作文 How to make a good conversation

How to make a good conversation.There is no doubt that conversation is a sociable activity and basic way to communicate that everyone does every day. People usually begin a conversation in their spare time. A good conversation let people relax from life pressures and get a happier mood in the left daytime. Then, how to make a good conversation? According to Henry Fairlie, to make a good conversation need unspecific topics, aimless participants, and a casual environment. Firstly, a good conversation always begin at random without a specific topic. Moreover, the topics in conversation always change casually. For instance, in Pub Talk and the Kings English, peoples conversation started with “the Kings Englishwas a term of criticism”, which was obviously not arranged before, but this topic attracted many peoples attention. Some people supported it and others were opposed to. Then a conversation began naturally. In addition, the topic changed optionally, from the Kings Englishs implied meaning of criticism to Roman Conquerors influence on English development. People in the conversation neednt find an exact and immediate answer of the question that if the Kings English is critical, they just let the topic change and continue the conversation with casual interesting.Secondly, participants in a good conversation are usually aimless and ready to lose the chance to speech. A good participant always let the conversation move on even they miss a good opportunity to say a best anecdote which they think is worth talking about. Participants in the conversation neednt to prepare for “something to say”, and they just need express what occurs in their mind in time and keep the ball rolling. Besides, conversation is usually involved with discussion and argument, and the difference between them is whether it is aimless. In conversations, no one want to be winner, and people are just enjoy exchanging news, anecdotes and different opinions.Finally, a casual environment is an essential condition which a good conversation need, which is the reason why the author said conversation in pubs have a charm of its own. A casual environment, where people are relax and have a break in their busy life. like a bar, restaurant, or a rest room after lunch or dinner, is a convenient place to make a conversation. With the help of technology, chatting room on the internet become more and more popular place to have a conversation. In a chatting room, people have a safety distance with each other by the veil of internet. So the content of conversation has less restrictions.On a sunny afternoon on Saturday, getting together with some friends and acquaintances, having a conversation from somewhere that most are interested in, maybe a little jock or a weird news,