How to Break Up Peacefully.doc

演讲稿范文/英语演讲稿 how to break up peacefully welcome and greetings! im glad youre here today. i have some useful advice to share. im going to talk about breaking up. i plan to offer some suggestions. we should always try to end a relationship on good terms. it requires skill and maturity. it takes a warm personality and a kind heart. here are some tips to help you out. first,select a good place. break up in the right enviroment. break up somewhere without distractions. arrange to be alone. arrange to go some place quiet and peaceful. make sure its one-on-one. write out your feelings beforehand. try to communicate from your heart. try to break the news as gently as you can. second,communicate with care. communicate straight from the heart. try to break up with grace and dignity. be sensitive and understanding. be courteous and polite. put yourself in the other persons shoes. explain clearly how you feel. explain whats on your mind. be patient;dont rush or be rude. third,try to control your emotions. remain calm and serious. remain rational and level-headed. be as honest as possible. you both deserve the truth. you dont want to deceive or mislead. dont lose your composure. dont lose control or fall apart. force yourself to be emotionally strong. finally,dont let the breakup turn ugly. focus on the positives. focus on the positives. focus on the good memories and the good times youve shared. try to remain friends. promise to keep in touch. promise to respect each other forever. dont let it end painfully. dont let the hurt continue. refuse to quarrel or dislike each other. in conclusion,you can decide how it ends. you can set the tone. decide to separate as friends. be persistent. accept some of the blame. accept some responsibility for the split. jus