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The discuss on the colleague student BrothersharpRecently,there was a surprising thing being discussed on the internet for a long time,a prestigious university student had hanged out for seven years with shabby clothes and feed himself up for collecting scraps. Most people think it is because a wrong running rules of a university. In my opinion,it is not only indicate a problem of university,but it is also a issue of family education and self-government.First of all,nowadays ,most children are the only child in their family,and parents especially Chinese parents spoil a child like he or she is the center of the world,and give them whatever they want,never let them to experience hard things,make every important choice for them,so the child dont know how the true world are like,and they dont know they are nobody but themselves and nobody will rotate around them except their parents .They are not indispensable in the world,they must work hard to achieve their value to the society,so they can live a lovely life.Secondly the young teenagers havent learned how to government themselves,including how to control their emotions and how to being strong enough to candle difficulties they faced in their life,they are too dependent,even cant live well without their parents.Always when they got to a prestigious university ,they would regard themselves as somebody who can not replace by others,but actually when they went go the society,it is totally wrong,they are not the only person who can do some specific work,and if they can not endure hardships, they will be out. So they cant bear the depressing comes from their inner heart,they would started to hate the world,and lost their confidence,then they fail in their job,and they have no courage to meet their parents and relatives who have big wish for them.In summary,I think the pivotal problems is pa