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1 Unit6Friendship 2 It squitenaturalforAmericanstomovetheirhometodifferentplaces Veryfewpeopleliveinjustonplaceforalife longtime ThatiswhytheAmericansarealwaysreadytomakenewfriends Theyoftendropavisittotheirnewneighbors Andfriendshipwillbeestablishedduringchatting takinginterestingsportsandsmallfamilyparties BackgroundInformation 3 ShortConversations 1 C W DidyougetmymessageaboutthemeetingonMonday M YesIdid ButI mstillnotquitesurewhatthemeetingisabout Notbadnews Ihope Q Whatdoesthemanwishtoknowmost C 2 D M Idon tfeellikegoingout Whydon twejuststayhomeandwatchTVinstead W Comeon Youpromisetotakemeoutfordinnerandtothetheateronmybirthday Q Whatdowelearnfromtheconversation D 3 A W Icertainlyenjoymeetingyourparents Ihopetheylikeme M MyparentswouldapproveanygirlIlike Iassureyou Q What stheprobablerelationshipbetweenthetwospeakers A 4 A M Wheredidyousayyoufoundthebag W Itwaslyingunderabigtreebetweentheparkandtheapartmentbuilding Q Wheredidthewomanfindthebag A 5 C W Hey George Whatareyoudoingsittinginthecarallbyyourself M Oh I mjustkillingtime Trafficwasunusuallylight soIcameabitearly Q WhatdoweknowaboutGeorge C 6 B M Ispentsomuchtimepolishingmyapplicationletter W It sworthwhiletomaketheefforts Youknowjusthowimportanttogiveagoodimpression Q Whatdoweknowfromtheconversation B 7 C M Iheardthere reafewseatsleftfortheshowtonight W Really Iwasundertheimpressionthattheticketsweresoldoutalongago Q Whatdoweknowfromthewoman sreply C 8 B W Whatmadeyoutojoinourcompany Youknowweareratheryoungandsmall M Irealizethat Infact Ihavereceivedattractivejoboffersfromafewlargecompanies ButIbelieveIwouldhavebetteropportunitieswithasmallbutrapidlydevelopingcompanylikeyours Q Whatdidthemanthinkofthecompany B 4 LongConversation 9 Whatdoestheconversationmainlytalkabout 10 Whydidn tprofessorFoleytalkwiththewomanafterclass 11 Whatmustthewomandoinordertowintheaward 12 Whatdidthewomanfeelaftershewastoldthenews 9 C 10 A 11 A 12 B 5 M You reprobablywonderingwhyIaskedyoutocometoseeme W Yes Iam Ihavebeenalittleworriedaboutitallmorning M Oh IshouldhavetoldyoumorewhenIsawyouafterclass 10 butthereweresomanystudentswaitingtoaskquestions Jean IwantedtotellyouthatIhaverecommendedyoufortheoutstandingstudentaward W Really M Youareclearlythebeststudentinmyclass and asIknow intherestofyourclassesaswell Ihavetalkedwithyourotherprofessors Yousee inordertobechosenfortheaward youneedtohavethreeprofessorssigntherecommendation DrJones DrHarvey andDrSmallwouldbegladtodoso W 12 Thatissuchasurprise Icanhardlybelieveit M Well Ithinkyouhaveaverygoodchancetowinit W DrFoley thefactthatyouthinkhighlyenoughofmetomaketherecommendationisalreadyanhonorforme I mreallyhappyjusttoberecommended M Youdeserveit 11 Theselectioncommitteewillbecallingyoutohaveaninterview Callmewhentheydo andI llmeetwithyoutogiveyousomesuggestionsonhowtoprepare Ifyougettheaward you llreceivefivehundreddollarsalongwiththecertificateofhonor W Thankyouverymuch DrFoley I mreallyhonored 6 HeWasHurt 1 D 2 B 3 A 7 HeWasHurtSteveandYaserfirstmetintheirchemistryclassatanAmericanuniversity YaserwasaninternationalstudentfromJordan 1 HewasexcitedtogettoknowanAmerican HewantedtolearnmoreaboutAmericanculture YaserhopedthatheandStevewouldbecomegoodfriends Atfirst Steveseemedveryfriendly HealwaysgreetedYaserwarmlybeforeclass SometimesheofferedtostudywithYaser HeeveninvitedYasertohavelunchwithhim Butafterthetermwasover Steveseemedmoredistant Thetwoformerclassmatesdidn tseeeachotherverymuchatschool OnedayYaserdecidedtocallSteve 2 Stevedidn tseemveryinterestedintalkingtohim YaserwashurtbySteve schangeofattitude Yaserisalittleconfused HeisanoutsidertoAmericanculture Hedoesn tunderstandthewayAmericansviewfriendship Americansusetheword friend inaverygeneralway Theymaycallbothcasualacquaintanceandclosecompanions friend Americanshaveschoolfriends workfriendsandneighborhoodfriends Thesefriendshipsarebasedoncommoninterests Whenthesharedactivityends thefriendshipmayfade NowSteveandYaserarenolongerclassmates Theirfriendshiphaschanged Insomeculture friendshipmeansastronglife longbondbetweentwopeople Intheseculturesfriendshipsdevelopslowly sincetheyarebuilttolast 3 Americansocietyisoneofrapidchanges StudiesshowthatoneoutoffiveAmericanfamiliesmoveseveryyear Americanfriendshipsdevelopquickly andtheymaychangejustasquicklyasAmericanfamilies 8 DoMenHaveMoreFriendshipsthanWomen 1 B 2 B 3 A 4 B DoMenHaveMoreFriendshipsthanWomen Researchingfriendship psychologistsspenttwoyearsinterviewingmorethantwohundredwomenandmen 4 Nomatterwhattheirage theirjob theirsex theresultswerecompletelyclear womenhavemorefriendshipsthanmen andthedifferenceincontentandthequalityofthosefriendshipsis markedandunmistakable Morethantwo thirdsofthesinglemenpsychologistsinterviewedcouldnotnameabestfriend Thosewhocouldwerelikelytonameawoman Yetthreequartersofthesinglewomenhadnoproblemnamingabestfriend andalmostalwaysitwasawoman 2 Moremarriedmenthanwomennamedtheirwifeorhusbandasabestfriend mosttrustedperson ortheonetheywouldturntointimeofemotionaldistress 1 Mostwomen saysonepsychologist identifiedatleastone usuallymore trustfriendwhomtheycouldturntoinatroubledmoment andtheyspokeopenlyabouttheimportanceoftheserelationshipsintheirlives Theresultsshowthatingeneral women sfriendshipswitheachotherrestonsharedemotionsandsupport butmen srelationshipsaremarkedbysharedactivity Interactionsbetweenmenareemotionallycontrolled Evenwhenamanissaidtobeabestfriend thetwosharelittleabouttheirinnermostfeelings 3 Whereasawoman sclosestfemalefriendmightbethefirsttotellhertoleaveafailingmarriage itwasn tunusualtohearamansayhedidn tknowthisfriend smarr