Unit1 Happy family life.ppt

1、Unit 1 Happy family life,Talk about your family,Part I Warming up,A. Key words: family name age Vocabulary: 1) architect :kitekt: a person who designs buildings 2) Wales,ThefullnameofEnglandis TheUnitedKingdomofGreatBritainandNorthern Ireland, it isdivided intofouradministrative regions:England,Wale

2、s,Scotlandand NorthernIreland.,Whats the full name of England? Whats the four administrative regions of the UK?,Fill in the age of each member in the Porter Family.,William Porter_; Catherine Porter_ ; John Porter _; Susan _; Mary Porter-; Mr. Lee -; James Porter _; Joan Lee _.,Fill in the age of ea

3、ch member in the Porter Family.,William Porter_87_; Catherine Porter_80 ; John Porter 53_; Susan _48_; Mary Porter-; Mr. Lee -; James Porter 24_; Joan Lee 17_.,The Porter Family,Mr. William Porter is very old. Hes 87. And Mrs. Catherine Porter is 80. Mr. Porter is from Wales. John Porter and Mary ar

4、e brother and sister. John Porter is 53 and hes a lawyer. His wife Susan is 48, and shes an architect. James Porter and Joan Lee are cousins. James Porter is 24 and Joan Lee is 17.,ancestor grandparents member single sister-in-law married uncle couple stepfather divorced only child parents generatio

5、n descendant eldest youngest niece nephew cousin siblings stepson twins grandchildren,Read the text and familiarize yourself with the words in italics.,Larry Long met a beautiful woman named Sarah. They fell in love and got married. The couple has three children. They named their eldest son Michael

6、Junior after Larrys father. They called their middle child, a girl, Michelle, and their youngest boy Matthew. Larry has two siblings, a brother, Luke, and a sister, Ann. Luke is the elder brother and his wife is Jane. Jane was married before to another man, but they got divorced. Tom and Terry are J

7、anes sons from her first marriage. The boys are identical twins. This means they look exactly the same as they were born at the same time on the same day. Tom and Terry are Lukes stepsons and they love their stepfather, Luke, very much. Luke and Jane have three children of their own: their first son

8、, Jack, second son, John and their only daughter, Jennifer. Altogether, there are seven members of Lukes family. Jack and John go to Uncle Larrys house to play chess every Saturday with their cousins, Matthew, Michelle and Michael Junior.,Larrys younger sister, Ann, is single as she is not married.

9、Although she has no husband, she is not lonely. She gets along well with Jane and Sarah, her brothers wives, or her sister-in-law. She loves her two nieces, Michelle and Jennifer, and likes to take them shopping. She is also fond of her six nephews. Sometimes, the childrens parents worry that their

10、aunt may spoil them too much. The Childrens grandparents, Michael and Ivy, are in their seventies. For a quieter life, they moved back to the old village where their long-dead ancestors used to live. Their descendants: sons, daughters, grandsons and granddaughters visit them during the weekends. The

11、 grandchildren love the apple pie their grandmother makes. They enjoy playing chess with their grandfather, but can never beat him. The three generations always have a happy time together!,Michael exhaustion foxhole: n. a hole in the ground which soldiers use to fire from or hide from the enemy 散兵坑,

12、distracted: /dstrktd/ a. anxious and unable to think clearly abuse: /bjus/ insulting words; offensive or coarse language 虐待；恶言; 辱骂; 粗话: hurl (a stream of) abuse at sb strike out (at sb/sth) : to attack or criticize someone suddenly or violently Unhappy young people will often strike out at the peopl

13、e closest to them.,1. dates spending special time together. 2. specific complain request praise,3. fatigue insecurities foxhole, striking out protect 4. distant,5. all marriages Work together to understand 6. Respect danger professional physical verbal 7. understand, not to win.,C. Key words losing

14、“lose-lose” solutions control Vocabulary attest excel reside in configuration (构造) spouse,Vocabulary: attest: to show or prove that something is true attest to Luxurious furnishings attested to the wealth of the owner. excel: to be the best or better than reside in: to be present in or consist of so

15、mething Joes talent resides in his storytelling abilities.,configuration: /kn,fgren, -gj- US -gj-/ the arrangement of the parts of something; shape 某物的构造 结构 布局; 形状; 外观: the configuration of the earths surface spouse: /spauz; US spaus; spas/ wife or husband,Having been married for more than _years, I

16、 can attest to the truth of the following statement: To _ in the art of _, one must master the art of _. Modern psychologists are taken with the _ solution. But in marriage, success resides more in _ solutions. Out of these, both parties can _. For in the love configuration, losing gives _ that alwa

17、ys _. The issues that people _ most in marriage, such as how to spend money, often _ the real ones. The key issue is: _ is going to be _? When I was younger, my need to control arose out of _, a lack of trust, insecurity. The day I finally realized I _ to control my wife - that, indeed, I _ control

18、her, that I _ control her, and that if I _, I would _ our marriage - was the day our _ began. What is it we want most from a marriage? To _ and be _. To be happy and _. To grow to _. A love relationship is the _ in which we plant, _ and harvest _ of crops, our _, and in which our spouse is provided

19、the same rich soil in which to _. We cannot _ what we want unless _also gets what he or she wants. So remember: if you want to feel _, give up _.,1 para. 40 excel domestic argument losing. 2 para. win-win lose-lose Win a gift returns.,3 para. argue over arent Who in control fear didnt ought not to c

20、ouldnt tried to destroy marriage,4 para. love loved secure discover garden cultivate the most precious own self bloom,5 para. obtain our partner loved and respected control.,Having been married for more than 40 years, I can attest to the truth of the following statement: To excel in the art of domes

21、tic argument, one must master the art of losing. 作为一个结婚40余年的人，我可以证明下面这个说法完全正确：想要在家庭争执中得满分，首先要掌握认输的艺术。 Modern psychologists are taken with the win-win solution. But in marriage, success resides more in lose-lose solutions. Out of these, both parties can win. For in the love configuration, losing give

22、s a gift that always returns.现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法，而在婚姻里头，成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。因为这样，双方都可以是赢家。在爱情的天地里，认输实际上永远是一份有回报的礼物。,The issues that people argue over most in marriage, such as how to spend money, often arent the real ones. The key issue is: Who is going to be in control? When I was younger, my need

23、 to control arose out of fear, a lack of trust, insecurity. The day I finally realized I didnt need to control my wife - that, indeed, I ought not to control her, that I couldnt control her, and that if I tried to, I would destroy our marriage - was the day our marriage began. 人们在婚姻中争吵的那些事情诸如怎样花钱之类，

24、往往并不是争执的真正所在。争执的关键是谁来控制。当我年青的时候，我想去控制是因为出于恐惧，是缺乏信任和安全感。当我终于认识到我不必控制我的妻子的时候，我们的婚姻才算真正开始。确实，我不应该控制我的妻子，我也不能去控制她，如果我要这样去做，我就会毁坏我们的婚姻。,What is it we want most from a marriage? To love and be loved. To be happy and secure. To grow to discover. A love relationship is the garden in which we plant, cultivat

25、e and harvest the most precious of crops, our own self, and in which our spouse is provided the same rich soil in which to bloom. 我们在婚姻中最想得到的是什么?是爱与被爱，是幸福与安定，是不断的成长与发现。爱情的关系就是一个花园，在这个花园里我们种植、培养和收获最宝贵的庄稼，这就是我们自己；在这个花园里，我们要给我们的爱人提供同样肥沃的土壤，让她茁壮成长。 We cannot obtain what we want unless our partner also g

26、ets what he or she wants. So remember: if you want to feel loved and respected, give up control. 我们不可能得到自己想要的东西，除非我们的配偶得到他（或她）想要的。所以请记住：如果你要想得到爱和尊重，就必须放弃对伴侣的控制.,Part II All you need is love?,Key words social background ethnic group religion Vocabulary pre-industrial propose a marriage criterion,A.,H

27、ow do British women choose a husband?,What are the qualities of an ideal boyfriend or husband according to the British women interviewed?,considerate 体贴的 happy personality cope well in a crisis act sensibly 作出理智反应 well educated a good sense of humour reliable and dependable confidence attractiveness

28、 similar interests 相投的兴趣,What is the advice from a British mother to a daughter?,Choose a man who treated his own mother well.,A2,similar social backgrounds. the same race or same ethnic background. the same religion.,A3,Japan / 9.2% / arranged marriages 3% / between blacks and whites,Key words phys

29、ical appearance loving sb fall in love Vocabulary forehead / / Barbara Cartland sustain: keep going differentiate between A and B A from B,B.,1. physical appearance that attracts; 2. what somebody looks like, ., look beyond the physical appearance 3. the high percentage of divorces. 4. falling love

30、with somebody,. ,loving somebody,C.,Key words: “just-right” wife physical qualities athletic/sports qualities nationalities Vocabulary: wedding vows 誓言 stand (six feet) upper portion moderately built (a woman with) style designer clothing,C.,one of the biggest decisions they will make in life, as the just-right wife for him, definition of what the just-right“ wife is, the millionaire man and the poor man , her physical qualities, different words, by her physical qualities, in two different atmospheres, also have their definition of th