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Much meaning can be conveyed, clearly, with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.Do you have such kind of experience? In a bus you may look at stranger, but not too long. And if he is sensing that he is being stared at, he may feel uncomfortable.The same in daily life. If you are looked at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down, to see if there is anything wrong with you. If nothing goes wrong, you will feel angry toward others stare with you that way. Eyes do speak, right?Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive. But things are different when it comes to stare at the opposite sex. If a man glances at a woman for more than 10 seconds and refuses to avert his gaze, his intentions are obvious, that is, he wishes to attract her attention, to make her understand that he is admiring her.However, the normal eye contact for two people engaged in conversation is that the speaker will only look at the listener from time to time, in order to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking, to tell him that he is attentive.If a speaker looks at you continuously when speaking, as if he tries to dominate you, you will feel disconcerted. A poor liar usually exposes himself by looking too long at the victim, since he believes in the false idea that to look straight in the eye is a sign of honest communication. Quite the contrary.In fact, continuous eye contact is confined to lovers only, who will enjoy looking at each other tenderly for a long time, to show affection that words cannot express.Evidently, eye contact should be done according to the relationship between two people and the specific situation.我们的眼睛能准确地传达一些信息，所以人们常说，眼睛会说话。你有过类似的体验吗？在公共汽车上，你可能会看着一个陌生人，但时间不会太长。而且，如果他能感觉到有人盯着他，会觉得浑身不自在。日常生活中亦如此。如果别人一直盯着你看，你就会不由自主地审视自己，看看是不是有什么地方弄错了。如果一切正常，你就会对别人的这种盯梢很气愤。眼睛确实能说话，不是吗？过久的盯着别人看会给人一种粗鲁和侵犯的感觉。但异性之间的凝视就不同了。如果一个男人盯着一个女人超过10秒钟，还不想挪开视线的话，他的意思就十分明显了，他想引起她的注意，想让她知道他爱慕她。正常情况下，两人交谈时，目光接触能传达这样的意思：说者偶尔看看听者，以此确认听着是否在认真倾听。而对于听者来说，他会一直看着说话的人，以此告诉他，自己正专心致志的听着。假如与你说话的那个人直直的盯着你，好像要镇住你似的，你便会感到惶恐不安。一般地，说谎者往往就是看别人的时间过长，而令人起疑。因为他们以为直视别人的眼睛是诚实沟通的表现，结果恰恰相反。实际上，长时间的相互凝视仅适合情人之间，他们喜欢温柔的对视，用目光来传达言语无法表达的爱意。显然，目光交流应该根据双方的关系和特定场合来进行。 When you thought I wasnt looking.“你以为我看不到，其实.I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint anogther one.我看到你把我的第一幅画挂在冰箱上，就立即想要再画一幅。I saw you feed stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.我看到你给迷途的猫儿喂食，就知道要善待动物。I saw you make my favorite cake for me and I learned that little things can be the special things in life.我看到你为我做了我最喜爱的蛋糕，就懂得小事也能在生活中不同寻常。I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.我看到你做好饭菜带给生病的朋友，就懂得了我们都要互助互爱。I saw you give of your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have something should give to those who dont.我看到你牺牲时间和金钱去帮助那些一无所有的人，就懂得了应该与人分享我们的所有。I felt you kiss me good night and I felt loved and safe.我感觉到你吻我道晚安，就感受到了爱和安全。I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.我看到你照料我们的家和家里每个人，就懂得了我们要珍惜所有。I saw you handled you responsibilities, even when you didnt feel good, and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.我看到你即使感觉不佳，也不忘尽职尽责，就懂得了长大后也要负起责任。I saw tears come from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but its all right to cry.我看到你的双眼流出泪水，就懂得了有时候受到伤害，哭一哭也无所谓。I saw that you cared and I wanted to be everything I could be.我看到你那么在意，就想要做最好的自己。I watched you, and I learned most of lifes lessons I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.我观察你，学会了要成长为善良而有用的人所要掌握的大部分人生功课。I looked at you and wanted to say, “thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasnt looking.”我看着你,想要说声:谢谢你,谢谢你做的一切,你以为我看不到,其实我看到了这一切.Personal Qualities 英语个人素质常用用语(推荐信必用) 1. Mature，dynamic and honest思想成熟、精明能干、为人诚实。 2. Excellent ability of systematical management有极强的系统管理能力。 3.Ability to work independent1y，mature and resourcefu1 能够独立工作、思想成熟、应变能力强。 4.A person with ability plus flexibility should app1y.需要有能力及适应力强的人。 5.A stable personality and high sense of responsibility are desirable. 个性稳重、具高度责任感。 6.Work well with a multi-cultural and diverse work force. 能够在不同文化和工作人员的背景下出色地工作。 7. Bright，aggressive applicants.反应快、有进取心的应聘者。 8. Ambitious attitude essential有雄心壮志。 9.Initiative，independent and good communication skill 积极主动、独立工作能力强，并有良好的交际技能。 10.Willing to work under pressure with leardership quality愿意在压力下工作，并具领导素质。 11. Willing to assume responsibilities.应聘者须勇于挑重担。 12.Mature，self-motivated and strong interpersonal skills. 思想成熟、上进心强，并具极丰富的人际关系技巧。 13.Energetic，fashion-minded person.精力旺盛、思想新潮。 14. With a pleasant mature attitude.开朗成熟。 15. Strong determination to succeed有获得成功的坚定决心。 16. Strong leadership skills有极强的领导艺术。 17.Ability to work well with others.能够同他人一道很好地工作。 18. Highly-motivated and reliable person with excellent health and pleasant personality. 上进心强又可靠者，并且身体健康、性格开朗。 19.The ability to initiate and operate independently. 有创业能力，并能独立地从业。 20.Strong leadership skill while possessing a great team spirit. 有很高的领导艺术和很强的集体精神。 21. Be highly organized and effecient工作很有条理，办事效率高。 22.Willing to learn and progress肯学习进取。 23.Good presentation skills.有良好的表达能力。 24.Positive active mind essential有积极、灵活的头脑。 25. Ability to deal with personnel at all levels effectively。 善于同各种人员打交道。 26. Have positive work attitude and be willing and able to work diligently without supervision。 有积极的工作态度，愿意和能够在没有监督的情况下勤奋地工作。 27.Young，bright，energetic with strong career-ambition. 年轻、聪明、精力充沛，并有很强的事业心。 28.Good people management and communication skills. Team player. 有良好的人员管理和交际能力。能在集体中发挥带头作用。 29.Able to work under high pressure and time limitation. 能够在高压力下和时间限制下进行工作。 30.Be elegant and with nice personality.举止优雅、个人性格好。 31.With good managerial skills and organizational capabilities. 有良好的管理艺术和组织能力。 32.The main qualities required are preparedness to work hard, ability to learn, ambition and good health. 主要必备素质是吃苦耐劳精神好、学习能力优 、事业心强和身体棒。 33.Having good and extensive social connections. 具有良好而广泛的社会关系。 34.Being active, creative and innonative is a plus. 思想活跃、有首创和革新精神尤佳。 35.With good analytical capability. 有较强的分析能力。 1. Start each day with a kiss-I think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.用一个吻迎接新的一天。接吻如此简单，却能令人身心愉悦。 2. Date once a week-May not as often as once a week, lets say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you dont have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?一周约会一次。也不必非得一周一次，也可以两周一次。而且约会的地点可以在家中，不必非去什么特别的地方。你是不是明白了？有心就好。3. Accept differences-No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.接受彼此的不同，因为人无完人。适度的争论可以增进双方的关系，但重要的是要在争论中懂得妥协。4. Be polite-Please, thank you, you are welcome these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.多用礼貌用语。请、谢谢、不客气这些话不只要说给陌生人听，更要说给你的伴侣和家人听。在家里要记得多用这些客气话。5. Be gentle-a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.温柔一些若想关系亲密，温柔是至关重要的。6. Give gifts-nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.给对方送礼物偶尔送些甜蜜小礼物，就能令对方感激不尽。7. Touch-intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.抚触情侣间的抚触非常重要，它可以增进情感，传达爱意。它是情感交流的一种方式，它可以让爱的火花常燃不熄。8. Talk about dreams-dreams of the future that is; if you dont share your dreams with your spouse; then who?谈论梦想说说对未来的憧憬。试想，若不和伴侣分享你的梦想，那么还能同谁讲呢？9. Select a song that can be our song this sounds like a clich, but it can be nice, dont you think?选一首歌作为“你俩的歌”听起来有点老套，但是不是很美妙？10. Laugh together-laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.一起开怀大笑笑是良药。当你俩一起开怀的时候，你们的关系也会伴随着笑声一天天地亲近和坚固起来。11. Send a card for no reason-another clich? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice I love you or I miss you notes every once in a while.没什么缘由地送张卡片又很老套吗？不过谁不喜欢时不时地收到些“我爱你”，“我想你”之类的卡片呢？12. Listen-this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.聆听这非常重要，但注意聆听的时候你应该全情投入并参与其中，而不仅仅只是听到了对方说的话。13. Encourage-positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!鼓励彼此支持是非常重要的。向对方寻求支持并慷慨地给予对方支持！14. Do it his or her way-sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.按照对方喜欢的方式行事有时候，你可以按照对方喜欢的方式行事，并以此来传达你对伴侣的爱恋和尊重。15. Know his or her needs-what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!知道对方的需求如果不知道另一半的需要，那还算什么好伴侣？这一点是首先需要留心的。16. Compliment twice a day-everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due.每天互相恭维两次人人都爱听恭维话，所以在适当的时候说些好话。17. Call during the day-but dont over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying how are you doing?打通电话不要总是给对方打电话。给他们一些空间的同时，打个简短的问候电话，让他们了解你的惦念。18. Cuddle-yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.拥抱是的，亲昵的行为可以传达爱意，增进情感。19. Show respect-showing respect is more important than showing love.尊重对方显示你的尊重比表达爱意更加重要。20. Welcome the other person home-show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!欢迎另一半回家热情地欢迎你的伴侣回家。让他们感受到你的期盼和你的快乐。21. Celebrate birthdays in a big way-this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.隆重庆生并不是说你要为对方的生日大操大办，而是说你要传递出你很重视这个特别日子的信息。22. Forgive-from the heart and not only in words.宽恕自心底而不是嘴上说声原谅。23. Set up a romantic getaway-this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!策划一次浪漫出游时不时搞一次，其乐无穷，完全没有副作用！24. Respond quickly to the other persons request-show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.快速响应对方的需求这样做就是为了显示你有多么在意对方。25. Treat each others friends and relatives with courtesy-even if you dont like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.善待对方的朋友和亲属即便你不喜欢伴侣的朋友和亲属，为了你的伴侣，你也要善待他们。26. Admit when wrong-dont be too arrogant to say it.有错的时候认错不要自负到拒绝认错。27. End the day with a hug-show closeness and again; intimacyAS my fine professor of economics at Columbia, C. Lowell Harris (who just celebrated his 96th birthday) used to tell us, economics is the study of the allocation of scarce goods and services. What could be scarcer or more precious than love? It is rare, hard to come by and often fragile.CLowell Harris Skip 是我在哥伦比亚大学时的一位和善的经济教授，他刚刚庆祝完自己96岁的生日。他曾经跟我们讲，经济学研究的就是如何分配稀缺的资源和服务。有什么比爱更稀有，更珍贵的吗？爱的确很珍稀，难以获取，并且很脆弱。My primary life study has been about love. Second comes economics, so here, in the form of a few rules, is a little amalgam of the two fields: the economics of love. (I last wrote about this subject 20 years or so ago, and its time to update it.)我人生的第一课就是关于爱的学习，然后才是经济学，因此，从一些规律的形式来讲，就是两个领域的结合，即爱的经济学（我上次写这方面的主题是大约20年以前，现在该对它进行更新了）。In general, and with rare exceptions, the returns in love situations are roughly proportional to the amount of time and devotion invested. The amount of love you get from an investment in love is correlated, if only roughly, to the amount of yourself you invest in the relationship.总地来说，几乎绝少例外，爱的回报大致上与投入的时间和奉献总量是成正比的。你获得的爱与对爱的投入是相互关联的，如果粗略来算，就是与你自己在这段关系中的投入总量相称。If you invest caring, patience and unselfishness, you get those things back. (This assumes, of course, that you are having a relationship with someone who loves you, and not a one-sided love affair with someone who isnt interested.)如果你投入关心、耐心和无私奉献，你也会被回报这些。（当然，这个假设，是建立在你与一个同样爱你的人之间的关系上的，并不是一厢情愿的单相思。）High-quality bonds consistently yield more return than junk, and so it is with high-quality love. As for the returns on bonds, I know that my comment will come as a surprise to people who have been brainwashed into thinking that junk bonds are free money. They arent. The data from the maven of bond research, W. Braddock Hickman, shows that junk debt outperforms high quality only in rare situations, because of the default risk.高质量的债券投资总会比垃圾债券获得更多的收益，高质量的爱情亦如此。关于债劵的收益，我想我的评价会使一些人大吃一惊，这些人被垃圾债劵会赚大钱的观念洗过脑，他们错了。债券专家W. Braddock Hickman的研究资料表明，由于违约风险，垃圾债券只是在极少的情况下表现比绩优债券强。In love, the data is even clearer. Stay with high-quality human beings. And once you find you that are in a junk relationship, sell immediately. Junk situations can look appealing and seductive, but junk is junk. Be wary of it unless you control the market.对于爱情而言，资料更为详实。要坚持与好品质的人交往。一旦发现处于“垃圾债券”的关系中，立即出手。“垃圾债券”的状态看起来似乎很有吸引力很诱人，但垃圾毕竟是垃圾。必须对它保持谨慎，除非你能掌控市场。(Or, as I like to tell college students, the absolutely surest way to ruin your life is to have a relationship with someone with many serious problems, and to think that you can change this person.)（或者，像我跟大学生们讲的那样，一个确信无疑能毁掉你生活的方法就是与一个有着各种严重问题的人关系密切，并自认为能够改变这个人。）Research pays off. The most appealing and seductive (that word again) exterior can hide the most danger and chance of loss. For most of us, diversification in love, at least beyond a very small number, is impossible, so its necessary to do a lot of research on the choice you make. It is a rare man or woman who can resist the outward and the surface. But exteriors can hide far too much.研究是有益的。最有吸引力和最诱人的外表下而藏着最大的危险和损失的风险。对我们大多数人而言，分散爱情的风险，是不可能的。因此有必要在你选择做大量的调查研究。极少的男人或女人能经得外表的诱惑，而表象可能藏得非常深。In every long-term romantic situation, returns are greater when there is a monopoly. If you have to share your love with others, if you have to compete even after a brief while with others, forget the whole thing. You want to have monopoly bonds with your long-term lover. At least most situations work out better this way. ( I am too old to consider short-term romantic events. Those were my life when Lyndon Johnson and Richard Nixon were in the White House.)在每一段长期的浪漫关系中，如果是垄断关系，回报会更大。如果你不得不与别人分享爱情，如果你不得不在片刻过后与人竞争，那么忘记一切。你希望与你的长期爱人保持专一关系，这样至少大多数情况发展得更好。（我太老了没有考虑短期的浪漫关系，我生活在Lyndon Johnson和Richard Nixon在白宫主政的时代。）The returns on your investment should at least equal the cost of the investment. If you are getting less back than you put in over a considerable period of time, back off.你在投入上的回报应该至少与你投入的花费相称。如果你在相当长的一段时间内获得的回报比投入少，那么，赶紧撤退。Long-term investment pays off. The impatient day player will fare poorly without inside information or market-controlling power. He or she will have a few good days but years of agony in the world of love.To coin a phrase: Fall in love in haste, repent at leisure.长期投会获利。那些缺乏耐心的人没有内部信息和对市场的掌控能力,将陷入困境。他（ 或她）在爱的世界中只会感到长年的痛苦，而不会有多少快乐。如一句俗语：急切地爱，慢慢的悔。Real