别样的谢师宴

1、别样的谢师宴前几日，收到学生徐的短信，是发给我和miss杨的，我俩是他初一和初二的班主任：“w老师，y老师，您好，请您参加我的谢师宴，将于我家中举行，地点在xxx。”我顿感惊讶：徐同学原本是我班学生，一年前因成绩和心理等原因休学，后转去了mq学校。算来，今年并没有毕业，哪来谢师一说？于是电话过去问询。电话那头是孩子激动的声音：“老师，我当上化学课代表了。” 脑海中现出学生徐一年前的样子，原本是那样一个阳光自信，愿意为班级和他人作任何事，喜欢动手搞点小发明的孩子，却因为努力学而跟不上，在一味向他人付出却得不到该有的理解和尊重后情绪波动大，如同受伤的刺猬一样，蜷缩在角落里，不时还会竖起身上的刺，保

2、护自己，扎上别人。后来，听从我的建议，休学换个环境。许是环境变了，人也跟着开朗起来，他依旧愿意为班级做事，依旧愿意搞些小发明，依旧愿意表现自己。不同的是，他因为重新读了一年初二，所以课程上举重若轻，学得轻松，成绩大幅度提高，自信心爆棚，所以学习于他也成了一种乐趣，学习变得更加主动。同学对他也是钦佩不已。所以，再见到他时，他的脸上是微笑与自信，全然不是一年前的畏畏缩缩。尤其是眼睛，变得笃定而坚决。更令人开心的是，他的自理能力已经让我这个成年人望尘莫及了。一个人独行北京、上海、深圳、香港。一个人骑车游高邮在美国结识了一位日本朋友，常常在网络上用英文聊天。而这个孩子当年在我班上时，英语常常是不及格的

3、。今天，我和杨应邀去他家，他老远的来接我们，到他家他才很神秘又不好意思地说：“老师，请你们吃大餐。今天的菜全是我亲自做的。”我和杨都不甚相信，像他这样年纪的孩子，绝大多数饭来张口，连蒜和葱都分不清，还会做菜？能做个蛋炒饭就神奇了。但是，请看，我们的盛宴：黑胡椒鸡翅、油炸香蕉卷、韭菜肉丝、酸辣白菜、茄汁菌菇美容汤、混合果汁、意大利面这全是一个15岁的孩子独自一人忙出来的。尝了一下，便贪吃起来，因为着实色香味俱全。尤其是黑椒鸡翅，绝不亚于肯德基大爷的。油炸香蕉卷，看上去金黄金黄的，内香外脆，香甜可口，反正我是做不成来的，向小徐请教，他教我：先将香蕉切段，裹上炼乳。鸡蛋面粉混合做成胶状，将香蕉放入，

4、裹匀。最后撒上面包屑，放入油锅小火煎炸成金黄色。 茄汁菌菇美容汤他是这样做的：番茄炸成汁做底料，加水煮沸，入菌菇、胡萝卜，熬煮。没有任何调料，却品出一股酸甜。他还很得意的说：“老师，这菜多吃没事，减肥的。”席间，小徐很得意的将他的获奖证书拿给我们看，有校优秀学生干部的，有作文竞赛获奖的，有英语竞赛获奖的。总之，孩子的喜悦是溢于言表。我们也真心为他高兴。庆幸自己自始至终没有放弃小徐，庆幸自己时不时关心转学后小徐的发展。更庆幸他真的开始开朗、自信。也开始反思：我们为了所谓的班级均分，常常忽略那些很有个性潜力未显的孩子。殊不知，有时候，他们能给我们多少的惊喜呀！千万不要吝啬对孩子的鼓励与赞美，哪怕是

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