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How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2. 为了让孩子独立，父母应该14分 These days many parents tend to make all decisions for their children for fear that they might do something wrong. The parents purpose is quite clear: to protect their kids from possible failures. But this practice turns out to make their children increasingly dependent on them. For their childrens future development, parents should help them to be independent. The earlier they take measures to do so, the more benefit their children will get. Parents should first teach their children how to make plan, an indispensable skill for their future survival. Parents should also give their children more freedom, a must to childrens independence. If the children only follow rules set by their parents, they will never gain the sense of independence. Most importantly, parents should be open to different ideas from their children. If children feel that their ideas are well listened to and respected, they will become more confident.To sum up, parents should provide their children with plan-making skill, freedom and respect. In this way, children will grow more independent. 11 分Nowadays, many parents do everything for their children. They cook meals and wash clothes for their children. And they even make all the choices for their children. Everything has done by the parents and the children will do nothing but following the parents decisions. In order to help children to be independent, parents should follow the suggestions given below. First, let children do some housework , such as washing dishes and cleaning rooms. These works will not take too much time, but they are suitable for children to learn to live independently. Second, give the chance to manage the family to children. As a family member, child should know how to manage the family. And the parents should teach them this kind of skills. In this way, children can learn the necessary abilities to live on their own. And most important, give more freedom to children and let them make their own choice. Only in this way can children grow up healthily.8 分Nowdays, many parents do everything for their children. There are many reasons for parents to do that. The first one is that they love their children and want them live better. The second one is that they think they would do everything better than their children. All these things makes the children dont know how to live without parents. They dont know how to be independent. What the parents do have a really bad affect to their children. So they should try another way. They should teach their children how to do things instead of doing things for them. Then, they should let the children know that they would leave one day and children must live by themselves. So the children have to learn to live alone when it is not too late. Next parents should put it into practice. They may creat more chance for children to live alone when children are young. If parents do well in these ways, their children will surely know how to be independent. 5 分 Recent years, a topic of how should parents help children to be independent, which has aroused widely public attention. As far as I am concerned that is right in a sense, which parents do every things for their children. Because of the children is parentss all things. However, I am favor of parents should help children to be independent as soon as possible. How should parents help children to be independent. In my opinion, parents should believe their children first. parents should be certain with their children can recognize the true or fault and right or wrong of something. Secondly, parents had best to let their children to relize the responsity of himself and the family. In addition, parents also need to connect with their children and know about what children is doing recently. By doing so, children may make mistake even lost their way and so on. However, dont worried, parents. Your children must be succeed from their experience.2分 In the world, how many people is very happy? Because they are has parents, friends, teachers and so on. They are takes much love for them. So they are very happy. In present, parents are doing much more anything for their childrens. Including anything in the home. For example, their clothes, their dinner, their friends and so on. In the school, their parents takes them for school by car, by bike and on foot. For their children safe. Todays children dont do anything except their parents. For children alone in the world. For children doing anything alone in the world. Parents makes do exchange themself. Parents arent do anything for their children. They can do something by themself.