced_and_intwoyears,nowwecometo_,_and_eachother.Weconfronted_and_ofeachotherscharacter.Wehavelearnttobe_,_and_.Thesourceofourstrengthwasourmutual_and_.,ups,downs,know,understand,respect,weaknesses,strengths,tolerant,compromising,open,trust,respect,Whydidwedecidetogetmarried?,TextStudyUnderstanding,Wewanttoavoidmistakes(madebymanycouples)of,marryingforthewrongreasons,findingout(ten,twentyorthirtyyearslater),thattheyareincompatiblethattheyhardlytooktimetoknoweachotherthattheyoverlookedpersonalityconflictsin,Sentencestructure,Para4,Para4,patible:adj.,（ofpeople,ideas,etc.）suitable,abletoexisttogether适合的,一致的,becompatiblewith,Iveneverseentwopeoplewhoweremorecompatible.,我从来没见过比他们更加般配的两个人。,（ofequipment）abletobeusedtogether兼容的,Theprinteriscompatiblewithmycomputer.,这台打印机和我的电脑兼容。,Antonym：,incompatible:,水火不相容。,Waterisincompatiblewithfire.,Para4,2)theyoverlookedseriouspersonalityconflictsintheexpectationthatmarriagewasanautomaticwaytomakeeverythingworkoutright.,overlook:vt.,1.notnoticesth.orignore未注意到，忽视，忽略,Youhaveoverlookedseveralmistakesinthiswork.,你忽略了这项工作中的几个错误。,2.haveorgiveaviewof(aplace)fromabove俯视，眺望,Irentedaroomoverlookingthesea.,intheexpectation:inthehopeof期待着，希望,workout,developinacertainway,turnout;发展,产生结果,Thingswillworkoutwellifyouwilljustbepatient.,如果你耐心点，事情就会有个圆满的结局。,一切都按计划发展。,Everythinghasworkedoutaccordingtotheplan.,findbyreasoning解答，计算出vt.,Haveyouworkedouttheanswer?,你已经得出答案了吗？,警察搞不懂窃贼是怎么进入那幢大楼的。,Thepolicecouldntworkouthowthethieveshadenteredthebuilding.,3.weregoingthroughabitterandpainfuldivorce,gothrough:,experience,Wewentthroughdifficultieswhileworkingonthisproject.,实施这个项目时，我们遇到了很多困难。,这个国家经历了太多的战争。,Thecountryhasgonethroughtoomanywars.,历尽千辛万苦,gothroughhardships,Learntouse:,4.abitterandpainfuldivorce:,一场充满怨恨、令人痛苦的婚变,Para4,5.destroysb:giveabigstriketosb.给某人很大打击,6.foratime:forashortperiod7.haveanegativeeffecton:haveabadinfluenceon,GailandMarkalsoknewwelltoavoidthemistakemadebymanycoupleswhomarryforthewrongreasons.,MainIdeaofPara4,After-readingquestions:,1.WhyareGailsparents,afterthirty-fiveyearsofmarriage,goingthroughabitterandpainfuldivorce?,Asmanycouples,theygotmarriedforthewrongreasonsandfoundoutmanyyearslaterthattheywereincompatible.Theydidnttakeenoughtimetoknoweachother.,GailandMarkbelievethattheyfeeldeeplyabouteachother.,GailandMarkhadexperiencedupsanddownsfortwoyears.(Para.1),Theirracialandculturaldifferencesenhancedtheirrelationship.(Para.2),GailandMarkhadnoillusionsaboutthefuture.(Para.3),StructureanalysisofParas.1-4,GailandMarkalsoknewwelltoavoidthemistake.(Para.4),Decision:Marry,Para.5,1.Hermother,Deborah,allalonghadbeensupportiveofourrelationship,allalong:,allthetime;fromthebeginning,我一直怀疑他在撒谎。,Isuspectedallalongthathewaslying.,besupportiveof:,encouragingandhelpful,MybossisverysupportivewhenIneedhelp.,我去年被解雇时，她给了我极大的支持。,ShewassosupportiveofmewhenIwasfiredlastyear.,Learntouse:,2.Insteadofcongratulationsuponhearingournews,DeborahcounseledGailtobereallysureshewasdoingtherightthing.,upon:,immediatelyafter,directlyafter,Uponhearingthenews,sheburstintotears.,Practice:,他一毕业就找到了一份好工作。,Hegotagoodjobupongraduation.,counsel:givesb.advice,他劝他们放弃这个计划。Hecounseledthemtogiveuptheplan.她建议他们不要接受他的解释。Shecounseledthemnottoaccepthisexplanation.,counselcounselor顾问,WhenGailtoldhermotheraboutthenewsoftheirweddingplansshemetwithsomeresistance.,MainIdeaofPara5,After-readingquestions:,1.WhatwasGailsmothersreactionwhenGaildiscussedtheirweddingplanswithherfamily?,HermothercounseledGailtobereallysureshewasdoingtherightthing.,这所旧学校被买下来并随后改建成了私人住宅。Theoldschoolwasboughtandsubsequentlyturnedintoaprivatehouse.,1.subsequently:afterthat,afterwards,turninto,Compare:Thebankrefusedtohelpthecompany;consequently,itwentoutofbusiness(倒闭了).,Asaresult,therefore,GailaskedhermotherwhetherMarkscoloristheproblem.,Para.7,Iharborsomereservationsaboutwhathesaid.,我不太相信他说的话。,2.prejudicesyoumightevencallthemisapposition(同位语)ofreservationsaboutamixedmarriage.Thetwoactuallyrefertothesamething.,Para.7,thesameperson,同位语：,对句子某一成分作进一步解释、说明，而在语法上和这一成分处于同等地位的句子成分。,I,theyoungestsoninthefamily,amoftentakengoodcareof.,Mr.Green,ournewEnglish,isanAmerican.,Hetoldmethenewsthathewontheprize.,5.Witheveryindicationthat:withallthesignsthat一切迹象都表明every:asmuchaspossible,total,entire,Para.7,MainIdeaofPara.7HermotherarguedthatMarkscolorisnottheproblemforher.Instead,shewasworriedthatGaildidnotknowMarkwellenough.,MajorwritingtechniquesinPara.7:,ParallelStructure,Presentationofsomeideas,opinionsorarguments,Correctionorrejectionofideas,opinionsorarguments,Presentationofsomedifferentorevenopposingideas,Facts,orreasons,orexamplestosupporttheideaspresented,Thewriterusesparallelstructuretopresentonesopinion,whichcanbedescribedinthefollowingchart:,Parallelstructure,Para.7Howthemotherpresentsheropinion,Themothersoriginalopinion:Tostartwith,ImustadmitthatatfirstIharboredreservationsaboutamixedmarriage,prejudicesyoumightcallthem.,Themothercorrectsheroriginalopinion:ButwhenImetMarkIfoundhimacharmingandintelligentyoungguy.Anymotherwouldbeproudtohavehimforason-in-law.So,colorhasnothingtodowithit.,Themotherpresentsothersopinion:Yes,myfriendstalk.Someevenexpressshockatwhatyouredoing.,Thenthemotherrejectsthatopinion,too:Buttheyliveinadifferentworld.Soyousee,Markscolorisnottheproblem.,Themotherpresentsheropinion:MybiggestworryisthatyoumaybemarryingMarkforthesamewrongreasonsthatImarriedyourfather.,Anexampletosupportherpointsofview:WhenwemetIsawhimasmybeloved,intelligent,charming,andcaring.Itwasallsonew,allsoexciting,andweboththought,onthesurfaceatleast,thatourswasanidealmarriagewitheveryindicationthatitwouldlastforever.IrealizedonlylaterthatIdidntknowmybeloved,yourfather,verywellwhenwemarried.,Para.8-9,atonesworst,showingthemostunpleasantsideofsomeone.,2.confirm:,Ifthisishimathisbest,Imcurioustoseehimathisworst.,provethatsomethingistrue,这证实了有必要采取更加严密的安全措施。,Thisconfirmsthatstrongersafetymeasuresareneeded.,会议的日期还有待确认。,Thedateofthemeetingisstill_,stronger,tobeconfirmed.,ResponsesfromGailsmother.,TheirweddingplanmetwithresistancefromGailsmother(Para.5),Gailsdefense(Para.6),HermotherwasworriedGaildidntknowMarkwellenough.(Para.7),StructureanalysisofParas.5-9,Gailissureabouttheirmarriage.(Para.8),Hermotherinsistedthatsheshouldwait.(Para.9),Decision:Wait,Para10,1.Gailsfather,David,whomIhadnotyetmetpersonally,approachedourdecisionwithafather-knows-bestattitude.,IhadnotyetmetGailsfather,David,facetoface.Hedealtwithourdecisioninawaythatseemedhewasthemostexperiencedinfindingoutthetruth.,盖尔的父亲戴维我还未见过他的面以知女莫若父的态度来对付我们的决定。,begintoconsiderordealwith,Wewereshockedwhenwelearnedofhissuddendeath.,2.learnof:cometoknoworrealize听说,Para.10,听到他突然去世的消息我们感到非常震惊。,我是昨天才听说这次事故的。,Ilearnedoftheaccidentonlyyesterday.,3.suspect:v.thinkthatsomethingisprobablytrue,Heseemspoor,_,n.嫌疑犯Thepolicecaughttwosuspectsforterroristattack.,butIsuspectthathehasalotofmoney.,可是我怀疑他很有钱。,她的父亲开始引用统计数据说明异族通婚的离婚率比同族结婚要高，而且还列举了接受过他咨询的、在婚姻上有麻烦的异族通婚夫妇的例子。,Para.14,Hisfather,proceededtoquotestatistics,gaveexamplesofmixedcouples,showingthatmixedcoupleshadhigherdivorceratesthancouplesofthesamerace,hehadcounseled,Whowerehavingmaritaldifficulties,1.resolve,双方同意用和平的方式来解决纷争。,Thetwopartiesagreedtoresolveconflictinapeace