聪明老人幸福十诫.ppt

聪明老人幸福十诫,一、不要再替成年子女操心，以免唠叨没完。,Dontbeconcernedaboutadultchildrenanymore,otherwise,youcannotstoptheannoyingchatters.,二、不要再将成年子女当成未成年来监护，以免惹人烦。,Dontregardtheadultchildrenasofunderageandserveasaguardianforthem,sotoavoidincurringcomplaints.,三、不必事事都非知道不可，尊重已成年子女的隐私权、自主权。Nonecessarytoknoweverything,payrespecttotheprivacyandtherightofdecision-makingofadultchildren.,四、不要再以儿、孙为生活重心。寻找自己的社会圈子，才不至天天生活在盼望与失望之间。Dontregardchildrenandgrandchildrenasacenteroflife,lookforpersonalsocialcircles,sotoavoidtrappingyourselfinthedilemmaofanxiousexpectationanddisappointmentdaily.,五、不要逢人就诉苦，养成写作、绘画、练功和唱歌等习惯，以艺术和创作升华你的精神。Raiseahabitofwriting,painting,exercising,singingtosublimeyourmoodbyartsandcreationratherthancomplaintopeoplecomingacross,六、多些赞美，少些抱怨，对别人为你做的好事常怀感激之心。Moreadmiration,lesscomplaintsandappreciatewhatotherpeoplehavedoneforpleasingyou.,七、不要卷入孙辈与成年子女间的争执，这样只会恶性循环，害了你的孙辈。Dontinvolveinthedisputebetweengrandchildrenandadultchildren,thisactjustcausesadverseeffectsinabadcircleandhurtyourgrandchildren.,八、不要因病痛而怨天尤人，有病就治，治不好要忍耐。Dontcryoversickness,justgotoseeadoctorandtakethenecessarymedicalpillsasprescribed,andbepatientiffailedtocure.,九、不要疑心太重，要感激还留在身边的人，否则，他最后也会走的。Dontbeskepticaltootherstoomuch,begratefultothepersonwholeftaroundyou,otherwise,hewillgoawayfromyoutooeventually,十、要有信仰，要坚信未来，以愉快和乐观面对明天。Participateinreligiousactivitiesoften,bestick