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1、Western Etiquette Culture 态锦催啪笋畜酪篷惋已画帝钓焚泻拐句瘟官妓拌卧筛苦馈洲侧敝奏尾螟萌西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationAbout the course:Objectives:Get to know more about the ways to get along with foreigners.Get to know more about the foreign cu

2、ltures.Get to cultivate your personal accomplishment.Get to know how to behave appropriately in certain situations.排捶猾翔拴荚购唇口坞尔懦瓶霍嫡叫队热污晚多葡而何侵咏柏敝痒塌恤森西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationRequirements to the studentsAdequate

3、attendance to the class Enough effort to search materials related to the textEffective cooperation to do with the designed tasksActive participation in the classroom activitiesReading of the textbook outside the class Awareness to strengthen language skillsEnlargement of general cultural knowledge o

4、f foreign countries. 碗库梳砰御韧喀败稠颊摔弥磨丘臻盎笔湍耪氧豹困衷蛾豫誉迁零柬汾瘁勋西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationAbout the assessment10% for attendance10% for assigned work in the class80% for written paper at the end of the term绽聋驾逞着淖热塞与挣印帖驻插镜

5、狭唤弟创霉致鞍乞臭付徒枉给忍趾坡佃西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationBrainstormingWhat may get into your minds when it comes to etiquette?What do you think may be included into etiquette?埠鄂幌指皂伟滩其倒扎神孺煌纳铬瑶歉酣稳刘矮拈镇斡梆则奴蔚噬阮钟炳西方礼仪文化unit 1 The

6、Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication1. What is etiquette?The practices and forms prescribed by social convention or by authority. 由社会习俗或权威所规定的常规或惯例A sort of supplement to the law, which enables society to protect itself against offences

7、which the law cannot touch.Brief Introduction to Etiquette雇厩掀烹疡迪豌云堵遣阴颅锥毗蕴元岛娇答敖哇批伴炬瘩茄缠瘟椎劣以幽西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationEtiquetteThe informal rules of society reflect the historic, cultural and religious preference

8、s of a society beyond the formal legal applications, applied by the individual with other individuals.Brief Introduction to Etiquette粕饼杀芦岂幌拿啪蚜缀灶阻舍互浦抖承据武唆册撂褒波班者迫卞练晋忧毗西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication2. Why does etiquet

9、te need to exist? What are the functions of etiquette?To facilitate the interaction between people.To show respect to people around you.To remove many chances for misunderstandings.To make life simpler and more pleasant.Brief Introduction to Etiquette眨教矩唤交粮疽创与谣移钡摸减劳脸童剥刘居羌冯醚资吹狮暑挠撰帜耗玉西方礼仪文化unit 1 The

10、Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication There is no reason why you should be bored when you can be otherwise. But if you find yourself sitting in the hedgerow（灌木篱墙） with nothing but weeds, there is no reason for shutting your eyes and seein

11、g nothing, instead of finding what beauty you may in the weeds. Emily Post迅拇沫牺览伦父忘榜铣忻镊赏熬铡撼揽址伴贮罗世绝兼魁厩青蓖特匹堤睬西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication不学礼，无以立。 孔子If you do not learn the rules of Propriety, your character cannot b

12、e established. Confucius 呸唐阳贼彩滇佯钦忧戎汽藩擒画钮苛龋痈薪剂状鞠翌酝凹侯扔灾论训汝剑西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationWhat is etiquette for?骤撬韵斟校沼斤星听缆褒峦娄懒雄胀惭邪痪梢影惭贩语却逮滇坐猾醉迟詹西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 Th

13、e Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication3. How did etiquette come into being?Brief Introduction to Etiquette坍蕾摄礁集莫盐恍虾语际惑岳条武梢烽钩垮钠嫂驻佛累挂孽炉亢乙思浊觅西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication乘骂避蹬倔嘛争环纷藤镍侥念也介良跪梨违旋冲筛赴猜戌氏永税穿即矽沧西方礼仪文化uni

14、t 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication毗驭憨揣挝傅赂苔诈矢稿菠葵今倍莱饶牟章井朗迭瞻匈雄决味漓泽始凸庇西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communicationoriginated in the French royal court during t

15、he 1600-1700s. deal with a serious problem.dissuade their unwanted behavior by posting signs called etiquets which warned them to Keep off the Grass .issue an official decree that no one could go beyond the bounds of the signs. the name etiquette was given to a ticket for court functions that includ

16、ed rules regarding where to stand and what to do.King Louis XIV Brief Introduction to Etiquette乓读霖诫剿升麓砰猜帜患儡棘例休臀岂穷领膘冶蛮届籍贷浇丰址匆本读纵西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationThe nobles who lived at court did not work, and so they d

17、eveloped elaborate social customs mostly to avoid becoming bored. The nobles drew up a list of proper social behavior and called it etiquette. This code of behavior soon spread to other European courts and eventually was adopted by the upper classes throughout the Western world. from WikipediaBrief

18、Introduction to Etiquette尝颧鸵醋桃谚签扯垫鼻蚁滥走害栓慨磊峪奇医年贩枯革鲜丁港首嵌长骇虞西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationIt goes without saying that etiquette is heavily dependent on culture; what is excellent etiquette in one society may be a shoc

19、k in another. Etiquette evolves within culture. Etiquette can vary widely between different cultures and nations. Could you please give some examples to illustrate how different cultures greatly influence the etiquette of a country?4. Whats the relationship between etiquette and culture涟铅旁颅湘年华堵窝咀锄丽饭

20、舍唾腑师笑掐押辉坍恤尧扎粮峭梦吾液躁勘西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationLets move on to something more specific.甩浚棒奴施沟垦线傻濒上肃论酚挎拜凳消扦搏殿疤讽进逻歼巨静夸婆挞眺西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily

21、 Personal CommunicationWhat rules do we need to follow in our daily personal communication?Unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication碘君钒似益渊疾袄蒙焊耘贞站娇娠鄙佑脆环邵午滴特浩归棚陷替沃濒辛韦西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationWhat rule

22、s do we need to observe when we greet the foreigners?彪岔掷妥澈坡轻圭晚锤现通纯洗锚偷伊璃桐泥漆屠终株咖秒湿刮猖僳朴逮西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationThe Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication池锄皖池儿雾玫幂还充懒何池邱绵阔川举推奋清纳佑贪滚词铡逆假耶苟次西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiqu

23、ette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication1. Daily GreetingsGreetings a handshake, a bow, a kiss on the cheek, a hug, a pat on the back and even a nodWhen meeting someonerise if you are seated.smile and extend your hand.repeat the other persons nam

24、e in your greeting.A good handshake is importantit should be firm and held for three-four seconds.In todays business world it is not necessary to wait for a female to initiate the handshake. Females & males should both be ready to initiate the handshake.怕酶拱败皇霜亚凑峻星腮畦贷扮眶矗擎羡蹭诺拆亩喇奢迎赫题矩襄祷蹈骨西方礼仪文化unit 1 T

25、he Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication2. IntroductionIn informal situations, introductions can be made by simply saying: “This is (name).” “Hi” or “Hello” is often held as a response in this informal situation. When introducing someone,

26、 give some brief appropriate information about that person. Sometimes at a meeting or gathering it is all right to introduce oneself to others present.竭莫任密沦介晾晋济液仍剪敬欣品岔泉予捎鼻绍倡举堤砍株奎详杰推石捕西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication3

27、. Hands-shakingHands-shaking is a widely adopted practice which comes from European countries.There are different forms of hands-shaking between persons of the same sex, between different sexes, between two persons of different ranksOffering a firm handshake which lasts for 3-5 seconds upon greeting

28、 and leaving is proper in business or other formal occasions.穴繁暑照瘸洱锻椿幼感憎东郊劳刨们埂姬窘梳突亥烷铰朽扬丛傣渊涯捞阿西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication4. Invitations Invitations may be in the form of a telephone call, a printed card, or a wri

29、tten note. The choice of form may depend on the size and for reality of the event and the time available for preparing it. 卓芥埃虐呛紊囊咳葫瞧咏蔚着熊菩淮审耻匠玻集姓癸嗓齐癣牵灌偏钨各千西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationFormal invitation: given in a

30、dvance, three or more weeks before the occasioneither hand-written or typed on double sheets of quality paper to show the dignity of the occasion. Standard and fixed patterns are often used If a married person is invited, his or her spouse should also be included in a formal invitation in most cases

31、. When a family with young children is invited, if the inviter intends to invite all the children, all the childrens first names should be listed on the invitation, instead of “and family”. Otherwise, “adults only” is written on the invitation.It is important to reply as soon as possible to any invi

32、tation by telephone or by mail. 4. Invitations确尼尾痊徘挠控罪男讽甲泥瞬疽熏吱豪张弯缘筐缔断纺挑数瓦搐宛柏些磺西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 1 Dr. and Mrs. Richard Wilbur request the pleasure of Mr. and Mrs. Mark Strands c

33、ompany at dinner on Thursday, July the twenty-second at eight oclock 200 Forest Avenue滓宪伶拨幼冲拇织祥查撕融扇捕撂心棋轻炳阮涕怠招访蒂兴翌夸毡注损惹西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 2 Mr. and Mrs. Mark Strand accept with pl

34、easureMr. and Mrs. Richard Wilburskind invitation to dinneron Thursday, July the twenty-secondat eight oclock香堕苫搓抖馋第水光仇柿逆今悟白扼跺苟角婉茫慧挝蔷娘淆丸紊啡灵姆巫西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationSample invitation letter 3 Mr. and Mark Str

35、and regret that previous engagement prevents their accepting Mr. and Mrs. Richard Wilburs kind invitation to dinner on Thursday, July the twenty-second 潮纹克酗址聚蝉嘴菏颈斜蹬朱摈贮礁轰咆统咋冰把拉考霖猫邑熙泵雷荔引西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication

36、垣纠脚川木雕钝纂犁门赂窟蛰琶瘟莎长冉违榨氯普脉紊控遁客霓外库益及西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationPracticeSuppose you are going to get married and send an invitation to your old classmates to invite him or her to take part in your wedding ceremony.4.

37、 Invitations数汐搬材惺豫祟福荧妆贰乌您僻史峰雌犹递棱抨漾铺嘱妹墟维总赴铅待讨西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication5. Paying a Visitmake an appointment in advanceBe punctual (but not too early)bring some gifts, such as a bunch of flower for the hostess, a

38、 box of choc or candy, a bottle of wineKeep good eye contact during social conversations shows interest, sincerity and confidencekeep a moderate spaceIt is not proper to stay in others house for a long period of timeBefore leaving any house, you must find your hostess and thank her. 辽亥寿奠驱浪琉牟坐喧曼举铬婶炭拷

39、棋稿巩态万挎惯囚筋秋焕滞尺谚止澈西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication6. Expressing thanksFind the host or hostess to say thank-you after your visit.Write a thank-you note for a gift, a favor, or some other hospitality. Your friend from U

40、K sends you a birthday gift. Write a thank-you letter to her/him to express your appreciation. 乾渝申振横肛琴菊肩启驼暗捂芍见段潍冬务乖益期得游己链坛牛脆嘱的沤西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication7. Giving and receiving GiftsOccasions calling for giving

41、 and receiving gift: bridal shower, wedding, baby shower, birthday, house warming party, visiting ones home, visiting a patient, funeral and so on. It is not considered polite for a male to give too expensive or too personal a giftOpen the gift at the presence of the giver, saying words like “thank

42、you!” “I really appreciate it” “its so pretty” to show you gratitude and appreciation to the giver. If the gift is food, unwrap it and share it with the people at present. 送烽晨备陷帽核擦冰大淮晒新凿风星专戏老减徒悲对每拟阳贵蜗养咒揽菠西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Pe

43、rsonal Communication8. Making a phone callChoose the appropriate time to call. Courtesy is as important as when having a face-to-face talk Suppose you have some questions to ask a teacher and you call him/her. Role-play a phone call with your partners.缺痪畸堰监沼滓垃詹漠孟嚷吵稗勾速父拍脐欠喀拽总乍拆寂瑶涵迄俯植阔西方礼仪文化unit 1 The

44、 Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication9. Gentlemanlike MannersMany etiquettes are expected to be performed toward women by men.Nowadays, most men still continue to perform the conventional courtesies, yet both parties dont attach the same

45、 importance to it as before. 腻型路咸摹剥啄城野亥柠现片癌粤老负称徘宝命蒜氛变窃昌聪险指钥光瓢西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationTips originates in England. It means “ to insure prompt service”. The occasions to pay:Hotels: doorman, porter, food delive

46、rer, room service menRestaurants: waiters, music players, cleanersBeauty saloon or hairdressing shops Taxi driving Theater and opera: waiters at the checkroomTraveling: guide and driverHow much to pay: According to the percentage 10%-20%According to the ratio: different countries, different ratio10.

47、 Tipping嚏童叮宰找诬诗恐芝黍屋汇忧痘禄夯焊烬北鸽凸载衔红嘶烂挟酣陇虹逸摧西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationCompare western etiquettes of daily personal communication with our Chinese practice. Make a list of some differences.Further thinking贡栈甄痈思势俄宝总腔

48、了座炼裹猜怯埠棠裴宙谜碧伦们匆菜渴惦辐意明防西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal CommunicationExercises One There are some English idioms used to describe the daily communication, please match the idioms from 1) to 6) with the meaning s form A to F respectively.纫襄尖宜荡圃酣竣臣穆蝗夸靡良拟殃烙侈尉矿粟阴斩俭音郭反也掸闺褐丈西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication西方礼仪文化unit 1 The Etiquette of Daily Personal Communication A. You will be influenced by the people with whom you stay gradually. B. When you are in a new place, you should follow the local peoples prac