大学英语口语准备文章.doc

Topic 1Everyone will experience the different stages of life, and as we grow older, our purpose of choosing a friend changes. This is what today my topic is mainly focus on.When we are still a child, we are all innocent and worry about nothing. In this stage, we dont care about our friends social background, their religions, values or whether they are poor or wealthy. We are still too young to realize those complicated questions. We just want to find someone to play with, to accompany us venturing in the colorful world with our pure eyes. The interesting thing may be, a childs friend is not just considered human beings. It can also be a cat, a dog, or even a flower growing in the yard.But when we growing up, things changes. Aspects like personalities, social back ground, values, religions, and which political camps you belong to all begin to influences the choice we make in choosing a friend now. The reason why people begin to aware these in choosing a friend I think is caused by mainly two reasons. First, the knowledge we learn changed our mind. What we learn plays an important role in building our personalities and values, and if two people are extremely different in personalities and values, they may find they are always arguing on variety of things. In this way, they may not become friends at all. Second, as an adult, he will always have ambitions to succeed. To meet some people with good knowledge and superior social background can help you much easily to get what you want. It may be more obviously in politics. Since we are now considered much more on a series of aspects in choosing a friend, we find our real friends are less. Thats because our aim is so clear. We havent treated our friend with our true heart. A real friend is whom you can always turn to, and he never dislikes and avoids you. No matter which stage we are in, we need true friends.(O)Every one of us is different from others, even friends are different in some ways, but the difference may lie in different aspects at different stages of life.In childhood, The friendship between children is very pure and easy ,so they often differ in the way that related to family ,achievement in school ,interests , personalities and something like that ,These differences cant impair their relationship. For example, a child who gets high grades in school can make friends with another child who may not be able to earn a high score, and a boy who loves playing computer games can be the good friend of another boy who prefers playing basketball. and two children coming from respectively a rich family and a relatively poor family can still get on well with each other.However, when people grow older, the difference is changing. People may tend to find friends who have a similar social and educational background with them, the same interests and values are also important factors. But the difference of age may occur, the age gap may not play a main role in finding friends .Besides, personalities are probably also different. We can see that an organized person and an impulsive one can be very good friends.Seeing from the above, we know that in different ages people seek friends in different trend.So friends common aspects are changing thus the differences points are changing as well. But we all know they do no great harm to the friendship.Topic 2To discuss this topic, I want to explain what the meaning of friend is first. In my point of view, I consider friend someone you have the same interests and hobbies, and can shares your happiness and sorrows with. But the relationship of “more than a friend” is even beyond that. It may reach the relation like family members, or your future partner, whom we called him/her your” boy/girl friend”. Why do people want this kind of relationship? I think there are three main points:First, for love is peoples real emotion, everyone wants to love someone and be loved. Second, people are social animals, they are always afraid of being alone. A friend can surely help you get rid of it, but they cant always accompany you. What I want to say is, despite your family member, it is “more than a friend” who can accompany you and care about you more than others. So a reason for peoples willing of having a “more than a friend” relation is to forget the feeling of loneliness. I might just mention about the word care. So my third point is people usually want more care from others. This can make them feel that they are useful, and really important to someone. In this way, they find their meaning of living. A friend and a “more than a friend” are different here. Friend is of course an important role in your life. But someone who consider you “more than a friend”, are indicating that he thinks you are different from others for him. Nobody else can replace you. This also means he cares you more than others, including his friends.However, although people are willing to have a relation “more than a friend”, it seems that they dont say it directly. To explain this phenomenon, I want to show you my three reasons. First of all, it is come from what we called “shy” or “timid”. Its always what a girl shows. And next, people are afraid of failure. If they say it directly, they may have the risk to experience a rejection. And also, other peoples sights and gossips can also take away the courage of you to say it directly.(O)In my opinion, I think more than a friend “means that besides friendship between two people, people still needs a relationship beyond that ,which is usually viewed as love .Love is often existing between males and females ,and its a romantic feeling. The kind of person who is “more than a friend“ is called boyfriend and girlfriend, or husband and wife. As one grows older and becomes physical and mental mature, they begin to focus more on the people of the opposite sex. And then, to seek a life partner, they often date with many people and finally develop a relationship of more than a friend with the one they appreciate and like. After the relationships of lovers are built up, two people will get on with each other further and make deeper understanding. And if they get married finally, they hold the same family, responsibility and goals, which is more holy and serious than friendship. Its still restricted by the law.But many people avoid saying it directly. I think it mainly because its somewhat a sensitive topic after all. Before two people know each other well, theyre not supposed to discuss too personal questions and express the feeling and thoughts very directly at the very beginning. From my perspective, this is a way to show ones respect and politeness. Maybe telling it directly will make others feel astonished but in the other hand, an indirect way will work better for acceptance. So that is why most people usually behave to be cool even though they want to develop a relationship of more than a friend.Topic 3Well, the answer of this statement is based on own experience and life style.In the first place, it is a fact that there are some differences between the styles of boys and girls wearing in China. The boys style is more leisure, athletic, easy. For they often do some sports after class. Meanwhile, most girls style is more gentle and fashionable, for instance, a number of girls who follow the fashion are willing to wear skirts and stockings in winter in spite of the freezing wind. To realize the clothing differences between boys and girls, it is also important to see the following phenomenon. As we all know, a great many students are required to wear uniforms in campus which causes fierce argument. On one hand, people consider that pursuing of fashion will distract students mind from their studies. On the other hand, if the students are not required to wear uniforms, it will create social barriers for those who dont have the money for the latest fashions. That is to say, fashion in campus sometimes may be limited by the uniform regulation. However, it is an undeniable fact that dressing reflects our tastes, personalities and life styles. It is a kind of expression, separates you from common people. Whether you realize it or not, it does exist. It is important to dress in a way that makes a statement about who you are. Others may judge you in the way you dressing. Just imagine what it would be like if an artist dresses like an officer, what a ridiculous match! The desire of expressing our inner ideas is increasing all along our way of growing up. To some extent, it involves with self-cognition and social-cognition. So it is sagacious to gradually let out kids depressed emotion and ideas inside their heart.(O)In china, there are obvious differences between the styles of boys and girls. Generally speaking, girls tend to be more interested in clothes than boys, It seems like that they are always desperate for clothes ,so they usually spend more time on shopping for pretty clothes and seem never to be fed up with it. Girls prefer to look fashionable and trendy, and they hope to present themselves by wearying beautifully.However, on the other hand, boys do not often get them dressed up to be very trendy ,they are more likely to wear casually .Its favorable to be in comfortable clothes. Therefore, sports clothes are always the first choice for many boys. But we can see it appears that nowadays more and more boys pay attention to show their personalities by wearing some special styles of clothes.As for kids, I think parents and schools are not supposed to restrict what they should wear totally. We should allow the differences. The uniforms are essential for children to form a collective mind, but developing personalities is also important. The difference in wearing displays different inner expressions. We should let them come out freely. So being different is helpful for kids overall and diverse development .But schools and parents should make sure that their kids will not pay much attention to wearing, but the inner world development is crucial.Topic 4According to many researches and peoples experiences, our judgments upon others is usually dependent on how they look and how they dress. What people wear expresses who they are and what their personalities are. I think ones style of wearing should be consistent with his or her age, gender, identity, profession and something like that.In my memory, I had a classmate at high school who always dressed her up to be mature and trendy, and it was exaggerated sometimes. But when you looked at her baby face and childish eyes, you would find that she was merely a pure senior student and her mind was not relatively mature. That is to say, the way she dressed her up neither matched her age, nor transmitted her genuine message. Then as I had a rather good relation with her, I told her indirectly that she should wear more like a student. For example, I would say, hey, friend, you look like a little older in that clothes, why not try some clothes that make you appear younger and more active?Fortunately, she thought it was right and took my advice. After exchanging for sports clothes or students dress, she looked more lovely and confident.But I will only tell my opinion out in the condition that we have known each other well, otherwise I will not make any observations. After all, I think ,its all ones own choice, and the dressing style doesnt really show a persons personality all the time, so we are not necessary to concentrate on ones dressing too much.Topic 5According to my experience, when I first glance at a person, my first impression is usually dependent on his or her appearance. However, Im not sure whether the eyes, clothes, hair or something else exactly attract me first, maybe Id like to take many elements into consideration. I think different people have different characteristics, so what I usually notice first is the persons special trait.For example, if someones eyes are beautiful, I tend to focus on them for more time. And if a girl has a rather long and slippery hair, Id like to appreciate her appearance. Besides I prefer to pay more attention to and have a good first impression on the one who smiles a lot and presents a sunny image. Plus, a person who has a good way to talk also appeals to me very much. But on the other hand, I am not willing to contact the kind of person who cant dress up properly.Yes, we should acknowledge that judging a person only by the out appearance is not rational sometimes, and you will always find a person is not definitely like what you feel about him or her at the first glance. So we should step into ones inner world in order to get to know them better. But if you want to leave a good first impression to others in a short time, you should make your image match your genuine personality and characteristic.Topic 6Perhaps there is not only model in my life, because each of them has some good characteristics deserved to learn from. But today Id like to talk about one of them. Hes a young singer in China, Hes name is Su Xing, or Allen SUI remember those two years ago, in the summer when I took part in the college entrance examination, I watched a television program by chance, it was a singing competition and Allen was one of the players. When I first heard him singing, I was deeply attracted by him. After that I began to pay more attention to him and get to know that besides singing well he has many fabulous traits. Before taking part in this competition, he had been studying in Australia for nearly 7 years and always had a preference to sing on the stage, and always kept on working hard on singing. In order to pursue and realize his dream of singing, he came back to participate in this competition and finally succeeded.The 7-year-experience of studying abroad taught him to be independent ,confident ,persistent and optimistic ,He always said, there is something in life that you cant control but you can do the best as you can!This encouraged me and gave me a right attitude when facing challenges and difficulties in life. Plus, hes ability to speak a flow of English motivated me to study English hard and this may be part of the reason why I got a high score in the English test of the college entrance examination.Of course Im just a fan of him, but I do develop more confident and upbeat under his influence, but more important is I learn to do things to my best no matter what the result will be.Topic7Knowledge can give a person the necessary ability to finish the work very well. Only we have the needed knowledge and skills, we can get a satisfactory job to make our life more beautiful. Whats more, children are the future of our country. They must be educated to be knowledgeable ones and master some special skills so that they can make contributions to our centurys development.So if we find that some children at a nearby school seem to have few opportunities for academic success, we should help them for the success.First, we should know about why they cant succeed in their study. We cant solve the problem if we dont know how the problem comes into existence. We can know how to help them only we know the reasons why they cant succeed. I will get in touch with them and make friends with them. So I will make it clearly what the reasons are through communicating with them.Second, I will help them with their study according to the reasons. If they dont have the interest in studying, I will let them know that we can find happiness in study. For example, I will give them some chances to teach others some new knowledge they just learn. I think they will be very happy that they know more knowledge than others, then they will be glad to learn. If they dont have confidence and they think they cant learn very well even if they study hard, I will help them to cultivate the confidence. For example, I will give them a very difficult question and encourage them to solve them. Certainly, I will pick the question they can solve only after they make an effort to do it. When they finally solve them, I will speak highly of them. Then they will know that they can learn well if they work hard.In a word, I will find the reasons why they cant learn well, then help them overcome the troubles.Topic8Before I come to the stage give this speech, a friend of mine sent a message to me, he said “Good luck”, and it really helps me feel better. So here comes my topic todaywhat do I usually do to bring good luck to my life?Some people think that certain objects bring them good luck; others avoid certain things or situations that they believe might bring them bad luck. Even people who claim not to believe in superstitions sometimes use phrases such as keep your fingers crossed when they speak. So I believe everyone in this world has a certain way to bring themselves good luck, and as for me I regard red as my lucky color. Whenever there is an important situation such as an examination of great significance or a presentation before a great number of people, I would wear red clothes to bring myself good luck. And I think it really works, at least it can give me more confidence, and for some unknown reasons red can just decrease my panic before those important situations.And I do have another way to bring myself good luck that is working hard. If there is something I really have faith in, thats working hard. Success is always there for people who really try their best to achieve the goal. As an old saying goes no pains, no gains, so in my opinion the most effective way to have good luck and be successful is do what you can to achieve the goal. And I believe as long as we try hard, we will be lucky because we are all the lucky children of god. Personally I think myself not very superstitious