给进入高三儿子的一封信

1、亲爱的儿子：时光匆匆，不经意间，18年过去了，你从一个小婴儿长成了一个大小伙子，马上就将进入高三了，有很多话，老爸不好对你说，怕你嫌我啰嗦，今天老师建议给你写封信，就借助这封信给你说几句。你也知道，你老爸不善言语，平时话也不多，不善与人沟通，看着你一天天长大，作为父母，怎么跟你沟通，怎么引导，让我们倍感压力，我们也只有不断调整心态，不断去适应你的成长。学习是很辛苦的，历来都是如此，毕竟人生不可能不劳而获，这世上也没有随随便便的成功，有多大的付出，才有多大的收获。高中阶段是一生中最重要的阶段，是人生必须经历的重要转折期，它将决定下一阶段新生活的起点，决定你今后的人生高度。相应的，高三可能就是你一

2、生中最最辛苦的学习阶段了，也是你成年之前的最后冲刺，而高考则是你无数次考试中最重要的考试，得认真面对，不能马虎。高三的学习生活辛苦，有无处不在的压力和挑战，但请你相信，父母将会永远和你在一起面对困难，支持你。毕竟，从小学到初中再到高中，你每一个阶段的成长都让爸妈感到无比的骄傲和幸福，相信这也难不倒你。然后再说说你的高三，你的事情其实很专一，虽然苦但相对简单，因为家庭琐事不需你操心，国家大事你管不上，电子游戏你不耍也有人玩。用这一年时间辛苦，成就你以后的人生。再则你要劳逸结合，一定要有一个健康的身体，只有强健的身体才能承受压力，不至于在压力面前出现内分泌失调和各种不适，这是老爸对你很担心的地方，

3、因你从小偏食，造成你现在瘦得跟竹竿似的。高三，紧张的学习和频繁的考试会让人身心俱疲，这些苦能预见，你要有心里准备，要不断调整心态，一定能勇敢地、积极地、乐观地去面对它。同时，高三不仅拼智力，这点老爸不担心，但更还要拼体力，如果心有余而力不足，累倒在即将达到的终点，那是太令人遗憾了。所以，一定要有一个良好的作息习惯和良好的饮食习惯，该吃就吃，该喝则喝，该休息就休息，不能过度地疲劳学习，如同老爸不能疲劳驾车一样。作为爱你的父母，我门当然愿你学习一流，你一直是父母的骄傲，但后来发觉学习的事儿我们管不了、管不好，就只能靠学校和老师和你自己了。即使我们认识到了这一点，你老妈还是心焦，甚至脱离你自己实际的

4、想让你是最优秀的，这你得谅解，因为她是你妈妈。我们之所以这样，我们更多的是从上大学、上好大学给一个人的一生带来的影响的角度考虑的，在现实中国，我们的阅历告诉了我们大学作为人生的一个起点对人一生的奠基作用。所以后来，我们也只能不断调整心态，适应你的成长。以下是往年毕业生家长的几段话，说的很实际，很诙谐活泼：作为年轻人，不要过度抱怨高考制度和社会的不公，偶尔吐吐槽骂骂也就算了，比如：艺术特长、体育特长加分公平吗？高考招生地域不同分公平吗？农村子女少数民族加分公平吗？学生科技发明有多少是学生的作品？有多少改了民族改农户？有多少潜规则拼爹行为在起作用？所以，这世界没有绝对的公平，也不要把这世界太理想化

5、，这个世界也有很多阴暗的地方，我们只能去适应。我们这个社会，很多既得利益群体都在竭力维护这种存在，更多人在把进入这个群体当成一种追求和炫耀，任何一个试图改变这种观念和现实的想法都是徒劳无功的。中国已经进入权贵世袭、阶层固化、社会活力缺乏的低俗媚权时代，所以，你想获得你的尊严，改善生活境遇，就要迈好高考这步台阶。不要总想着不切实际的逆袭，寄希望于毕其功于一役。你只有三本的水平，你即使用二本的努力也逆袭不了北大清华。但，你有二本的水平，你用985的努力考个211却是有可能实现的。如果你平淡于普班的不上不下，平淡于周测月考的稀里糊涂，平淡于平时的得过且过，高考那个晴天霹雳你就要做好承受的准备。不打疲

6、劳战，不自欺欺人，累了就休息休息，下课就出去转一圈，换换科目换换脑子，作业做不完就要讲究质量，千万别刻意应付迎合。一两道题不会很正常，脑子短路谁都会有，一两次考不好别太计较，没有人能放弃你，能放弃你的只有你自己，你放弃了现在就放弃了未来，智者都是自己超度自己。要有好的心态。别因为老师一次不经意的批评影响自己的情绪，更不能因为同学一句小视你的话而在意很久，不能因为一次的成功得意忘形，更不能因为一次的失误而消沉不起，自古成败皆一时，笑看高考能几何。所以，千万别忘了，你高中所有的积累都是为了高考这一役，不要被任何负面因素和环境所影响！再说一下心态，你内心是快乐还是痛苦，决定因素在你内心，而不在外部环

7、境，外部环境对你的影响只是暂时的，你内心的心态才是永远的！股市里有句话：任何好消息或者坏消息市场都能消化，都改变不了股市的运行趋势，所不同的是波动一天还是两天的问题，波动过后，该上涨还上涨，该下跌还下跌。不要轻易涉足感情，人生每一阶段都有每一阶段的任务，生涩的果子不好吃，早来的爱情留不住。你不知道自己能不能驾驭好，你也不知道对方能不能驾驭好，好好的把这些美好的感觉埋藏在内心深处，如果有一天秋色满眼的时候，缘分来了，你水到渠成再收获这份纯真。要管理好自己的生活，管理好自己的感情，要压制控制这种生理冲动。好了，儿子，马上12点了，就写这些，已经不少了，只要你认真阅读对你都会有收获。请你记住，人生的

8、精彩在于过程！而不是结果。你老爸2018.6.28Dear Son: Time hurriedly, inadvertently, 18 years passed, you from a small baby grew into a big lad, immediately will enter the senior year, there are a lot of words, Dad is not good to you, afraid you think I verbose, today the teacher suggested to write you a letter, with

9、the help of this letter to say a few words. You also know, your father is not very verbal, usually do not talk much, poor communication with people, watching you grow up day by day, as parents, how to communicate with you, how to guide, let us feel pressure, we only constantly adjust the mentality,

10、and constantly adapt to your growth. Learning is very hard, has always been so, after all, life can not be unearned, this world has no casual success, how much to pay, only how much harvest. High School is the most important stage in life, is an important transition period that life must go through,

11、 it will determine the starting point of the next stage of new life, determine your future life height. Correspondingly, the senior school may be the hardest learning stage of your life, but also your final sprint before adulthood, and the college entrance examination is your most important test in

12、countless exams, have to face seriously, can not be sloppy. Senior study life hard, there are ubiquitous pressure and challenges, but please believe that parents will always be with you to face difficulties, support you. After all, from primary school to junior high school, you grow every stage of t

13、he growth of parents feel extremely proud and happy, I believe it is difficult to fail you. Then say your senior high, your things are actually very single-minded, although bitter but relatively simple, because the family trivia do not need you to worry about, the affairs of the matter you can not c

14、ontrol, video games you do not play with others. With this year of hard work, the achievement of your future life. Then you have to work and leisure, must have a healthy body, only a strong body can withstand stress, not in the face of stress endocrine disorders and all kinds of discomfort, this is

15、dad is very worried about you, because you are a partial eclipse, caused you are now thin with bamboo pole. Senior High school, intense learning and frequent exams will make people physically and mentally exhausted, these hardships can be foreseen, you have to be prepared in the heart, to constantly

16、 adjust the mentality, will be brave, positive, optimistic to face it. At the same time, the senior not only spell intelligence, this father does not worry, but also to spell physical strength, if not enough, tired in the upcoming end, it is too regrettable. Therefore, we must have a good habit of r

17、est and good eating habits, should eat to eat, should drink, should rest on the rest, can not be overly tired to learn, as Dad can not be tired to drive. As the parents who love you, of course, I would like you to learn first-class, you have always been the pride of parents, but later found that the study of things we can not control, poor management, we can only rely on the school and teachers and your own. Even if we recognize this, your mother is still distraught, even out of your own actual want