跨文化交际实用教程u.ppt

Unit 2,Daily Communication (I),2,Objectives,Learn the differnces of addressing people and greeting between Chinese and western culture. Learn what are the topics at the beginning of the conversation. Learn how to visit someone and how to leave.,3,CONTENTS,I. Warm-up cases II. Detailed Study: Addressing People Greetings Initiating Conversations Visiting Someone Partings III. Case Study IV. Summary V. Assignments,4,Case 1. Twelve cups of tea,I. Warm-up cases,Question 2: How could you help “I” in this case out of the awkward situation?,Question 1: Why did I have 12 cups of tea?,5,Case 2. Have you had your lunch? / Where are you going?,Chinese,Westerners,normal,A greeting,offended,An invasion of privacy,6,II. Detailed Study,1. Addressing People,Discuss the differneces in addressing people between English and Chinese cultures,7,Decide the following addresses are right or not.,He Xiangu Andrew Lewis,8,How to address people?,Acquaintance Mr. Ms. or Mrs. + surname VIP Title + full name/ surname Ambassador大使 Doctor博士 Duke 公 Marquis or Marquess侯 Count or Earl伯 Viscount子 Baron男 Stranger Mr. Madam (only use the word Sir if he is much older than you or you dont know his surname but he is a VIP) Young people Young man Young Lady Kid(s) Young Master(小王子),9,Summary of addressing people,10,How to express fu +title?,vice,professor,deputy,assistant,associate,director,president,manager,Please match the following two groups.,11,Tips:,行政头衔 以“副”字的表示副职的行政职务头衔，可用 vice、deputy 表达。在实际使用时究竟选用哪个，纯属搭配习惯。一般来说，vice与president、 premier、 chairman、 minister、 governor搭配；deputy与director、 chief、head 、secretary、dean、mayor搭配。似乎可以认为，Vice比Deputy的搭配级别要高。 学术头衔 学术头衔的“副”职称，常用 associate 表示。如： 副教授 associate professor 副研究员 associate research fellow 副审判长 associate judge 副主任医师 associate doctor,12,2. Greetings,Good morning/afternoon/ evening. How are you? How are things going? How are you getting on? How are things (with you)? Hows everything? Hows life? Hello. Hey. /Hi.,Western expressions,13,Where are you going?你上哪去？ Where have you been?你去哪里啦？ Have you had your meal?吃过了吗？,Chinese expressions,Its none of your business.,14,3. Initiating Conversations and Conversation Topic,Age Money/Salary Health Family,What topics should be avoided in initiating conversation?,15,Conversation topics,Hobbies Holidays The weather A local or national event Jobs Films/books,16,4. Visiting Someone,17,Business visiting: arrange a time in advance some straight to the point Social visiting: more flexible Im coming to see you this afternoon.,18,I havent seen you for a long time. I was wondering whether I could come round to visit you sometime. Id like to come and see you sometime. Would you be free one afternoon next week? Mr. Zhang and I would like to come and visit you. Would it be convenient for us to come Wednesday evening?,Some suitable expressions:,19,Advance notice Take off the out-door clothing immediately, if not, they would consider you stay only a few minutes. Finish eating Food-offering differences,Things to be minded,20,Vedio watching,Watch the vedio and give your comment.,21,5. Partings,Question: What are the differences in parting between Chinese and English cultures?,22,The differences:,Westerners: A couple of minutes small talk Well, its been lovely to see you again, but I must be going soon. I hope well be able to get together again before long Thank you for a lovely evening. I must not hold you any longer. Chinese: abrupt leaving-taking Im leaving now.,23,III. Case study,Case 3. Li Hongzhangs embarrassment,Case 4. Different Attitudes Toward a Fly in a Beer,Case 5. Borrow Money & Lend Money,24,Case 3. Li Hongzhangs embarrassment,Question 1: Could the Westerners understand the Chinese modesty?,Question 2: How could Li get rid of his embarrassment?,The cuisine kwzi:n(菜肴) of your country is really great. It is my great honor to have a chance to entertain you with them.,25,Case 4. Different Attitudes Toward a Fly in a Beer,Question: What can be revealed out of the case?,French,gererosity,Spanish,Arab,Japanese,sarcasm,arrogance,seriousness,humor,criticalness,English,American,26,Case 5. Borrow Money & Lend Money,Question 1: If you were “I” in this case, how would you adjust yourself?,Question 2: Whats the response of the the American if you are generous and say: “Dont mention it again. You dont have to pay me back.”