interpersonalrelationship.ppt

,interpersonalrelationship,一、definition:,interpersonalrelationshipisdefinedasasocialrelationestablishedbypeoplewhentheyareintheprocessofproductionandlife.generalizedinterpersonalrelationshipincludestherelationshipbetweenallpeopleinthehumansociety.specialinterpersonalrelationshipreferstotheinterdependentrelationshipformedintheactivityofthinkingandbehavingthroughvariousmediabetweentwoormorepeople.,二、essense:,target,belongstothesocialrelations.canbedividedintocongenital(先天的）andacquiredinterpersonalrelationship,role,toestablishahappylifeandaharmoniousorganizationtomaintainthestabilityofthesociety,二、essense:,target,belongstothesocialrelations.canbedividedintocongenital(先天的）andacquiredinterpersonalrelationship,role,differentroleswillhavedifferentfunctionsandattitudes.youmustfindyourownrightroleintheworldbeforeyouarereadytosetyourinterpersonalrelationship.,interpersonalrelationshipwillchangewithroles,responsibilities,relationshipsandidentities.therefore,therearemanydifferentcategoriesofinterpersonalrelationship.,三、category：,category1:,friendshiplovesexualloveprofession,category2:,powertradelove,category3:,strangenessacquaintance（相识）friendlover(爱侣),君君臣臣父父子子,category4:,四、importance:,isthebasicdemandofoursocietycanhelpyougetabetterunderstandingofyourselfcanhelpyoureachself-realizationandaffirmationcanbeusedasthecriterionforsocialpsychologicalhealth,五、howtodealwithinterpersonalrelationship,1、thegeneralprincipleofinterpersonalcommunication:,equalitythepremiseofcreatingrelationshipstolerancetobebroad-mindedandtolearntomakeallowanceforothersmutualbenefitthroughtheexchangeofmaterial,energy,spiritandemotionstrustworthinesstobehonest,confident,warmandfriendly,2、howtoimproveinterpersonalrelationship,knowyourselfbetter-topromoteyourmostoutstandingtalent,tograspanddevelopwhatyouaregoodatneverexaggerateyourself-overestimatingyourselfisaformoflyinganditcandamageyourreputation.complementeachother(取长补短）-tolearnfromothersstrongpointstooffset（弥补）onesweaknessandtomakethebestofthebothworldsnevercomplainttobebravetoadmityourshortcomingswhenyoudontsucceed.moderateself-criticismwontmakeotherslookdownonyou.tobefar-sighted(目光远大的）-trytomakemorefriendsbecauseyouneverknowwhatwillhappeninourfuture,3、howtomaintainthegoodinterpersonalrelationship,learntostandinotherspositionandputoneselfinsomeonesshoes.taketheinitiative(主动）tocommunicatewithothers.neverjudgeapersonbyonesfirstimpression.trytobeagoodlisteneranduseyourhearttolistentoothersthoughtsandfeelings.learntobeconsiderate,tryto