阻碍成功的20件平凡小事.docx

我们都很讨厌平凡。“平凡”这个词逐渐成为一个贬义词。你平凡吗？如果你不想成为那些平凡人群之一，请看下去，永远不拒绝平凡。1.看太久电视。看电视是也没什么，但是看了太久就不好了。它花费了你太多的时间却没有什么好处。大部分节目都是为了娱乐，而不是教育。另外，广告会误导你购买你不需要的东西。你花费了你宝贵的时间在那个黑盒子面前度过，所以减少看电视的时间或者尽量不要去看电视。2.玩太久当你玩太多了，这意味着你花太多时间在做徒劳无功的事情。如果你想释放你的压力，玩一下跟上面 的看电视是一样的也无关紧要。但是过多的玩耍不利于我们的工作效率。减少各种形式的娱乐量，更专注于做有意义的工作。3.懒得去管理时间管理时间很无聊。但大多数人忘了，那就是促进生产力中最有益的活动之一。通过管理的时候，你会更了解你该如何利用时间。这将帮助你更加谨慎，帮助你如何度过你生命的每一秒。时间是一种不可再生的资源，所以最好尽可能有效利用它。4.醒的晚赖床意味着你做事的时间变少了。它实际上是你作为一个没效率的人的暗示。大多数人在早晨精力充沛，但如果他们不醒来，在那个时候，所有的能量将白白浪费。这就是为什么，如果你想在一天内完成更多的事情，早起是超级重要的原因。早起还可以帮助你准备充分，因为你可以早起享用美味的早餐，放松身心的面对忙碌的一天。5.过分依赖灵感和动力灵感不是经常有的。如果你依赖它太多了，你永远不会做成任何事。你必须做你有义务的事，不管是否有灵感。这就是生活，还得继续。6.懒惰懒惰阻碍着行动，因为它是并不能督促行动的的巨大障碍。当你没有做任何事情，你会变得平凡。不要懒惰，保持活跃。7.对于已有的想法不付诸于行动我们所有的人有很多直觉和想法在我们的脑海中。成功的人付诸于行动，并努力把自己的想法变成现实，但平凡的人不会。不要小看你的想法和思想。只要你相信他们，采取行动。8.做了太多的假设如果你不去试，任何假设都是徒劳的。永远滞留于一个假设，还认为这是一个事实。假设需要总是被测试，因为仅存在的假设依然不是事实。9.缺乏批判的思考方式大多数人不会质疑他们读的或者听的东西。质疑是是重要的，因为它可以帮助我们更好地成为一个批判的思想家。有太多的人善于撒谎，并说服你去接受他们不可见人的原因。所以你要质疑他们说的，再确定是否要融入他们的群体。10.固定的思维模式当你想学习些东西很难的时候，你会放弃吗？你会说，那是因为自己智力限制造成的，而你却无能为力吗？如果你说是，那么你有固定的思维定势。一般人有一个固定的思维模式，他们认为，平凡的人认为自己天生并如此平凡。不要这样，培育积极的心态，做任何你想要的做的，无论多么困难，只要你付出努力，你一定会成长。11.缺乏耐心不易于满足是成功的重要因素。如果不能延迟收获而寻找捷径，你很容易变得平凡。学着花时间去寻找更大的收获，那些小功小利不值得浪费你的时间。12.不做笔记一般人忘记了他们有能力仅限于记忆的东西。有内存技术，可以帮助我们记住的东西，但那都是暂时的。学着记下你有兴趣的、有深度的想法、观察及经验。随身携带本笔记本，这样你就可以在方便的地方写下所有的人和事。13.不听取意见我们大多数人都很自恋。我们喜欢谈论我们，但很少关心别人。你已经知道你自己，你将永远伴随着自己。为什么不能更关心别人？总是在讨论自己不能给你带来更多的效益， 但是倾听他人会了解自己有意思的想法及你周围的世界。14.资格的观念为什么现在有这么多的抱怨？很多人有很强的资格观念。他们认为别人应该做这做那，如果他们不这样做，如果不合他们意，就会说他们不配享受这种待遇。不要抱怨，说出来以尊重的方式表达你的关心。人们不关心你，世界也不是围着你转。但如果你尊重他们，他们会关心你。15.背后说别人的坏话说闲话是普通人很喜欢的。不要在别人背后说闲话，因为这使你成为一个懦夫。如果你不喜欢某人的某些方面，直接跟当事人面谈。这可能会伤害别人，因为至少这个人可以根据你的反馈而改变。16.懒于看书这是很难找到有人把读书当做日常实践。读书是一个代替娱乐很好的替代品，从现在试着每天阅读，你会更接近成功。17.被动阅读如果你被动阅读，你仍然还是平凡。如果你只读信息，而不去消化，停留在这一点，这就是在浪费时间。阅读思考是为了行动。读一本书，想想你读过，总结一下吧，与你的朋友分享，或做任何事情都可以，只要你别让信息停滞在你的心中。18.厌恶创造创造需要时间和努力。我们知道，比起当创造者，当消费者来得更容易点。写一本书，创建一个播客，或录制视频。在这个世界上，你可以创造很多事情，如果你什么都不做，那就白费了你的存在。19.缺乏一个强大的目标大家都听过，你必须有目的的或者。但有一个目的，是不够的。你的目的一定要强大。要创建一个很强的目的性，你会每天提醒自己的目标。如果它不会让你继续，那么就花时间来寻找一个新的目标。20.觉得别人都是平凡的不，在这篇文章中我没有叫你平凡人。这个你来决定。最终，没有人有权利说别人平凡。在这个世界上没有平凡人。他们的行动是平凡，但在做就不是平凡了。所以，不要看别人，不要觉得你比他们好。你就是你，而他们就是他们。每个人都坚持做事就有取得成功的潜力。We all hate it. The word average is becoming an insult nowadays. Do you think youre average? If you really want to stop being just one of the crowd, read further and stop being average forever.1. They watch too much TV.Watching TV is fine but too much is not good. It takes too much of your time with little benefit. Most of the programs are geared to entertain and not to educate. Plus, advertisements can influence you to buy the things you dont need. Reduce, or stop altogether, watching TV because your time is too precious to be spent in front of an evil cube.2. They play too much.When you play too much that means you are spending too much time doing unproductive things. Its okay to play if you want to release your stress, but like the case of TV above, too much playing around wouldnt be good for our productivity. Reduce the amount of entertainment in all forms and focus more on doing meaningful work.3. They are too lazy to track their time.Tracking time is boring. But most people forget that its one of the most beneficial activities that promotes productivity. By tracking time, you will be more aware of how you use time. This will help you be more cautious of how you spend every second of your life. Time is a non-renewable resource, so its better to use it as efficiently as possible.4. They wake up late.Waking up late means that you have less time to do things. Its actually a hint of you being an unproductive person. Most people have the most energy in the morning, but if they arent awake at that time, all that energy will go to waste. Thats why waking up early is super important if you want to get more things done in a day. Waking up early can also help you to be better prepared because you can use that morning to get a good breakfast and relax before facing a busy day.5. They rely too much on inspiration and motivation.Moments of inspiration rarely come. If you rely on it too much, you will never get anything done. You are obligated to do what you are meant to do, no matter how inspired you are feeling on a particular day. Thats just how life goes.6. They are lazy.Being lazy is a huge barrier for productivity because it doesnt promote action. When youre not doing anything, youre automatically average. Avoid laziness and stay active.7. They dont act on their thoughts.All of us have great ideas and thoughts in our mind. What separates the successful with the average is that successful people act on their thoughts and try to turn their ideas into reality. Dont discount the power of your thoughts and ideas. As long as you believe in them, act.8. They make too much assumptions.Making assumptions about anything is bad if you dont test it. Never ever settle to an assumption and think that its a fact. Assumptions need to always be tested because living on assumptions is the same as not living at all.9. They lack critical thinking skills.Most people dont question the things they read, listen or hear. Questioning is important because it helps us to be better critical thinkers. There are too many people out there who are keen on lying and persuading you to their evil cause, and its up to you to question the things these people say and make sure that its in your interest to join them.10. They have a fixed mindset.When you want to learn something thats difficult, will you give up? Will you say that the difficulties are caused by your lack of talent and you cant do anything about it? If you say yes, then you have a fixed mindset. Average people have a fixed mindset and they believe that theyre stuck with whatever they think theyre born with. Dont be like that. Cultivate a growth mindset and do whatever you want in life, no matter how difficult it might be. As long as you put in the effort, youll surely grow.11. They lack patience.Delaying gratification has been discovered to be a strong determinant of success. If you cant delay rewards and seek quick fixes, then you might be average. Learn to seek rewards that are huge and takes time to achieve, and avoid small rewards that arent worth your time.12. They dont take notes.Average people forget that they have limited capacity to memorize things. There are memory techniques that can help us remember things, but they are short-term fixes. Learn to take note of the things that are interesting and insightfulyour ideas, observations, and experiences. Carry a notebook with you so you can jot down all of them in one place.13. They dont listen to others.Most of us love ourselves. We love to talk about us, but rarely do we become interested in others. You already know yourself and you are always with yourself. Why not be more interested in others? Always talking about yourself wont bring you much benefit, but listening to others can give you interesting insight into yourself and the world around you.14. They feel entitled.Why are there so many complainers today? Many people have really strong sense of entitlement. They think that others should do this and that, and if they dont, these complainers would tell that they dont deserve that kind of service. Avoid complaining and speak out your concern in a respectful way. People dont care about you and the world also doesnt revolve around you. But they will care if you respect them.15. They talk bad about others behind their back.Gossiping is food for average people. Dont talk bad about others behind their back because that makes you a coward. If you dont like something about someone, talk to the person. It might hurt the persons feeling but thats better because at least the person can improve himself based on your feedback.16. They are too lazy to read books.Its difficult to find someone who makes reading a daily practice. Reading is a good replacement for the empty entertainment we have today. Learn to read every day and youll be closer to success.17. They read passively.Youll still be average if you read passively. If you read only to consume the information and leave it at that, its a waste of time. Read to think and act. After reading a book, think about what youve read, summarize it, share it with your friends, or do just about anything so as long as you dont let the information go stagnate inside your mind.18. They hate to create.Creating anything takes time and effort. And we know that its easier to be a consumer than to be a creator. Be a creator. Write a b