英语辩论：先成家后立业.docx

Topic 11：Family or career, which should be settled down first?正方一辩：AA 二辩：BB 三辩：CC反方一辩：DD 二辩：EE 三辩：FFCC：Hello everyone! We are of the opinion should marry before career matures and develops.As a old proverb says, a man should get married when he is old enough, and so should a woman. What does marriage mean to a man? It means that he has his own family, his own home. He is not only his parents son, but also his wifes husband, and even more, his kids father. He has more burdens on his shoulders. And of course, he has a cozy harbor, and a powerful backing. He is not single any longer; he is not lonely any longer. When he makes achievements outside, or when he encounters troubles outside; when he walks on air, or when he feels down his family members would share with him in time. So, marriage is more important than career for a man. Surely, the above words are the same to a woman.FF：Hello everyone! We are of the opinion that we should marry after career matures and develops. First, establishing a family based on having a stable economic base. The establishment of the economic basis is basic premise of family established. So, no one will give up the sweet bread and choose the delicate and charming rose.EE：Second, family need economic basis to undertake this huge responsibility. To establish a happy family, to love, children with emotional, cultural education, all of these rely on relable basis, and Chinas welfare is not perfect yet, as the youth at the instant of the families bear the four old man endowment problem. Such a large family responsibility , how can youth with a no economic foundation to afford?DD：Thirdly, if we get married before starting a career, family will become the heavy burden of our career. And early marriage life will block the realization of the life value .AA Con side mentioned just now that marriage maybe hinder your career, i want to say is ， Without a family, how could you keep all your mind on developing career?DD: Examples shows that almost all of the Olympic champions start their careers before getting married, for example table tennis queen Deng Yaping won the first Olympic gold medal in 1983, but it was not until 2004 when she formed her own family, Tian Liang and Yao Ming also have the similar experience. So not getting married will not affect ones career, on the contrary,may promote his careers development.AAAfter all the cases you said are partially. I think the marriage gives you stronger backup force.EE Such is the case, marriage gives you warmth and force , but What would you do when domestic trivia influence your work?BB It is well known that behind every man ,there is a great woman. Its hard to avoid frustration ,while the woman will not only help you handle the problems you meet during you go all out with your work, but also give you hopeful, confidence and warmth . And these words are the same to a woman. It doesnt mean there are no trifles in your life if you dont get married. Instead, you will requicken and work harder and harder. EE；Do you think so? well ,it depends.CCAnotherwayoflookingatit ,I am sure you will agree .what I want to say is that Even when you have already met a dream lady who is willing to spend the rest of her life with you, not caring whether you are successful or not,why should you refuse her? How would you just let your love waiting for your success lonely all the time? If you work hard for a long time and eventually earned enough money, but can you make sure the right person is still the right one? Without spirit communication, hardly can you have the same language.FFMoney has nothing to do with communication, if as you said, all the rich are lack of communication between family members? Madame Curie won the Nobel Prize, but the communication between her and her husband does not have any problem later.CCIn your world ,which is the most important? Only money? Position ?DDI just put money and social level an important position,but not the most .Without a successful career, having no money, how can you raise your family? AAFamily is a warm place, when you come across some difficulties, your family members will stay with you and give you support and encouragement. Only when you have a family can you work harder for your family members for the sense of responsibility. So, marriage is helpful for career to some extent.DD：I agree with you that Family is helpful and we should bear the responsibility of the family, but I dont agree that Only after i have a family will I work hard, why can t I start now,BB:Such being the case, so What is the exactly standard of a successful career? If your career is not successful, could it be said that you wont get married?EE:The standard of career success is not the goal of our discussion today. We are not talking we are not going to get married until get a successfu