聊城大学研一英语对话(四).doc

What makes love lasting?A：Hello，everyone. Today, we will talk something makes love lasting?B：ok, let me just say. I think the mutual trust and loyalty are essential to make the love lasting .A sturdy love relationship is established on mutual trust and loyalty which cannot be easily altered to maintain genuine relationships .On one hand ,mutual trust is the most basic emotional quality between a love relationship and if we are in trouble we need trust each other to tide over the difficult patch mutually .So enhance the mutual trust between a love relationship is very simple ,we need the others about the integrity ,tolerance to others and to understand others. On the other hand, loyalty is a essential to consolidate the relationship, because it is the basic foundation for people to trust and communicate with each other once lack of this element will be difficult to make the love lasting. To sum up, if we want to make love lasting, we should emphasize the significance of mutual trust and loyalty with each other.C：I think so. But as we all know, when loves live a long time, they will find each other is not good as before, and they also will find many bad habits each other, they will fight just for some little things. The contradictions will become more and more serious, even leading to the relationship been broken up. Forgiveness is the key to solve contradictions. If we love somebody, we should learn to forgive. Because sometimes he or she doesnt love you the way you want them to, it doesnt mean they dont love you with all they have. Everybody has his or her advantages and shortcomings. If we love somebody, we should love all belonging to somebody and communicate frequently. Only for this, we can gain a romantic and longtime relationship between our lovers.D：yeahMeanwhile, communication is the premise to forgiveness, which includes speaking with your love frequently and listening to your partner patiently. Everyone are different from each other, it is through communication that you can tell your love what you are thinking, what you want. You need to talk to each other. Talking can also make a relationship strong. As you go through things, if something is upsetting you, take the time and say “Hey, could we talk about this? Im feeling a little insecure about this. Im feeling a little bothered. “It is also important to say things openly and honestly. Well, listening to your partner patiently and show your love can solve any problems.A：mutual trust and loyalty，forgiveness，communicationAs our textbook teach us, love, especially long-term love, has nothing in common with the images of love .as a matter of fact, real love is neither exciting nor thrilling but is relatively mundane and unrealistic. However, love is a compulsory course in life; we should have the confidence to embrace our own love with the ability! Do you think?BCD：yes! Thank you2. What are the ways to deal with stress?A:Alongwiththeacceleratedpaceofpeopleslife,alotofpeoplearefacedwithgreatstress,whichwillresultsinvariousdiseasesandserioussocialproblemsprovidedpeopleareundersuchaconditionforalongperiodoftime.Thus,itisextremelynecessaryforthesestressedpeopletoadoptsomereasonableandeffectivewaystodealwiththeirstress.B: Relatively speaking, I reckon that doing exercise is quiet useful, after all, this is one of the most direct way. As it has been known, Taking exercise is fairly a simple way to reduce physical stress. With exercising time increasing, people can have their tense nerves and tired body relaxed to a certain extant through dripping with sweat. Then, people will be inclined to calm down and not think about too much relating on stressful things. On account of the enhancement of metabolism through regular exercise, people will get healthy and feel energetic gradually.C：For physical stress, taking exercise is an effective way; but I think go to travel is beneficial for the body and mind to deal with the stress in our study and work. A succession of beautiful scenery makes one feel delighted .A long stay in the same surroundings to make everything the same. Routine work and study often makes one feel bored. In addition, travel can not only relieve our stress, but also widen our knowledge. The farther we go, the more we will learn about different politics, economics, customs and their like. Take a journey will make us to forget the displeasure in our life and deal with the stress fatly and effectively .To sum up, if we are puzzled by our work and study. We can travel by ourselves or with our friends.D：For the method of tackling pressure, the way you said only in some way either mental or physical, but in order to deal with pressure radically, we should have a method of the system. Firstly, we should have a good attitude toward life. After all, life has not only sunshine, but also hard times. Secondly, we need to choose the right way to release the pressure，like playing basketball, running or swimming. Thirdly, we can ask our teachers or good friends for help, commutate with them and tell them the difficulties we are facing. Last but not least, we should make a reasonable plan which we can easy to access.A：As a student, its typical for us to keep physical and mental health. If we are in poor health, we can accomplish nothing. If we can do things above, I think we can do a good job in our future.ABCD：Thank you!3. What are the advantages and disadvantages of having a private car?A: Nowadays, there are more and more people owning private cars. On the one hand, some wealthy people who either are the boss of the private company or the white-collar managers in big companies have their private cars. On the other hand, some young people who are future-minded buy private cars ahead of their income by loans from banks. Isitagoodorbadthingtohaveaprivatecar?B：Some claim that there are many advantages brought about buying run escape items . First, the automobile industry provides jobs for countless workers and strong support for other industries. Second, if conditions permit, owning a car can make us work more efficiently. Finally, life will become more convenient. A car allows one to move freely and with a car there is no need to wait for the bus in the cold or under the burning sun. So,itplaysaveryimportantpartinprovidingitsownerwithconvenience,enablingtheownertogowherehewantstoquicklyandeasily, and savingalotoftimewhichmaybewastedbywaitingforothervehicles.C: Ok, now I will list some disadvantages about the private cars. Like many people said, the private cars will cause the traffic jam and the serious air pollution. In addition, having a private will spend more money such as the cost of car of repairing, the insurance of cars, and the cost of parking space. To a general family, having a private will bring them more stress of money and spirit. Because they must to consider the safety of driving their own cars frequently and must take care of their skill of driving so that reduce the risk of traffic accident. Whats more, having a private car will waste a great deal of energy. So I think we should not ignore these disadvantages about the private cars.D: Before private cars became accessible to the general public, people who dreamed of owning their own cars only saw the benefits of having one. Yet, with the boom in car-ownership in the cities, people increasingly complain about the shortcomings of car ownership and its side-effects on the environment. Owning a private car has both its advantages and disadvantages. So I think we should take advantages of private cars and make them serve us better. Meantime we should pay much attention to the environmental protection.A：In short, owning a private car has both its advantages and disadvantages. It is advisable that we should pay much attention to the environmental protection by not having a private car if we have little or no practical use of the private car.4. Which plays a more important role in the personal development, home education or school education? Why?A：hello，everybody，today we will discuss about the topic of which do you think is more important ,home education or school education ?You can speak freely, who is the first?B：I come first，in my view，Home education is a phenomenon which is both old and new. And there is a growing trend for children to be educated at home. Being comparatively rare cases in China, home schooling is repeatedly reported as an attractive and promising alternative.C：as far as I am concerned, parents want to tailor the education of their children to their intelligence and aptitude. They prefer to choose the subjects on their own. They also think caring parents make the best teacher.D：That is not necessarily，home education also has its own disadvantages. It may not be practical, and dose not constitutes an important approach to children education. In my opinion, School education is very important and useful; school education has advantages that home education can never catch up with. No