如何促进人际关系HOWTOFOSTERBETTERRELATIONSHI.ppt

如何促进人际关系 HOW TO FOSTER BETTER RELATIONSHIP,1. 无论何事 ,你们愿意人怎样待你们 ,你们也要怎样待人 . In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you. (太Matt 7:12 ),（罗12:18）若是能行，总要尽力与众人和睦。,(Ro 12:18) If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.,各 人 不 要 单 顾 自 己 的 事 也 要 顾 别 人 的 事 . Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. ( 腓 Phil 2:4 ),2. 欣 赏 别 人 的 长 处 VIEW AT THE GOODNESS OF OTHERS,凡事不可结党,不可贪图虚浮的荣 耀,只要存心谦卑,各人看别人比 自己强 . Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility. Consider others better than yourselves. ( 腓 Phil 2:3 ),3. 关 心 别 人 的 感 受 INDENTIFY THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS,与喜乐的人要同乐,与哀哭的 人要同哭. Rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those who mourn. ( 罗 Rom 12:15 ),4. 对 人 勿 吹 毛 求 庇 NOT TO BE PETTY WITH PEOPLES WEAKNESS,不 要 看 自 己 过 於 所 当 看 的 , 要 照 着 神 所 分 给 各 人 信 心 的 大 小 , 看 得 合 乎 中 道 . Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgement, in accordance with the measure of faith god has given you. (罗 Rom 12:3),柔和的舌头,能折断骨头. A gentle tongue can break a bone. ( 箴 Pro 25:15 ),6 .愿与人共商大计 BE OPEN FOR DISCUSSION WITH OTHERS,不 要 志 气 高 大 , 倒 要 俯 就 卑 微 的 人 , 不 要 自 以 为 聪 明 . Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. (罗 Rom 12:16),7. 对 人 当 感 激 赞 赏 BE GRATEFUL TO OTHERS,凡 事 谢 恩 . Give thanks in all circumstances. ( 帖 前 1 The 5:18 ),8 . 使 他 人 舒 舒 服 服 MAKE OTHERS FEEL AT EASE,凡 事 都 叫 众 人 喜 欢 . Try to please everybody in everyway. ( 林 前 1 Cor 10:33 ),9 .多 给 人 谈 话 机 会 GIVE OPPORTUNITIES FOR OTHERS TO SHARE,你们各人要快快的 听慢慢的说,慢慢 的动怒. Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry. ( 雅 Jas 1:19 ),一句话说得合宜就如金苹 果在银纲子里. A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver. (箴 Pro 25:11),10 . 言语当谨慎诚实 BE ALERT AND SPEAK THE TRUTH,四 种 责 任 观 4 T