英国绅士教育.doc

英国绅士教育绅士（a gentleman; the gentry） shn sh本词最早出现在英国，一般说来当时的英国绅士通常会手拿文明棍，头戴大礼帽，身着笔挺的西装，足登亮皮鞋。什么是绅士风度，彬彬有礼,待人谦和,衣冠得体,尊重女性,谈吐高雅，自身修养，知识渊博，见多识广，有爱心，尊老爱幼，尊重女性，无不良嗜好，身体健康，举止文明，谈吐文雅，穿着得体，人际关系良好。为了博得女性的绅士风度，而特别锻炼弥补自己不足的，那样有些太累了，人最大的不同在于思维的不同，即便是长得两个一样的双胞胎，脑子里想的也都不一样的，但就是这种不一样，造就了这个千变万化的精彩社会，当然，不是说不好，我感觉良好的心态很重要，平和的。因为本身就是个综合素质的问题，而不是那里，那里的弥补等，综合的整体问题，就应该以一种平平淡淡，内在积累的质变。那样才最真的，才是最真情的流露。 男人彬彬有礼往往还可以表现文明社会男士的道德风范，也可以看出一个男士的受教育程度。其实，男士的风度不仅应表现在与女友的交往中，还应表现在日常生活中对女士的态度上。 (1)您应该先向所遇到的熟悉的女士微微点头打招呼。如果某位女士向您走来，请您记住，如果她主动伸出手，您才能与她握手。 (2)在公共场所偶然遇到熟悉的女士互相问好时，可以不握手，但必须把手从口袋里拿出来，把烟从嘴上拿下来，如果吃着东西要停止咀嚼，当然，女士也一样。男士在大街上随便让女士停下脚步是有失体面的，哪怕是熟人。如有急事当然可以例外。 (3)如果您与女伴走在街上遇到熟人，您不能把女伴晾在一边没完没了地与熟人交谈。您可以把熟人介绍给女伴，但是如果您必须与熟人谈什么事情而且三言两语说不清楚，可以另约时间见面或打电话联系。 (4)如果某女士坐您开的车，您一定要打开车门让女士先坐在副驾驶的位置上，您再坐到自己的位置上。女士下车的时候， 您要先下车，为女士打开车门。在车内探过身子打开车门的做法不雅观。当然，也不能让女士自己取出行李物品。 (5)在咖啡馆或饭店与熟悉的女士会面时，要从座位上略略欠身以示欢迎。如果女士走近您，要站起来与其交谈。 (6)晚会上您的女友要去卫生间稍事整理，您可以把她送到大厅，但要小心地绕行，以免打扰正在跳舞的人。 (7)晚会结束后，如果有条件要开自己的车或打的送女友回家，别忘了谢谢女友接受邀请参加晚会。一般是看着女友走近楼门或家门。更礼貌的做法是，从汽车里出来，把女友送到她的家门口。Gentleman (a gentleman; the gentry) sh n shi this term originated in Britain, generally speaking at the time, the British gentleman will usually take WenMingGun, big hats, dressed in straight suit, sufficient light leather shoes on. What is the gentleman poise, well-mannered, treats people with moderate, the headgear appropriately, respect for women, style is decorous, their own culture, the profound knowledge, informed, has the compassion, aged respected, respect for women, no bad habits, healthy body, civilized behavior, conversation elegant, dressed, interpersonal relations. In order to win the women like a gentleman, and special exercise make up his insufficient, that some tired, a persons greatest different lies in the thinking of different, even if is is the same two twins, think is different also, but is this different, make the protean wonderful society, of course, is not to say that is not good, I feel good state of mind is important, peaceful. Because itself is a comprehensive quality problem not there, there to make up for, etc, comprehensive overall problem, should with a kind of go light, the accumulation of internal changes of quality. That the most true, is the most true reveal. Men often can also polite society of man performance civilization moral leadership, also can see a man by the degree of education. In fact, the man of poise should not only displays in with his girlfriend in communication, still should behave in daily lifes attitude towards women. (1) you should be the first to meet the familiar with ms wei2 nod hello. If a woman came to you, please remember, if she active hand, you can shake hands with her. (2) in the public place came across the familiar with ms exchange greetings, can not shake hands, but must take out his hand from his pocket, the smoke from the mouth off, if eating anything to stop chewing, of course, madam. The man in the street literally let the women stop it is decent, even if it is an acquaintance. If there is something urgent of course can be the exception. (3) if you walk in the street with female the companion acquaintances, you cant put the female the companion in the deep end endless talk with acquaintances. You can put the acquaintance introduced to female the companion, but if you must with acquaintances talk what things and a few words said not clearly, can fix another time for a meeting or call the contact. (4) if a woman sit your car, you must open the doors let the women sit first co-pilot position, you sit again to his position. Lady got off, you want to get off first, open doors for women. In the car out of the practice of the open the doors had body suit. Of course, also cant let the women themselves out luggage items. (5) in cafes or hotel and familiar with lady meet, will from the seat to welcome QianShen silvanus. If the lady approached you, to stand up and talk. (6) the party of your girlfriend will go to toilet sorting out, you can send her to the hall, but be careful to go round, so as not to disturb are dancing. (7) after the party, if there are conditions be in his own car or a taxi to send his girlfriend to go home, dont forget to thank his girlfriend to accept the invitation to the party. General is looking at his girlfriend went near the house or. The more polite way is, from the car up to the entrance of the house of her girlfriend. 绅士是一个流动变化的概念，具有一定的开放性，但英国是一个阶层意识深厚的国家。英国古代等级森严，早在1688年，乔治王朝就把英国社会分为26种等级。后来，这种社会等级制度逐渐发展成为三个社会阶层，贵族绅士阶层GentryClass、市民阶层BurghersClass和劳动人民阶层WorkingClass。至今大部分英国人对自己所处的阶层有清楚的认识，在最近几年的一项民意测验中，百分之八十五的人仍认为英国是一个阶级等级观念仍很重要的社会，百分之四十八的人认为自己是劳动阶层，差不多同样数量的人认为自己是中产阶级，百分之十八的人认为自己是中上的阶层，只有百分之一的人自认为是上层社会的。A gentleman is a flow of the concept of change, has some of the open, but the UK is a class consciousness of the deep state. British ancient bureaucratically, as early as 1688, George dynasty put British society is divided into 26 level. Later, the social hierarchy system gradually developed into three social Class, noble Gentry gentleman Class Class, citizen stratum Burghers Class and Working people Working Class Class. So far most British people in its own class to have a clear understanding, in recent years of an opinion poll, eighty-five percent of the people who still think that the UK is a class hierarchy is still very important social, forty-eight percent considered themselves to working-class, almost the same number of people think that he is the middle class, eighteen percent of the people think that he is the upper middle class, only one percent of people think the upper class society.英国绅士教育是近代欧洲尤其是英国代表新兴资产阶级利益的一种教育理论，就其特点与发展过程而言具有典型的英国特色是英国文化、传统、经济、教育长期发展、积淀的结果，它在资本主义的发展过程中起到的重要的作用。它的产生标志着从封建教育向资产阶级世俗教育的转变，在近代西方教育理论的形成与发展中占有重要的地位。英国教育学家和哲学家洛克对绅士教育的发展起到了至关重要的作用。洛克作为近代西方教育理论的先导，他继承并发展了前人的有关思想，对绅士教育理论作了最为系统的阐述。如今，绅士教育思想作为优秀而独具特色的英国公学以一贯之的培养目标，保持着自己的独立地位。English gentleman education modern Europe especially England represents the interests of the new bourgeoisie a education theory, its characteristics and development process of the typical British for features-is the British culture, tradition, economy, education long-term development, accumulation of the results, it in the development of capitalism process has played an important role. It marks the produce from the feudal education to the bourgeois secular education changes, in the modern western education theory in the formation and development of occupy an important position. British education experts and philosopher John Locke education development to a gentleman played a crucial role. Locke as modern western education theory of the guide, he inherited and developed some previous ideas, the gentleman education theory of most system in this paper. Now, the gentleman education thought as excellent and unique British public schools to the consistent training target, to retain their independence. 英国绅士教育的文化归因及影响绅士教育的主要内容 道德教育。正如前面提到的教育的目标一样，洛克重视道德教育，并以“德行”目标来要求绅士养成良好的道德修养。 健康教育。洛克继承了后期人文主义教育家重视体育的传统，把健康的身体看作绅士事业成功、生活幸福的首要条件，还提出了“健康之精神寓于健康之身体”的名言。另外还指出：“我们要能工作，要有幸福，必然先有健康；我们要能忍耐劳苦，要能出人头地也必须先有强健的身体；这种种道理都很明显，用不着任何证明”。智育。 即目标中提及的“智慧”和“学问”方面，主张学科的设置把古典课程与现代实用课程结合起来。“功用”是洛克关于学习科目的主要标准：他们应该是最有用的和最经常使用的。而相对于非学术型的大学教育，洛克更关心绅士的基本教育，重视教学内容的实用性，主张绅士采用“最容易，最简洁”的教学方法。 礼仪。洛克认为，良好的礼仪表现在“不要看不起自己，也不要看不起别人”。礼仪需要学习与人交往的技巧，那就是既能表明自己的尊敬、重视和善意，又不被人家疑心那是馅媚、伪善和卑鄙。因此，礼仪其实也是绅士的一种重要的美德。English gentleman education culture attribution and influence The main content of the gentleman education Moral education. As mentioned in the education goals, Locke takes the moral education, and to virtue goals for gentleman develop good morals. Health education. Locke inherited late humanism of traditional sports educator attention, the healthy body as a gentleman success and happiness of the primary conditions, but also put forward to the health of the spirit in the health of the body line. In addition also point out: we need to be able to work, want to have a happy, healthy; we must first have to put to work out, can also must have a strong body; this kind of truth are obvious, dont have any proof. Intellectual education. That is the goal of the mentioned wisdom and learning, advocate of the discipline of the classical courses and modern setting practical courses together. Function is about the main subjects of study Locke standard: they should be the most useful and use most often. In contrast, the academic model university education, Locke care more about the gentleman of basic education, pay attention to the practicability of teaching content, and claims that the gentleman most easy, the most concise teaching method. Etiquette. Locke think, good etiquette performance in dont look down on yourself, dont look down on others. Etiquette, you need to learn and communication skills, that is already can show your respect and attention and good will, and not be somebody elses suspicion that stuffing mei, hypocrisy and mean. Therefore, the etiquette is actually a gentleman kind of important virtue. 英国绅士文化的发展及教育价值 随着工商业的发展，中间阶层以其新增的财富谋求进入绅士阶层，以获得相应的社会地位。随着资本主义的进一步发展，传统绅士形象中的人情味和责任感进一步淡化，另一方面，个人奋斗与商业意义上的成功日渐成为人们接受的绅士标准。“绅士”的适用范围日渐扩大。到了19世纪末的维多利亚后期，传统的绅士概念已被彻底稀释，失去了意义。 当然，随着社会的发展以及国际交流的不断深入，英国人的性格特征随着价值观的变化也在发生着潜移默化的变化。但这种潜意识中的绅士气度却影响着一代又一代的英国人。了解它潜在的文化底蕴对大家掌握西方语言文化大有裨益。 绅士文化教育的价值 教育价值就是教育的有用性或“效用”，是人们有意识的掌握，利用或接受，享有教育时，对教育有用性的看法和评价。钟启泉教授在一次接受记者采访时说：学校是什么？其实学校不是什么。学校不是官僚机构，不是兵营，不是公司，不是监狱。学校是学习型组织，是学习共同体，学校是为学生提供服务的。教育的价值体现在： 教育目的人类性取向。人类是主体社会形态的最高层次，人类的发展是人的教育所追求的最高目标和最终结果。所谓人类性，它区别于全球性和共同性，是指整个人类的共同性，它是一种新的主体性，是对传统的个人主义的主体性的拷问和反思，是一种共存的类主体性，体现在教育目的上，就是洞察人的类本质、体现时代音符，以整个人类的共同发展为鹄的。Concerning the development of English gentleman culture and education value Along with the development of industry and commerce, and the middle class with its new wealth to enter a gentleman class, to get the corresponding social status. With the further development of capitalism, the traditional image of human and responsibility gentleman further lighten, on the other hand, individual struggle and business in the sense of success becomes people to accept gentleman standards. Gentleman has a widening the scope of application of. Of the 19 th century of the Victorian later period, the traditional gentleman concept has been thoroughly diluted, lost its meaning. Of course, with the development of society and the international exchange unceasingly thorough, the British character features as values change also is in producing a subtle change. But this kind of the subconscious gentleman bearing but affect generation after generation of British people. Understand the culture of its potential to language and culture to the western people greatly. Five, the gentleman culture education value Education value education is the use of or utility, it is people conscious mastery, use or accept and enjoy the education, the education of the usefulness of views and evaluation. Professor ZhongQiQuan in a reporters: school? What? In fact the school is not what. The school is not bureaucracy, not barracks, not the company, not jail. The school is a learning organization, is the study community, the school is to provide students with the service. Education embodies the value in: education purpose human sexual orientation. The human body is the highest level of social form, the development of the human race is one of the education target and the highest results. The so-called human sexual, it is distinguished from a global and common, it is to point to the entire human common, it is a new subject, is to the traditional individualism, the subjectivity of the torture and reflection, is a kind of coexistence class subjectivity, reflected in the education purpose, insight into the nature of man is, reflect The Times notes, with the whole human common development as the sole guide.即使今天的英国，在家庭教育中，按照“绅士教育”传统来教育孩子，仍是一个特色。在英国的家庭里，绝对看不到对儿童的没有理由的娇宠，犯了错误的孩子会受到纠正甚至惩罚。家长们往往在尊重孩子独立人格的前提下，对孩子进行严格的管束，让他们明白，他们的行为不是没有边际的，不可以为所欲为。英国的法律明确规定了允许家长体罚孩子，至今许多学校仍保留着体罚学生的规矩。Even if Britain today, in family education, according to the gentleman education traditional education to children, is still a characteristic. In Britain the family, absolutely cant see no reason for the children of the spoil, made a mistake of the children are correct and even punishment. Parents often in respect children independent personality, under the premise of children to strict bundle, let them understand, their behavior is not without limit, cant do. British law clearly specified allow parents to spank their children, has many schools still has the corporal punishment student rules. 英国传统的绅士风度(一)服装穿着上的合适得体。一要符合自己的身份，二要适合所在的场合。 (二)性格内向、幽默的社交方式 (三)女士优先的礼仪原则。 在英国，女性接受男性的尊重，男性的保护，是天经地义的礼仪传统。为此，英国内政部曾向男子发出“十诫公告”现代意义上的绅士风度(一)讲究仪容和服装整洁。男士切忌粗俗邋遢，女士不能轻浮俗艳。 (二)言行举止彬彬有礼，文雅大方。 在交际中，作介绍时，西方国家的习惯是