【素养阅读】：怎样拒绝别人

怎样拒绝别人读有所获Sometimesyourfriendsmayaskyoutodosomethingbad.Followthesestepstolearntosayno.1.Lookatthepersonseriously.Saynoinafirmbutpolitevoice.Keepcalm.Haveaconfidentattitude（态度）.Letthepersonknowthatyourmindismadeup.Letthepersonknowyouwillnotbackdown.2.Givereasonsforsayingno.Explainwhyyouwon’tdowhatthepersonwants.Youmightpointoutthattheactionbreaksaruleorlaw.Youmightsaythatyoupromisedyourparentsnottoactinaparticular（特定的）way.Youmightsaythatyoudon’twanttoputyourhealthatrisk.Sharingyourreasonsforsayingnomightactuallyhelptheotherpersonrethinktheaction.3.Matchyouractionstoyourwords.Makesureyourfaceshowsthatyouareserious.Donotsmile—thelistenermaynottakeyouseriously.Heorshemaynotbelieveyourwords.4.Walkaway.It’sokaytowalkaway.Tellhimorherthatthereisnothingelsetodiscuss.Ifheorshecontinues,saygoodbyeandwalkaway.练有所得1.Inwhatwaycan’tyouletthepersonknowthatyourmindismadeup?A.Lookatthepersonseriously.B.Saynoinafirmbutpolitevoice.C.Keepsmilingpolitelyallthetime.D.Haveaconfidentattitude.2.Whichofthefollowingisnotareasonforsayingno?A.Theactionbreaksaruleorlaw.B.Youpromisednottoactinthatway.C.Youdon’twanttoputyourhealthatrisk.D.Youarehelpinghimorherrethinktheaction.3.Howcanyouhelptheotherpersonrethinkhisorheraction?A.Bymatchingyouractionstowords.B.Bylettinghimbelieveyourwords.C.Bygivingreasonsforsayingno.D.Bylookingatthepersonseriously.4.Ifapersoncontinuestoaskyoutodothethingyoudon’twanttodo,youcan______.A.lookatthepersonseriouslyB.saysorryC.givereasonsD.walkaway思有所悟Whatisyourwaytosayno?__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________视野拓展I’mgood.表拒绝当别人请我们吃东西时，如果想吃就说Yes,please；不想吃，就说No,thanks。除了这么表达之外，还有另一种表达方式。例如，如果有一个朋友与你分享食物，出于各种原因你不打算吃，就可以说I’mgood.(我就不吃了吧。）另外，如果有人主动向你提供帮助，问“需要帮忙吗?”，而你想婉拒，则可以说I’mgood.（我可以的，不需要了。）答案解析：本文是一篇说明文，说明了拒绝别人的方法步骤。1.C细节理解题。根据第二段和第四段可知，保持礼貌的微笑不能让别人知道你心意已决，因此C项正确。2.D细节理解题。根据第三段可知，帮助他人重新思考他的行为不是拒绝别人的原因，而是结果，因此选择D项。3.C细节理解题。根据第三段可知，帮助他人重新思考他的行为的方法是说出拒绝的原因，因此C项正确。4.D细节理解题。根据第五段可知，如果一个人还是坚持要求你做不想做的事，你可以走开，因此D项正确。思有所悟Forme,Iusuallygivesomerea