英文辩论-campus love.doc

Topic:CampusLoveLove on campus is a hot topic in peoples daily life ,is it good for us students to love on campus?It has no certain answer so。正方两人：大家好！首先表明立场：支持大学生谈恋爱argument1. Everyone thought college has been mature, the mind is pure, relatively complicated society in the future are more likely to find a pure love.Love is a learning process. love each other will pour out his heart to each other, comfort, encouragement, and support. Help to balance of body and mind development, can also understand the opposite sex as early as possible, encourage each other, help each other study.At the same time exercise persons loyalties and assume responsibility for marriage.College, reading books is no longer only to learn lessons, we this age have a situation that gods love, (of course, we dont like the world indulge their lust) this is an important lesson in life?Because love in life, the life also in continuous learning, its not there are inevitable conflicts.Argument2. College students in love will improve the lovers psychological endurance.If a love cannot continue, both sides will be more or less some injury.With dialectical view, it is a good thing.Although injured, but after injury, believe that both psychological endurance.In the later career frustration, strength of the blow will not deep, because he/she has received more than this.Argument3. College students who fall in love with others will be in the initiative to learn to take care of, considerate,be tolerant of other people.Many college students grew up under the aegis of the parents, especially those that are the only one child. Willfulness is a general character of these college students. They are always very arrogant and selfish.Once they fall in love, these students will begin to change.Because they realize they should think of the people around, they should take care of, considerate, and be tolerant of others.Argument4. College students who fall in love can promote the development of both sides. Many college lovers have common interests, goals and ideals.When they are in the process of struggle for their own ideal, some setbacks can make them get pessimistic. At this time, the lovers encourage and help are the most useful.It can let us cheer up again.Our elders exaggerate about love in college. They say love is a waste of time and money. It will often cause people to forget their studies and eventually may even destroy their lives. I think we are all grown-ups and we have the ability to manage our own affairs. So, go with your heart and never regret!反方两人：大家好！首先表明立场：不支持大学生谈恋爱argument1:Firstofall,thereisraretrueloveexistingoncampus.Accordingtotheyear2014sEducationBlueBookreleasedbyChinaSocialScienceAcademy,about88.8%ofcollegestudentsregardedcampuslovewasaphysicalneed.Itotherwords,trueloveoncampusisaspreciousaspanda.Formanystudents,eitherinloveorstillseekingforlove,theirmainmotivationandaimistoavoidboredomandaddcolortocollegelife.Everydaytheygotoclasses,rushtothedininghall,anddragtheirfeettodormitories.Thenonedaytheyrealizedhowboringanduninterestingtheirlifeisanditisnecessarytofindcompany.Sotheystarttheirseeking.Whentheyfinallygrabsomeoneastheirlovers,eventhemselvesdontknowwhattheytrulylikeisthepersonorthefeelingoffallinginlove.argument2:Second,collegestudentsarenotpsychologicallymatureenoughtoaffordlove.Tragicevents,suchassuicides,murders,violentactsfromunrequitedlovearenotunfamiliartopeople.Thoughsomeonemaysaythesekindsofthingsrarelyhappen,itistruethattragediesexist.Andonceanyofthemhappens,sorrow,harm,andbadinfluencearenotonlybroughttoparentsorrelativesbutalsothewholeschooleventhewholesociety.Collegestudentsarelateadolescents,esp.freshmenandsophomores.Theyareeasilygetirritatedanddesperate,sometimesevencanthelptogototheextreme.Ifsomethingoutofexpecthappenedintheirromanticrelationships,forinstance,break-up,theymaydosomethingreallyharmful.argument3:Lastbutnotleast,collegestudentsarenotabletotaketheresponsibilityoflove.Loveisnotabeautifulroseonecanenjoy,butalsoafragilevaseoneneedstotakecareofandberesponsiblefor.Responsibilitymeansmuch.Forexample,whensweetheartsgethurt,comfortandareliableshouldershouldbeprovided;whenloversgetbadmood,jokesandasmilingfaceshouldshowup;whencompaniesgetinvolvedintroubles,encouragementandhelpfuladvisesshouldbegiven.Butsincecollegestudentsarestillnotmatureenough,sometimesthemethodstheyhandleproblemsarenotquiteproperanduseful.Howcantheyaffordtheresponsibilityoftakinganotherpersonwhilethemselvesneedtobelookedafter?argument4：Inconclusion,Campusloveshouldnotbeencouragedbecausetrueloveisrare,andcollegestudentsarenotpsychologicallymatureorabletoholdtheresponsibilityoflove.Illnowquoteafamoussayingasanexampletoclarifymystand,“Asamemberinthetransfercrowd,theresnodoubtthatwecollegestudentshouldlayemphasisonstudy,includingall-roundstudyofprofessionalknowledge,communicationart,self-planning,rationalthinkingandsoforth.Whileitisrightsuchcharacterthatprovidesyoungcollegestudentswithafundamentalstandardforlifealwaysworkattheusefulandvitalthings,andbearealisticperson.Thesestudentsarenotindependentineconomic,notmatureinpersonalityandnotperfectmentallyyet.” Love on campus has good aspects ,for it can teach us how to deal with the relationships between the opposite sex .Also love can make the lovers perform perfectly ,for the both want to be the best one in each others eyes .But we cant ignore the bad effects,campus love cant l