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,1. keep skid chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. cultivate a low, persuasive voice. how you say it counts more than what you say.2. make promises sparingly, and keep them faithfully, no matter what it costs. 3. never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. praise good work, regardless of who did it. if criticism is needed, criticize helpfully, never spitefully.4. be interested in others, their pursuits, their work, their homes and families. make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance. 5. be cheerful. dont burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your minor aches and pains and small disappointments. remember, everyone is carrying some kind of a load.6. keep an open mind. discuss but dont argue. it is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.7. let your virtues speak for themselves. refuse to talk of anothers vices. discourage gossip. it is a waste of valuable time and can be extremely destructive. 8. be careful of anothers feelings. wit and humor at the other persons expense are rarely worth it and may hurt when least expected.9. pay no attention to ill-natured remarks about you. remember, the person who carried the message may not be the most accurate reporter in the world. simply live so that nobody will believe them. disordered nerves and bad digestion are10. dont be too anxious about the credit due you. do your best, and be patient. forget about yourself, and let others remember. success is much sweeter that way.do not , for one repulse , give up the purpose that you resolved to effect .(william shakespeare , british dramatist)( .w.)dont part with your illusions . when they are gone you may still exist , but you have ceased to live. (mark twain , american writer)( )i want to bring out the secrets of nature and apply them for the happiness of man . i dont know of any better service to offer for the short time we are in the world .(thomas edison , american inventor)( . t.)ideal is the beacon. without ideal , there is no secure direction ; without direction , there is no life .( leo tolstoy , russian writer)( . l .)if you doubt yourself , then indeed you stand on shaky11 ground .(ibsen , norwegian dramatist ) ( )if you would go up high , then use your own legs ! do not let yourselves carried aloft; do not seat yourselves on other peoples backs and heads . (f. w . nietzsche , german philosopher)( . f. w.)it is at our mothers knee that we acquire our noblest and truest and highest , but there is seldom any money in them.( mark twain , american writer )( ) ( . a.)the ideals which have lighted my way , and time after time have given me new courage to face life cheerfully 19 have been kindness , beauty and truth .(albert einstein , american scientist)-( . a .)the important thing in life is to have a great aim , and the determination to attain it. (johan wolfgang von goethe , german poet and dramatist)( . j . m .)the man with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds .(mark twain , american writer) ( )the only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts oftoday .(franklin roosevelt , american president) ( . f .)when an end is lawful and obligatory, the indispensable means to is are also lawful and obligatory .(abraham lincoln , american statesman) ( . a.):)jonathan swift may you live all the days of your life.there were many times my pants were so thin i could sit on a dime and tell if it was heads or tails. jonathan swift was an anglo-irish writer that lived a couple of centuries ago (1667-1745).(1667-1745)he is perhaps most known for classics like gullivers travels and a modest propsal. the latter being the ironic and shocking essay where he suggested thatimpoverished irish people should sell their babies as food to rich people. such works has earned swift a reputation as one of the finest satirists of all time. since swift was a writer there is a ton of things to quote. he is 8 of my favourite pearls of wisdom at the moment.1. dont fear being wrong.a man should never be ashamed to own that he has been in the wrong, which is but saying? that he is wiser today than yesterday.but one should really not be afraid of making mistakes. or admitting that he or she has been wrong. by recognizing that you can release the negative emotions that may dwell within and move on to the next thing. admitting that you have been wrong also makes it easier to clearly analyse what you did and what you can learn from the experience.2. money is useful. love of it is hazardous.a wise man should have money in his head, but not in his heart.money is very useful. but if you let it take the wrong place in your life it can wreck havoc.it can create greed and much negativity in your life. and if you love the money, youll probably just want more and more. no matter how much you get. and it may not fill you up and finally make you happy as you may have hoped.now, its important to not let this reasoning lead you to believe that money is evil. money is a tool. it can help you to achieve many positive things. its just that a love of money can be destructive.3. dig where you stand.although men are accused of not knowing their own weakness, yet perhaps few know their own strength. it is in men as in soils, where sometimes there is a vein of gold which the owner knows not of.i think this is true. its very easy to fall into an addictive pattern of criticizing yourself and others. but what are the positive things in you and the people around you?10 10 ,1. keep skid chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. cultivate a low, persuasive voice. how you say it counts more than what you say.2. make promises sparingly, and keep them faithfully, no matter what it costs.3. never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. praise good work, regardless of who did it. if criticism is needed, criticize helpfully, never spitefully. 4. be interested in others, their pursuits, their work, their homes and families. make merry with those who rejoice; with those who weep, mourn. let everyone you meet, however humble, feel that you regard him as a person of importance.5. be cheerful. dont burden or depress those around you by dwelling on your minor aches and pains and small disappointments. remember, everyone is carrying some kind of a load.6. keep an open mind. discuss but dont argue. it is a mark of a superior mind to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.7. let your virtues speak for themselves. refuse to talk of anothers vices. discourage gossip. it is a waste of valuable time and can be extremely destructive.8. be careful of anothers feelings. wit and humor at the other persons expense are rarely worth it and may hurt when least expected.10. dont