爱情婚姻英文.ppt

1、当代大学生爱情观和苏格拉底当代大学生爱情观和苏格拉底 爱情观爱情观 the survey report about graduate view of love and marriage central university for nationalities as a case study xu fang shi rui quan bo 徐芳徐芳 石睿石睿 全波全波 maybe god wants us to meet a few wrong people before the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we wil

2、l know how to be grateful. love is nothing. but once you touch it, you will turn nothing yourself. socrates love metaphor one day plato had asked his teacher socrates what was love. socrates told him to go to a wheat field, not take a look back at the journey, and cull the biggest and the best wheat

3、, but only once. plato thought it was very easy. with confidence, he went out. but he did not still return over a half of day. finally, he appeared dejectedly with nothing at his hands, telling the reason it wasnt hard to find a wheat looking like good, but i did not know whether it was the best one

4、 or not. because i just culled only once, i had to give up some one, and go on looking for the better one. when i came to the end, i discovered that nothing was in my hands. socrates love metaphor what is love? love is giving up some one, and go on looking for the better one. when came to the end, n

5、othing was in hands. socrates marriage metaphor one day plato asked his teacher socrates what was marriage. socrates told him to go to a pine forest, without take a look back at the journey, to take the best and most suitable pine for a christmas tree, but only once. with the last lessons ,plato wen

6、t out confidently. after a half-day he exhausted taking a pine that looked standing and green, but a bit sparse. socrates asked him : this is the best tree? plato answered to his teacher : because i can only take one, finally i see a tree that looks like good , but find i dont have enough time and e

7、nergy. whatever it is the best one, i take it back. at this time, socrates told him : that is marriage! marriage is a tree that looks like good , and you must have enough time and energy to find it. whatever it is the best one, you take it back. love is like a maze. it has an entran ce but no exit.

8、marriage is like a cage. you can see outside but cant touch anything. in thein the following factors, the survey questionnaire listed a following factors, the survey questionnaire listed a total of 15 choosing spouse factors, specifically total of 15 choosing spouse factors, specifically including :

9、 including : （choose five optionschoose five options）the more important the more important five factors considered are:five factors considered are: appearance family background and social status feeling achievements, talents or abilities character academic money personality the same city, zone, dial

10、ects physical condition relatives views the history of marriage age registered permit（户（户 口）口） in the following factors, the survey questionnaire listed a total of 15 choosing spouse factors. the results showed that the hierarchized proportion of options is: character 72% personality 61% achievement

11、s, talents or abilities 54% physical condition 47% appearance 47% feeling 35% money 35% registered permit32% academic 31% sex 28% age 14% the same city, zone, dialects 12% family background and social status 12% the history of marriage 12% relativesviews8% the male and female graduates have differen

12、t standard about choosing spouse men choose wifemen choose wife character 34% appearance 31% personality 27% sex 22% achievements, talents or abilities 21% physical condition 21% feeling 16% registered permanent residence 14% academic 13% age 12% history of marriage 10% money 9% family background an

13、d social status 5% the same city, zone, dialects 4% relatives views 2% waiting for the perfect man women choose husband women choose husbandwomen choose husband character 38% personality 34% achievements, talents or abilities 33% physical condition 26% money 26% feeling 19% registered permanent resi

14、dence 18% academic 18% appearance 16% the same city, zone, dialects 8% family background and social status 7% sex 6% relatives views 6% age 2% history of marriage 2% analyzes 1 the similarity factor is that they think much of the others character, personality，and personal ability. more and more grad

15、uates pay more attention to the communication , forgiveness and understanding each other. with social changing, many studies have shown that the difference on choosing spouse standards between men and women increasingly disappeared. antonio wales said: charming looks and rich will be viewed as a lea

16、ding advantage at the beginning of the marriage race, and intelligence and good-hearted will occur after the beginning of the race but more important. more male focus on the external factors than female. why? from physiology , compared to female, males brains are suitable for processing visual infor

17、mation to certain extent, and females brain is more suited to handle with the stimulus with emotional content. analyzes 2 the male and female graduates have the male and female graduates have different standard about choosing spousedifferent standard about choosing spouse men womenmen women character 34%38% personality 27%34% achievements, talents or abilities 21%33% physical condi