love_and_friendship课件

1、Made by： 张凌军张凌军 赵勇赵勇 侬林强侬林强What is friendshipv When Im crying, friendshhip is a white handchief, it can wipe my tears dry. 在我哭泣的时候，友谊是一条白色的手帕,它能擦干我的眼泪。v When it rains, friendship is a small umbrella,it can give me a piece of clear sky 在下雨的时候，友谊是一把小小的雨伞,它能给我一片晴空。 v When I am sad, friendship is a warm

2、 word, it can bring me happiness again. 在我伤心的时候，友谊是一句温暖的话语,它能让我重拾快乐vWhen I am in trouble, friendship is a strong hand, it can help me escape my troubles.在我身陷困境时，友谊就是一双有力的手,它能帮我脱离困境。v.v。v True friends must go through trials and tribulations together, it is there from the beginning to the end of our l

3、ives. 真正的朋友必须同甘共苦历经风雨，在我们的有生之年，友谊至始至终都在我们的心里. LOVEListen 倾听 Obligation 责任 Value 尊重 Excuse 宽容love isv Love our families since family plays a very important role in our life, it is up to every family member to contribute to the building of such a family. We should be considerate and understanding. We

4、should love and show concern for each other. We should strive to establish a happy family.Love friends love is different from friendship in many ways.love can not come suddenly on anyone. but friendship comes while meeting them.friendship exists for long period.but a failure in love wont exists even

5、 a year.they would move around.in friendship,others share their feelings,happiness and sadness.The difference between friendship and love I think love and friendship are two different branches of same tree. Love is something deep in heart when you care for someone more than you care for yourself. Fr

6、iendship is when you can make sacrifices for someone. Sometimes love is an outcome of friendship. There is lots of give ness in love than in friendship. Two friends can skip a day without meeting but same cant happen in case of love. Love is a feeling which cant be imagined in case of friendship.The

7、 American model of friendship Americans are very independent. Youd better not so curious about their privacies such as the salary, diseases, and marital status. Because Its none of your business. If you try to find the privacy from an American, most probably, you will be regarded as immoral. America

8、ns will be willing to help their friends. But most of the time, they hope that the helping would be concerning small things. Its maybe uncomfortable, even very strange, to shoulder much more so-called responsibilities for a friend. The American model of friendshipAmerican friendships are absolutely

9、among the changeable ones. But this phenomenon is not strange because American society is one of rapid change. Studies show that one out of five American families moves every year. That is why the Americans are always ready to make new friends. They often drop a visit to their new neighbors. And fri

10、endship will be established during chatting, taking an interested sports and small family parties. Americans use the word friend in a very general way. They may call both casual acquaintances and close companions “friends.” These friendships are based on common interests. When the shared activity en

11、ds, the friendship may fade. People from the United States may at first seem friendly. Americans often chat easily with strangers. They exchange information about their families, hobbies and work. They may smile warmly and say, “Have a nice day” or “See you later.” And schoolmates may say “lets get

12、together sometimes.” But remember American friendliness is not always an offer of true friendship.Here are some tips given by Americans to non-Americans who want to make friends with AmericansvAmericans enjoy: parties, churches, western restaurants, parks, sports clubs.vBe willing to take the first

13、step. Dont wait for them to approach you. Americans may not know if you speak English or not. They may feel embarrassed if they cant speak your language.vUse small talks to start the conversation. Ask them where they are from. Why they came to certain places, etc. Remember: Be careful to avoid perso

14、nal questions about ages, salary, marital status and appearance.vShow an interest in their culture, their country or their jobs. ( Americans like to talk about themselves.)vInvite them to join you for dinner or just for coffee or tea. Try to set a specific time. Americans sometimes make general invi

15、tations like “lets get together sometimes.” Often this is just a way to be friendly. It is not always a real invitation.vDont expect too much at first. Maybe they are just being friendly. But maybe they do want be your good friends. It will take time to tell.The differences between Chinese and Ameri

16、can friendshipvDifferent foundations for friendships vWesterners expects friends to be independent vChinese usually expect more from their friends vChinese friends share “things in common”: a task, a class, the hometown. Friendships are formed by people who work or go to school together.vBut in Nort

17、h America, business and friendship keep separate. The friendships are usually tied to specific activities. A person may have work friends and leisure activity friendsvWestern people prefer people to be independent, so they do not feel comfortable in a relationship in which one person is giving more

18、and the other is dependent on what is giving. Their friendship is mostly a matter of providing emotional support and spending time together. A Westerner will respond to a friends trouble by asking “What do you want to do?”vChinese friends give each other more concrete help. A Chinese will use person

19、al connections to help a friend get something hard to obtain such as a job, or an appointment with a good doctor. v Generally speaking, the American people care about each other and above in friendship and keep distance, you need help, he will be happy to help you, but he will keep his distance, not interfere with your ideas and decision, more will not seek your privacy.