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4 Huang Mike Huang ENG 111 CN Professor Miller Argument Paper 21 June , 2013Jing-Meis Mother Gave Her Stress Amy Tan say:Mom believes any dreams come true in the united states,you can do everything you want to do. (Tan 1 )At first, her mother took her to the barber shop, I hope she became Chinas Shirley Temple. In addition, the mother is still a day after dinner for her to be tested, the end result is tired of this test her, mother gave up hope for her daughter. Later, her mother saw a very good TV show, so take her to the neighbors to learn piano, her daughter does not agree to learn piano. Afewweekslater, OldChongandmotherconspiredtohaveherplayinatalentshowthatwastobeheldinthechurchhall, performing a mess, let her mother disappointed again.Finally, she can not stand all this, she did not want to do anything, she was his mother wanted to return to their. Therefore, she and her mother growing contradiction between. One day, she would play the piano, but his mother had died, she finally realized what had mothers hopeMother wanted her to become a genius, her mother took her to the barber shop, I hope she became Chinas Shirley Temple. Barber to cut her hair like a boy, but it made her actually look forward to my future fame. I think this is from her own internal stress.Mother to let her become a genius tried different solutions. Mother every night for her to do the test, but this allows the jing-mei arrived tired, she said ”Iwontletherchangeme,Ipromisedmyself.IwontbewhatImnot”. (Tan 1 ) After the test she is listless look, her mother gave up the final test. Withstandthe stressfromhermother, its Type A stress.Motherlet herlearn the piano, her motherwanted her toperformwell. She did not wantto learnthe piano, she thinksher motherstoo much to ask. Finally found a mother to her piano teacher,and produced a study plan, for such a plan she protested, but eventually executed. One day, mother let her participate in a talent show, she was very confident, also veryconfidentand did notknow what istension, but whenthe show began, performing worse mess, after that her mother completely lost hope. In this case the stress from her own internal, this stress is foreseeable but not avoidable, this is a Type C stress situation.Some things always had a very long time to understand. After that performance for a long time, the mother again just let her practice piano, and this time she screamed say No. She refused to do anything, she wanted to go back myself. Because these conflicts with her mother more and more serious, so until his mother died. In herthree-year-old birthday, his mother gave her the piano again, and later or purely sentimental reasons, she put a child playing song and play it again, This time she was surprised to find that playing is so smooth. This time she finally understood her mothe rwhen all hope. For these external causes stress generated, which are neither foreseeable nor avoidable, thses are Type B stress situations.From the beginning, Jing-Mei is arranged in the mother thing, though reluctantly, but still do it. Such a life that she can not do her favorite things, so will produce a strong antagonistic emotions. From the beginning of cut head and testing to later learn the piano, do these things when there is reluctance emotions, but to the mothers death she knows her mother do it all. Before the encounter is whether foreseeable or unforeseeable stress, she should be seriously addressed. Mothers reasons for doing so is to become more outstanding Jing-Mei, she should not have let her mother so disappointed. Works CitedElkind, David. ”Types of Stress for Young People.” ENG 095: Reading and Composition Strate