最有幸福感的男女年龄差距（The most happy age gap between men and women）.doc

最有幸福感的男女年龄差距（The most happy age gap between men and women） 最有幸福感的男女年龄差距（The mosthappy agegap between men and women）最有幸福感的男女年龄差距（The mosthappy agegap betweenmen and women）Age is a keyfactor inmarital stability,a studyby Europeanscientists suggests.University ofBath Dr.Emanuel FraNiel conducteda follow-up surveyof1534couples showedthat tomaintain astrong marriage is thebest couplemode is both men and women are educated,divorced andno history,man andwoman olderthan5years of age.Wives are5years youngerthan theirhusbands and are theleast likelyage group,aording to the researchers.Their divorcerate is1/6of othermarriages.In addition,a Universityof Viennastudy foundthat if the husband is4to6years olderthan his wife,he hasthe mostoffspring,while thehusband is15years olderthan hiswife,although thenumber ofchildren issmall,but marriage is thebest.In thisregard,Wang Guorong,a well-known expertin marriageand treatment,agrees.The threegreat pointsof happinessin thismarriage havebee thebackbone of the family,Wang Guorongsaid.The firsthappiness isto satisfywomens desireforTrinity.Usually,a womans dreamof aprince charmingisbotha fathers maturity,a brothers careandafriends vitality.But thehusband isolder,the psychologyis moremature,the emotiongives morefreely.On thesecond pointof happiness,an olderhusband usuallyhas a certain economicbase,reducing theodds ofan economicdispute.Third happiness,less familypetition.When thehusbandisolder,women naturallyproduce feelingsof dependenceand obedience,reducing thepetition between husband and wife,and thusreducing friction.When ites tothis kindof marriagedisadvantage,a psychologyprofessor atSouth ChinaNormal UniversityZheng Xifubelieves that,in general,the averagelife expectancyof menwas shorterthan women,ifthehusband bemuch largerthan hiswife,then theremay eventuallybe thehusband died,the wifealone.A womanisa man andamanis happyAs thesaying goes,big girlsembrace thegold bricks,and inancient China,there areoften bigwives andlittle husbands.Nowadays,the lovebetween brothersand sistersis stilla scenicspot onthe mapof loveand marriage.Wang Guorongsaid,in fact,some of the youngermans familyis veryhappy,although someyounger men,but mental ageisvery mature,and hiswife,although someolder,but stilllike amentalage ofayoung girl.Such families,psychologically,are similarto maleand femalefamily patterns.In addition,some siblingslove family,but thehusband hasa similartemperament characteristics,that is,menarenot tooindependent,want tocontinue tofind thefeeling ofbeing takencare ofby mother.For sucha family,there arealways somedisadvantages.First ofall,women areaging faster,both physicallyand psychologically,while menare stillin buoyantyears,which canmake familiesunstable.Secondly,the ageof socialsignificance inthe evaluationof socialconvention,Jiedi easy to understandand criticism,or derogatorymale noman,or womanrobberand soon,these externalremarks willimpact onthe familywall inacertainextent.Good municationbetweenmen andwomen of the same ageThe49year oldAmerican presidentObama andhiswifeMichel are3years apart,and17years ofhappy marriage are enoughto rankthem asideal couples.Department ofsocial scienceChinese UniversityHong Kongassociate professorYue Xiaodongbelieves thatage love,not thatwe understand the senseofthe same age,but the ageofboth similar,Basically belongtothe same generation.Wang Guorongpointed outthat themenandwomenofthe same agearemenandwomen ormen thanwomen thesameagebelow3years old.It canbe said that inthe modernconcept ofpeople,this loveand marriagemodel isundoubtedly themost ideal.Yue Xiaodongproposed that the basisfor the love ofthesameageis the psychologicaland physiologicalharmony betweenthe lovers.The marriage is themost sustainableand hassix advantages.First,it iseasytoestablish intimacy.Two isinteractive frequently.Three issynchronous growth.Four isdemand conformity.Five supportfrom relativesand friends.Six isequal self-confidence.In short,the socialexperience ofsimilar age between lovers,a problemoften encounteredlife easyand long-term breakeven ofone heartand onemind,the mergerofthetwo sidesof thinking,the heart,the formation of moncognitive model.Although menandwomenhave manyadvantages atthesameage,it isprecisely because of equality,there willalso besome problems.Wang Guorongsaid thatthesameagebetween husband and wife easilybecauseoftoo muchequality,andtheformationofrights petition,may oftenbewho isthe finalwordand fightendlessly.The morelike thecharacter,the morelovingMore thanthree kindsof marriagepatterns arewell orbadly,age doesplay animportant rolein marriage,but reallydecided whetheror notthe ageof marriage.Wang Guorongsays.First ofall,LOVEin Englishis pressedby aLatin phrase,love isa lastingconcern forother peoples lives.Wang Guorongpointed outthat this isthetrue meaningof lovebetweenhusbandandwife,the onlylove itself,rather thanon externalconditions,namely weoften sayheight is not a problem,theageisnot aproblem,appearance isnotaproblem.The fewerthe externalconditions,the strongerthelove.Second,studies showthatthecloser aperson is,the morestable hislove is.Wang Guorongsaidthatthe plementaritybetweenhusbandandwifeoften saidto myselfbut donot wantto have,but theyhave aspouse,thisisa