中西方友谊差别PPT课件

.,1,DifferentLands,DifferentFriendship,GuoJiadong,.,2,.,3,Chinese,Western,.,4,Differentrange,Ontheonehand,thedefinitionoffriendshipisdifferent.,Chineseregardgoodfriendsasbrother,andtheyevensweartointhesameday.,Therageofwesternsfriendsiswider,Friendshipcanbesuperficial,temperate.Itcanalsobestrongandperpetual.,.,5,Differentrange,Ontheotherhand,thetopicrangeisnotthesame.,Nevertheless,friendsonlyconfinedinoneareasinwestern.Itwontextendtootherareas.,InChinafriendsrunthroughallaspects,theytalkeverythingunderthesun.,.,6,Differenttime,InWestern,ifthepeopledonotseeeachotherregularly,therelation-shipislikelytodie.StudiesshowthatoneoutoffiveAmericanfamiliesmoveseveryyear.Americanfriendshipsdevelopquickly,andtheymaychangejustasquickly.,.,7,Differenttime,ForChineseatruefriendshipenduresthroughoutlifechanges.Chinesearefriendseveniftheyhaventspokenfor20years.OneverywellknownsayinginChinaisItissufficientinlifetohaveatruefriend.,.,8,Differentresponsibility,MostAmericansexpecttheirfriendstobemoreindependentandsolvetheirownproblems.Onthecontrary,Chinesefriendshipneedsmoreobligations.AChinesemayusepersonalconnectionstohelpthefriendtogetsomethinghardtoobtain.AChineseoftenprovidesmoneytohisfriendtohelphimoutofdifficulties,howevertheserarelyhappenedamongthewesterners.,.,9,Differentresponsibility,Westernfriendshipismostlyamatterofprovidingemotionalsupportandspendingtimetogether.Chinesefriendstendtogiveeachothermuchmoreconcretehelpandassistances.AChinesefriendsismorelikelytogivespecificadvicetoafriend.However,anAmericanfriendwillbeverycautiousaboutgivingdirectadvice.Insteadhemayraisequestionstoencouragehisfriendtoconsidercarefullybeforemakingdecisions.,.,10,AuldlangsyneShouldauldacquaintancebeforgot,Andneverbroughttomind?Shouldauldacquaintancebeforgot,Anddaysofauldlangsyne?Forauldlangsyne,myfriends,Forauldlangsyne,WelltakeacupokindnessyetForauldlangsyne.,朋友朋友一生一起走那些日子不再有一句话一辈子一生情一杯酒朋友不曾孤单过一声朋友你会懂还有伤还有痛还要走还有我,.,11,Reason:Thedifferentculturebackground,First,Chinahadbeenaagriculturalsocietyforthousandsofyears.Theneedoflaborforceinagricultureemphasizedtheimportanceofinter-personalrelationship.Friendswereanimportantformofinterpersonalrelationshipsinthehierarchicalfeudalsociety.Second,Chinesealwaysvaluepragmatism(实用主义),justasthesayinggoesifyouhavemanyfriends,youwillhavemanyroads.Bycontrast,thewesternculturewasbaseoncommercialcommunity.Theyvaluedindividualismandadvocatedpersonalfreedom.Moreover,itsnotstrangeforAmericantomovehousefrequently.,.,12,SomeadviceforaWesternstudenttogetaChinesefriendship:,FigureoutyourmostimportantvaluesGotothesameplaceatthesametimeSharemoreaboutyourselfGotointerestgroups,notbars,.,13,SomeadviceforaChinesestudenttogetaWesternfriendship:,Itisimpolitetoaskaboutapersonsage,maritalstatus,orincome.VisitplacesAmericansenjoyparties,churches,westernrestau