英语辩论观点及问题 revised - 总.doc

一辩：Good morning, everyone, today our view is that males need more care than females. First, males take on more pressure and responsibility in our daily life, a man not only takes on the economic pressure, but also takes on more obligations. Responsibility can promote a man to be perfect and fragile. He always wants to learn how to be strong and patient, how to be a good husband after getting married and how to take on family responsibility. However, in our society, to evaluate a man whether successful or not is that he gets the achievements in his career, the difficulties and hardships on the way to success is obviously. Males are just the same as females; they need a sense of belonging, too. We should give more care for them.Secondly, in our mind, man is a symbol of strength and courage, who is determined brave and confident, so that males hardly say anything about his setbacks. However, females can say anything in anytime to release their dissatisfaction. In fact, though males look like very strong, brave, they really need care, too. The man is the lack of concern in the whole society, but pays the most. A Man is more like a child, needs the maternity care, so we say that men are more in need of care.Finally, I want to say the fact that the care that males are needed have been forgotten. Social competition is so fierce that males are suffered from social and family pressure, desperately struggling. Despite they should take on pressure, they cannot complain about anything. There are few people to care for them. So we all think: males are strong, are made of steel, do not need consolation. In fact, male is a person as well as a female, males also have been suffered from something they are dissatisfied, but how many care?The above-mentioned is our view: males need more care.二辩：我们的观点：1. 男人在社会上承担了更多的压力和责任Men take on more responsibility and pressure in everyday life. First, men not only take responsibility of making more money to support the family; but also should do his best to achieve his career, to ensure his wife and children a good life. In China, men not only supposed to care about his wife and children, but also his parents and in-laws. The pressure taken by a man is incomparable. Secondly, men take on more family and social responsibility. The requirement of a good man is that the man has a stable work and receives a decent income and lives in a family with warmth and happiness. Men should manage to meet these requirements, therefore, under huge pressure, and deserve more care.2. 男女吵架，家庭暴力Have you ever thought about this question? First, this phenomenon happens occasionally. Secondly, the reason of this phenomenon is complex; womens word may hurt mens heart and the men cannot hold his emotion and then he quarrels with his wife or even domestic violence. Thirdly, Pressures come from both work place and family. Men are required to learn how to deal with these pressures. Once the pressure cannot be released reasonably, quarrel and even domestic violence follows. And this may destroy the relationship between family members. None of us want to see this kind of things happening, so in order to release the pressure reasonably and maintain a healthy relationship between family members, men need more care. 3. 男人是勇敢，坚强，自信的象征，如果暴露任何弱点则会被鄙视。Psychologyresearcher said that long time in depression led us mental illness. However, though a man under high pressure, he doesnt deserve more care from our society, because in our mind, man is a symbol of strength and courage, who is determined brave and confident. If a man exposed any weaknesses, he will be regarded as incompetence. On the other side, women always complain about anything which is boring them, they can release the pressure through this way.4. 男性出力多In our daily life, men contribute much more than women. Some related statistics show that sexual division of labor exists in the labor market; most of the men are engaged in physical labor, such as machinery manufacturing , the construction industry and the information technology industry. While most women mainly engaged in some light and stable work, such as the financial industry, education and service . Compared with women, men pay more energy and stamina in the social construction. They take more risks and pressure. So, I think, men contribute more, and should be given more care.5. 更多男性处于亚健康状态Too many men has said tired, a lot of men who have heavy psychological pressure and bad life style are led to a sub healthy state. According to a recently survey from the WHO, there are 35% of the people in the sub-health state, which accounted for 75% of men. A man who act as an important role in the society and family; they need to support the family and take on the heavy social responsibility. Some of them said that they want to lay down their work and spend a long time to have a good rest. But not to advance is to go back in the fierce competition, they have to work continuously. So the experts point out that should the society and family members give men more care, not just ask men to bear all the responsibility?四辩：Thanks chairman，everybody. I am a girl. Im glad to the opinion of my fellow debaters. Please let us recollect the whole process of debate. Fellow debates made the following errors. As is the followings.1 Male superiority era has passed. Now men and women are equal.2 for me, I do not think that women are weaker than men. Women have the same ability to do good job as men. We do not want to excessively depend on men, No matter economic and spritOur group does not deny that women should get access to care, but think that men should get more care .Speaking of myself, I absolutely agree with the views and perspectives of others debater in our team. Here I give a summary of the debate from three aspects.The first is the social aspect. In modern society, there has been a very popular phenomenon so called Weak. The meaning of Weak is that female is stronger than male .I think that everyone deserves to reflect on why this phenomenon comes to。Whether at work or in life, people care too much for women, but neglected to care for men. Women have already lots of rights and interests. Instead men do not enjoy anything. Do you think that it is fair? Dont you think that men should get more care?Secondly, men face with relatively larger work pressure and responsibility than women. With the rapid development of society, in order to provide a better living environment for children, men work hard and ignore the daily diet, for example, not eat breakfast, burn the midnight oil and so on. I think men should get more care to relieve their stress and give them more time to enjoy life.Finally, I appeal to the community to give men more care. They need us love.对方问咱们的问题：1. 为什么女生学历高，不好找工作？Sexual division of labor exists both in the labor market and the domestic sphere: females as house maker while males as bread-winner. As supposed to be house makers, women faced less pressure from the labor market compared with men. All they need to do is to find a relatively cushy job and take care of the family. The keen competition in the labor market forces males to work harder, get more skills in order to integrate into the labor market and get a decent income. Men shoulder more burdens, therefore, deserve more care than women do.2. 为什么家务活女性干的多？In the traditional sense, women take on most of the housework even more the all housework. But in recently, this phenomenon has changed. Some young couples have begun to share housework with each other; the man has found that to do some housework will improve harmony in the family. I think that housework will be divided equally after a few years. So I dont think women should deserve more care than man. 3. 女人生理结构不如男生强壮，是不是应该受到更多的关怀 ？Womens body is weaker than mens. However, in everyday life, we dont need women to do the manual labor, when women cant carry something and then ask for help, I believe that a man must help her immediately. Secondly, female is more careful than male, should male be deserved more care than female?4. 女人在生小孩的过程中忍受很大的痛苦，是不是应该受到更多的关怀？In my opinion, first, all mothers are very glad that a new baby born is more happiness than pain. I think all mothers are looking forward to this day. It is a memorable moment of happiness. Secondly, babys father will care for the mother wholeheartedly when she is pregnant, he will take on more responsibility to care the mother and the baby. So I dont think females should derive more care than males.5. 女人嫁出去，离开自己熟悉的环境，融入别人的家庭，不需要更多关怀？This problem has been discussed around me, our country and our society is developing, this phenomenon happened occasionally. The young cou