英语辩论稿——成家立业.doc

正方（先结婚一辩）： Dear Mr teacher, Friendsoftheotherdebate,myfriends:Helloeverybody! Our side believe thatbeing married soon before career matures and develops will be better.as we all know,love will bring happiness and comfortable.if you are married.when you work hard and go back home,your husband took you hand and said,dear,you are so tired,how about have a dinner outside?if you are not married.you will be tired out in the empty house, when you get the telephone call from you mom,she yelled:why you still alone!oh,what a miserable scene.in brief,we have three reasons to support our argument.first,married will bring you encouragement to face the difficulties in your work.second,if you are alone when you are old,you will be worried by you parents and the gossip.finally,if you are a girl,you have you baby when you are young will be better. dont be hesitate to get married.when you find your mr.right, you should said yes to him bravely!Insummary,wemustinsistthat being married soon before career matures and develops will be better.反方（先做事业一辩）： thanks for the splendid speech of the opponent.but we hold the opposite opinion:being married late after career matures and develops will be better.here,we want all of you to pay much attention to these two wordssteady environment.following are some examples which can support our argument.firstly,married means what?in my opinion,it means a couple live together peaceful and with their family members cheerful greet. if they didnt have steady income,they couldnt afford their house,their daily offer,even their food.how to keep the happy emospeher stay .secondly,even they love so deep.but as the old saying:when you fall in love,you may think the water is full enough.but when you step in to marriage,you will find its full of odds and end.marriage is a choice which effects your whole life.you cant take it too easy.Tosumup,wethinkthatyou should be married late after career matures and develops.if you dont want to join the group of divorce.自由辩论正方二辩：Would I ask the first debater a question : As all we know that nowadays numerous people are married first and then career develop even if they are not that rich. And it is common that graduates get married first ,how to explain this phenomenon?反方一辩：Thanks and I will answer the question. As the second debater said there true are some people who get married immediately after they graduate. And we still know that it just the minority. For most of common graduates it is a right selection for choose a job first until there is much more material basis to have a marriage. So, it is still a big problem for graduates to have a career development first .正方二辩：Thanks and we find that debaters have stressed on material basis.We want to know how much material basis can reach the marriages level?And when would you like to get marry?反方二辩：I answer the question: As we all know modern people nowadays have keep much more watchful eye on the material basis.We can say that there is nobody they can live without material basis.We hold this opinion that have a career development first can bring us more stable work,income and we will not worry about living a life. Moreover marriage without milk and bread is cannt be lasting.So we think it is good time for us to get marry when we have already worked for 2 or 3 years. Can I ask a question?-the debater said get marry first all the time ,how can we get marry without material basis ?正方一辩：I think the second debater is misunderstanding our meaning. We say get marry first do not mean that get marry dont need the material basis. Getting marry first ,we will still work,wont we?反方二辩：We are emphasis on how we can get marry before you have a job.And all the money of marriage comes from our parents ,our parents is hard enough to raise us ,dont you think it increases the stress on parents?正方二辩：Thanks ! As we know that parents who raised us is likely to see we have a good life.Even when you have a career development they will still pay much for you .Not only money but also care-ness and love.If we get married first after our graduate,there are many advantages for us:1. If you get married first,you will have more chances to get a job especially for female.Companies is always considering about the time of marriage and having a baby of female.2. If you get married first,your parents wont be worried too much about you.In other words, it can reduce the pressure of parents.So we still and stably hold that we should get married first after we graduate.反方总结陈词 Good morning, Dear Mrs. Luo, classmates, our fellow debaters, Good morning again! I am on behalf of negative side to draw our summary from all above we stated, discussed, argued. We insist on that thrive should come first。Therearemanyimportantthingsinoneslife.ifyoudonthavethewaytosurvive,howcanyoulivebetter?Howtopursueotherthings?Careerensuresourlife,doesnotresultinthatyoudonotknowwhattodowhenyouhaveproblemsinyourloveinthefuture.Careercancultivateyourenthusiasm,independence,andresponsibilitybothinworkandinlife.loveandbreadwhichismoreimportant?Firstmarriedorfirstthrive?Netvotingshowsthatnearly50percentpeoplethinkthatbreadismoreimportantandweshouldthrivefirst.Firstthrivethenwifehasanotheradvantage,thatislatemarryandchildbirth,responsetoourcountrypolicy.Mostoftheyoungpeopledonothavetheeconomicbasis,howtoaffordthehugeweddingexpenses?Beforehavingthestablejob,thefutureisundecidedandtheworkplaceischangeable.Ifaftergettingmarried,youfindthepositionsuityouverywell,butfarawayfromthefamily,howwillyouchoose? So married late after career matures and develops will be better.Atlast,letmerepeatouropinion:Firstthriveandthenwife。先成家后立业 正方总结陈词Tosumup,weinsistthat married soon before career matures and develops will be better。It is hard to tell when you will have your own career. Will it be 5 years, 10 years or 20 years? What if you will never have a successful career your entire life? Will you also remain single your whole life? It is said by the ancients that “you should get married before you establish your own career.” So according to ancient traditions, getting married is the precondition of establish