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sense/ sens / n.1.感官,官能 2.直觉,意识 3.判断力,见识 4.意义,意思 vt.1.觉得,意识到 2.理解，领会sens,sent,scen来自拉丁文sentire =to perceive with the sense, feel, hear, see, smell。sensation / sen5seiFEn / n. 1.感觉，知觉 2.感知能力 3.感觉，直觉 4,轰动，震惊 5.引起轰动震惊的人或事物 sensational / sen5seiFEnEl /a. 1.轰动性的，令人激动的 2.耸人听闻的 3.壮观的 4.极好的，绝妙的senseless / 5senslis /a.不省人事的, 无感觉的, 无意识的sensible/ 5sensEbl / a.1.明智的,合情理的 2.容易察觉的,易于感知的sensitive/ 5sensitiv / a.1.敏感的,灵敏的 2.神经过敏的,容易生气的 3.易受伤害的sensitivity / 5sensi5tiviti /n.敏感, 灵敏(度), 灵敏性sensuous / 5sZnFuEs / a.1.令人感官愉快的 2.性感的sentence/ 5sentEns / n.1.句子 2.判决,宣判 vt.宣判,判决sentiment/ 5sentimEnt / n.1.意见,观点 2.感情,情绪 3.感伤,伤感情绪sentimental / 7senti5mentl / a.1.情感的,感情用事的（而非理性的）2.（失之过度或不恰当地）伤感的，充满柔情的，多愁善感的sentry/ 5sentri / n.哨兵,警卫scene/ si:n / n.1.(戏剧的)一场,(电影、电视的)一个镜头,(小说等的)一节 2.(戏剧、事件等发生的)地点,背景,现场 3.景色,景象 4.舞台 5.发脾气,吵闹scenery/ 5si:nEri / n.1.风景,景色 2.舞台布景scenario / si5nB:riEu /n.1.想定游戏的关,或是某一特定情节 2.情节概况 3.电影剧本scenic / 5si:nik /a. 1.舞台的, 布景的 2.自然风景的 3.景色优美的n.风景照片, 风景影片scent/ sent / n.1.香味,气味 2.臭迹,踪迹,线索 3.香水 vt.1.嗅到 2.察觉 vi.循嗅迹追猎absence / 5AbsEns / 1.缺席，不在2.缺席的时间，外出期3.缺乏，不存在absent / 5AbsEnt /a. 1.缺席的，不在场的 2.缺乏的，不存在的 3.心不在焉的，出神的absentee / 7AbsEn5ti: /n.缺席者, 不在场者, 未上班者a. 缺席者的，在外住的absenteeism / AbsEn5ti:Iz(E)m / n.1.旷课，旷工 2.旷课率obscene / Cb5si:n / a.1.伤风败俗的，有背道德标准的 2.淫秽的，猥亵的assent / E5sent / n.赞成，同意v.同意，赞成（要求，想法或建议）consent/ kEn5sent / n.准许，同意，赞成vi.（to）准许，同意，赞成consensus/ kEn5sensEs / n.（意见等）一致，一致同意dissent/ di5sent / n.意见分歧的 vi.（from）不同意，持异议dissension / di5senFEn / n.纷争，纠纷，意见分歧insensible / in5sensEbl / a.1.(对某事物)无感觉，无反应能力，麻木 2.未察觉，意识不到3.失去知觉，昏迷nonsense / 5nRnsEns / n.1. 胡说,废话 2. 冒失(或轻浮)的行动 3.无价值的事物 a.随意发音组合体的present / 5prezEnt / a.1.出席的,到场的 2.现在的,目前的n.1.现在,目前 2.礼物,赠品 3.现在时态 4.正被谈论的法律文件或文书vt.1.赠(送),呈献 2.介绍,陈述 3.提出,呈交 4.正式介绍,引见,推荐presentation / 7prezEn5teiFEn / n.1.提供,显示 2.外观,(显示的)图像 3.授予,赠送(仪式) 4.报告,介绍 5.推荐 6.表演presenter / pri5zentE / n. 1.节目主持人 2.赠送者 3.提议者，推荐者presently / 5prezEntli / ad.1.不久,一会儿 2.现在,目前presentiment / pri5zentimEnt / n.预感，预兆（尤指不祥之感）resent/ ri5zent / vt.对表示忿恨,怨恨,憎恶resentful / ri5zentfl / a.感到气愤的，憎恨的，愤慨的resentment / ri5zentmEnt /n.怨恨，愤恨，憎恶逻辑辨证记忆提示：由sens,sent,scen演化而来的英文单词围绕着“to perceive with the sense, feel, hear, see, smell(感官上的洞察)”造词。这组词有两个难点：1）英文把视觉、嗅觉、听觉等感官混同表示，如scene(指视觉的洞察）, scent(嗅觉的洞察), sentry(-ry可作总称的名词后缀，“哨兵”需要保持听觉、视觉等所有感官的洞察)；2）英文把坏的感觉和好的感觉不分，因为感知既有好也有坏，如scent(n.香味，香水 好的嗅觉感知),scene（n.发脾气，吵闹 坏的情感）,sentiment(n.感伤，伤感情绪 坏的情感）, sensational(所有意思都指好的感知)。battle / 5bAtl /n.1.战役，战斗2.斗争，决斗vi.作战，斗争bat来自拉丁文battere=to beat。beat/ bi:t / vt.1.（接近地）打，击，敲2.打败，战胜，胜过3.难倒，使无法达到vi.（心脏等）跳动n.1.（心脏等的）跳动（声）2.有节奏的敲击（声）3.（音乐的）拍子，节拍bat / bAt / n.1.蝙蝠2.球棒，球拍baton / 5bAtEn /n.1.警棍 2.（乐队）指挥棒3.（接力赛的）接力棒4.（行进中军乐队队长）指挥棒batter / bAtE / v.1.连续猛击2.敲碎，捣毁3.磨损，损坏n.（用鸡蛋、牛奶等调制的）面糊battery / 5bAtEri / n.1.电池（组），蓄电池（组）2.排炮，炮组3.一系列，一套abate / E5beit / vt.1.使(数量、程度等)减少, 减轻 2.减价，打折扣vi.1.(数量、程度等)减少, 减轻 2.失效, (法令等)被废除combat/ 5kCmbAt / n.战斗，斗争，格斗/ kEm5bAt，5kCmbAt / vt.与斗争，与战斗debate/ di5beit / n./v.辩论，争论rebate / 5ribeit /n.1.折扣，部分退款 2.减少，消弱v.1.减少，消弱减 2.折扣bash / bAF / v.1.怒殴, 打坏 2.严厉地、非难地、威胁地批评指责n.怒殴, 猛击bashful / 5bAFful /a.（因做了某事而感到）害羞的，局促不安的，羞愧的abash / E5bAF / vt.使局促不安, 使困窘, 使羞愧abashed/ E5bAFt / a.窘迫的，羞愧的，局促不安的rebuff / ri5bQf /n.1.(对请求等)断然拒绝 2.驳斥 3.击退 4.(对希望、计划等的) 阻碍, 挫折butt / bQt / n.抵触，顶撞vt.抵触，顶撞vi.1.顶撞，冲撞 2.伸出逻辑辨证记忆提示：由bat演化而来的英文单词都围绕着“to beat（击打）”造词。这组词难理解的是以下三条造词思维：1）“语言击打”和“具体击打”不分，如debate（n./v.辩论，争论）,defend（vt.1.保卫，保护2.为辩护，为（论文等）答辩）；2）abash a-(=ad-=to表示方向)+ba(=bat=to beat打击)+-sh(=-ish可作动词后缀)使精神上受打击?vt.使局促不安, 使困窘, 使羞愧；3）内在逻辑相似性的造词思维，如bat（“蝙蝠”和“球拍”之义大相径庭，但内在逻辑是相似的，即球拍击打球的声音和蝙蝠拍打翅膀的声音是极其相似的。）,battery（“电池组”和“排炮”实际意思完全不一样，但内在逻辑是相似的，即电池和炮弹的形状都是圆的。）；4）由具体到抽象的造词逻辑，如battery（n.一系列，一套 由“排炮”的“许多炮弹组合而成”的逻辑演化而来。chronic/ 5krCnik / a.1.（疾病）慢性的，（人）久病的2.长久的，不断的3.积习难改的chorn来自希腊文khronos=time。chronicle / 5krCnikl / n.1.编年史 2.记事，叙述3.Chronicles （与单数动词连用）缩写 Chron.,Chr【圣经】vt.记录，记载chronograph / 5krCnErB:f /? n.记时计, 记秒表chronology/ krE5nClEdVi /n.年代学, 年表anachronism / E5nAkrEnizm /? n.1.时代错误 2.不合时代的人，不合时代的事synchronize/ 5sINkrEnaIz / v.1.(使)同步, (使)同时发生, (使)同时存在 2. (使)共同行动逻辑辨证记忆提示：与chron有关的英文单词围绕着“time(时间)”造词。这组词的难点：1）chronicchron(=time时间)+-ic(形容词后缀)疾病时间长了的 a.1.（疾病）慢性的，（人）久病的；2）chronologychron(=time时间)+olog(=thought思考)+-y(名词后缀)思考时间的学科n.年代学, 年表chrysanthemum/ kri5sAnWEmEm/ n.菊花anth,anthem希腊文anthos=flower。anthem / 5AnWEm /n.1.圣歌, 赞美诗, 轮流唱赞美诗歌2.国歌，（某个组织或结构的）赞歌anthology / An5WClEdVi / n.1.诗选 2.选集，文学作品集 3.杂集逻辑辨证记忆提示：与anth,anthem有关的英文单词围绕着“flower(花，开花；精华，华丽)”造词。这组词的难点：chrysanthemumchrys(=chrysos=gold,yellow金黄色的)+anthem(=flower花)+ -um(可作名词后缀)菊花culture/ 5kQltFE / n.1.文化，文明2.教养，教育3.培养，培植4.培养菌cult,colon拉丁文colere(=cultivate,till)及其过去分词cultus。cult/ kQlt / n.1.异教，邪教2.时尚，狂热的崇拜cultivate/ 5kQltiveit / vt.1.耕作，栽培，养殖2.培养，陶冶，发展inoculation/ i7nCkju5leiFEn /n.1.接木, 接种, 接插芽2.预防注射3.感染, 灌输(思想等)colony / 5kClEni / n.1.殖民地2.（侨民等）聚居区，聚居地3.（动植物的）群体，集群逻辑辨证记忆提示：与cult,colon有关的英文单词围绕着“cultivate, till(耕作；培养)”造词。culture/ 5kQltFE / n.1.文化，文明2.教养，教育3.培养，培植4.培养菌cult,colon拉丁文colere(=cultivate,till)及其过去分词cultus。cult/ kQlt / n.1.异教，邪教2.时尚，狂热的崇拜cultivate/ 5kQltiveit / vt.1.耕作，栽培，养殖2.培养，陶冶，发展inoculation/ i7nCkju5leiFEn /n.1.接木, 接种, 接插芽2.预防注射3.感染, 灌输(思想等)colony / 5kClEni / n.1.殖民地2.（侨民等）聚居区，聚居地3.（动植物的）群体，集群逻辑辨证记忆提示：与cult,colon有关的英文单词围绕着“cultivate, till(耕作；培养)”造词。civil/ 5sivEl /a.1.公民（间）的，国内的2.平民的，文职的，民用的3.民事的，民法的4.文明的，有教养的civ拉丁文civis=citizen。civilian / si5viljEn / n.平民，百姓 a.平民的，民用的civilisation / 9sivilai5zeiFEn / n.文明，文化civilization / 9sivilai5zeiFEn / n.1.文明，文化2.教养，修养3.文明社会，现代社会civilize / 5sivilaiz / vt.使文明，使开化civility / si5viliti / n.礼貌，文明举止逻辑辨证记忆提示：与civ有关的英文单词围绕着“citizen(市民；公民)”造词。这组词难以理解的造词思维：1）civil a.1.公民（间）的，国内的2.平民的，文职的，民用的3.民事的，民法的4.文明的，有教养的 住在城市中的人都是文明的、有教养的；2）civilise vt.使文明，使开化 市民化就是文明化discuss / dis5kQs /vt.讨论, 论述, 商讨cuss来自拉丁文quatere=to strike, shake。repercussion/ 7ripE5kQFEn / n.常pl.(不良的)影响，反响，后果percussion / pE:5kQFEn /n.1.打击乐器，敲击乐器 2.（管弦乐团的）打击乐器组percussionist / pE5kQFEnIst / n.音打击乐器乐手, 弹击乐器弹奏者逻辑辨证记忆提示：与cuss有关的英文单词围绕着“to strike,shake(击打，摇动，震动)”造词。这组词的难点：discuss dis-(=apart分离)+cuss(=to strike击打)击打成碎片语言上的激烈打斗vt.讨论, 论述, 商讨malcontent / 5mAlkEntent /a.不满的n.不满者，满腹抱怨的人mal来自拉丁文malus=bad, ill ,evil。*malaria / me5lZEriE / n.1.疟疾 2.污浊之气，瘴气malady / 5mAlEdi / n.1.疾病 2.严重问题，重大疾病malfunction / mAl5fQNkFEn / n.故障，机能失常malice / 5mAlis /n.恶意,怨恨，敌意malicious / mE5liFEs / a.心毒的，恶毒的，怀恶意的malign/ mE5lain / v.诽谤a.有害的，会引起伤害的malignant / mE5lignEnt /a.1.恶性的,致命的2.恶意的,恶毒的dismal / 5dizmEl /a.1.阴沉的，凄凉的，令人忧郁的2.缺乏技能的，邪恶的，差劲的，缺乏道德心的maim / meim / vt.1.使残废，使受重伤，使不能工作 2.使不完美，使有缺陷逻辑辨证记忆提示：与mal有关的英文单词围绕着“bad, ill, evil(不好的，疾病的，邪恶的)”造词。这组词难以理解的造词思维： malaria mal(=ill疾病的)+ar(=air气体)+-ia(可作疾病的名词后缀)容易产生疾病的气体n.1.疟疾 2.污浊之气，瘴气err / E: / vi.犯错误err来自拉丁文errare=wander, go astray, be in error。erroneous / i5rEunjEs / a.错误的，不正确的errant / 5erEnt / a.1.错误的，行为不当的，不被接受行为的 2.周游的，漂泊的，游历的erratic / i5rAtik / a.古怪的，乖僻的，不规则的，不稳定的，不可靠的errand / 5erEnd / n.（短程的）差事，差逻辑辨证记忆提示：与err有关的英文单词围绕着“wander, go astray, be in error(漫步；徘徊；迷失方向，误入歧途；犯错误)”造词。normal / 5nR:mEl / a.1. 正常的,平常的 2. 正规的,规范的norm,nom来自拉丁文norma=carpenters square; standard of behavior。norm / nR:m/ n.1.标准,规范 2. pl.准则normalize / 5nC:mElaiz / v.规格化，标准化normalization / 7nC:mElai5zeiFEn / n.正常化, 标准化normative / 5nC:mEtiv /? a.标准化的enormous / i5nC:mEs / a.巨大的，极大的，庞大的anomalous/ E5nCmElEs /a.反常的，不合规则的，破例的，破格的anomaly/ E5nRmEli/ n.异例，异常，变态，异常事物，异常现象逻辑辨证记忆提示：与norm有关的英文单词围绕着“carpenters square(木匠的直角规); standard(标准，准则，规则)”造词。这组词的难点：enormous e-(out出来，向外)+norm(=标准)+-ous(强调性的形容词后缀)大小超出一般标准的 a.巨大的，极大的，庞大的invade / in5veid / v.侵入,侵略,侵袭vad,vas来自拉丁文vadere=to go。evade / i5veid / vt.1.逃避，回避 2.避开，躲避evasion / i5veiVEn /n.逃避, 借口invasion / in5veiVEn / n.入侵,侵略,侵犯invasive / in5veisiv / a.入侵的pervade / pE(:)5veid /v.遍及，弥漫，渗透pervasion / p:veIVEn, pE- / n.遍及，弥漫，渗透wade / weid / vi.涉水，跋涉逻辑辨证记忆提示：与vad,vas有关的英文单词围绕着“to go(走，行进)”造词。这组词的难点：1）invade in-(=into进入)+vade(=to go走，行进)强行走入某个国家v.侵入,侵略,侵袭；2）wadewade=vade走水路 vi.涉水，跋涉extravagant / iks5trAvEEnt / a.1.奢侈的，铺张的 2.过度的，过分的，（言行等）放肆的vag来自拉丁文vagari=to wander。vagrant / 5veirEnt / n.1.流浪，漂泊2.流浪者a.漂泊的vagary / vE5ZEri, 5veiEri /n.奇特行为, 奇想, 反复无常的行为vague / veig /a.含糊的，不明确的，模糊的divagate / 5daivEeit /v.1.流浪 2.漫游,离题逻辑辨证记忆提示：与vag有关的英文单词围绕着“to wander(徘徊，四处走动，四处游荡)”造词。这组词的难点：1）vague vag(=to wander徘徊)+-ue(形容词后缀)思想上的徘徊 a.含糊的，不明确的，模糊的；2）divagate di-(=de-=fully;away)+vag(=wander四处走动，四处游荡)+-ate (动词后缀)v.1.流浪 2.漫游,离题refuge/ 5refju:dV / n.庇护所,避难处,庇护take refuge in v.1.避难到 2.求助于. 3.用.搪塞过去fug来自希腊文fugere=to flee。refugee/ 7refju:5dVi: / n.难民fugitive/ 5fju:dVitiv / a.1.逃亡的, 逃跑的 2.短暂的，易逝的n.逃亡者, 逃跑者，亡命者逻辑辨证记忆提示：与fug有关的英文单词围绕着“to flee(逃避, 逃跑, 逃走)”造词。-ee来自古法文表示被动人的名词后缀。employee/ im5plRii:,emplRi5i: /n.受雇者，雇工，雇员guardian/ 5B:diEn / n.1.监护人 2.守卫者,保护者-an -ian来自拉丁文表示人的后缀。American / E5merikEn /n.美国人, 美洲人a.美国的, 美洲的musician/ mju:5ziFEn / n.音乐家,乐师pedestrian / pi5destriEn / n.步行者,行人European / 7juErE5pi(:)En / a.欧洲的, 欧洲人的n.欧洲人失败的意义The Significance of FailureFailure doesnt mean you are failuer,It does mean you havent succeeded yet.Failure doesnt mean you have accomplished nothing,It does mean you have learned something.Failure doesnt mean you have been a fool,It does mean you had a lot of faith.Failure doesnt mean youve been disgraced,It does mean you were willing to try.Failure doesnt mean you dont have it,It does mean you have to do something in a different way.Failure doesnt mean you are inferior,It does mean you are not perfect.Failure doesnt mean youve wasted your life,It does mean you have a reason to start afresh.Failure doesnt mean you should give up,It does mean you must try harder.Failure doesnt mean youll never make it,It does mean it will take a little longer.Failure doesnt mean God has abandoned you,It does mean God has a better idea.失败不表明你是一个失败者，它只是意味着你尚未成功而已。失败不表明你一事无成，它意味着你学有所成。失败不表明你是一个傻子，它意味着你充满信心。失败不表明你蒙受羞辱，它意味着你勇于尝试。失败不表明你尚未拥有，它意味着你必须改换方式再试锋镝。失败不表明你低人一等，它意味着你尚不优异。失败不表明你浪费生命，它意味着你可以重新选择前景。失败不表明你应该屈服，它意味着你须更加努力。失败不表明你永难遂意，它意味着成功还需假以时日。失败不表明上帝抛弃了你，它意味着上帝还有更好的主意。怎样才能永远年轻Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctor worry about them. Thats why you pay him/her.一些无关紧要的数字不要挂怀，包括你的年龄、体重和身高。让医生来操心吧。因为他们收了你的报酬。Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.结交快乐的朋友。整日愁眉不展只能让你雪上加霜。Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. An idle mind is the devils workshop. And the devils name is Alzheimers.学无止境。多学学电脑、手艺、园艺等等。不要让你的大脑闲置下来。无所事事是魔鬼的加工厂。魔鬼的名字叫“痴呆症”。Enjoy the simple things.享受简单事物的乐趣。Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.多笑，开怀大笑。上气不接下气地笑。The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.有泪就流。在忍耐和伤心过后，要继续前行。陪伴我们度过此生的只有一人那就是我们自己。让生命鲜活起来。Surround yourself with what you love, whether its family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.让你的所爱包围着你，无论是家人、宠物、纪念品、音乐、植物、爱好，什么都好。你的家就是避风港。Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.珍惜健康：如果它还好端端的，就好好地保护它。如果它反复无常，就调养好它。如果你已无力改善它了，就请别人帮忙吧。Dont take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, to the next country, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.别踏上犯罪的道路。你可以去逛街，可以到邻县去，可以出国旅行，但就是别踏上犯罪的道路。Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.把你的爱告诉你所爱着的人们，把握住每一个表达机会。AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.千万记住：度量生命的不是呼吸的次数，而是那些最最难忘的时刻。用爱面对死神A girl and a boy were on a motorcycle， speeding through the night.They loved each other a lot.Girl： Slow down a little. Im scared.Boy： No， its so fun.Girl： Please its so scary.Boy： Then say that you love me.Girl： Fine. I love you. Can you slow down now？Boy： Give me a big hug.The girl gave him a big hug.Girl： Now can you slow down？Boy： Can you take off my helmet and put it on？ Its uncomfortable and its bothering me while I drive.The next day， there was a story in the newspaper. A motorcycle had crashed into a building because its brakes were broken.There were two people on the motorcycle， of which one died， and the other had survivedThe guy knew that the brakes were broken. He didnt want to let the girl know， because he knew that the girl would have gotten scared.Instead， he was told the last time that she loved him， got a hug from her， put his helmet on her so that she can live， and die himselfOnce in a while， right in the middle of an ordinary life， Love gives us a fairy tale一天夜里，男孩骑摩托车带着女孩超速行驶。他们彼此深爱着对方。女孩：慢一点我怕男孩：不，这样很有趣女孩：求求你。这样太吓人了男孩：好吧，那你说你爱我女孩：好我爱你你现在可以慢下来了吗？男孩：紧紧抱我一下女孩紧紧拥抱了他一下。女孩：现在你可以慢下来了吧？男孩：你可以脱下我的头盔并自己戴上吗？它让我感到不舒服，还干扰我驾车。第二天，报纸报道：一辆摩托车因为刹车失灵而撞毁在一幢建筑物上。车上有两个人，一个死亡，一个幸存驾车的男孩知道刹车失灵，但他没有让女孩知道，因为那样会让女孩感到害怕。相反，他让女孩最后一次说她爱他，最后一次拥抱他，并让她戴上自己的头盔，结果，女孩活着，他自己死了就在一会儿的时间里，就在平常的生活里，爱向我们展示了一个神话！别人是你的一面镜子The first time you meet someone, in the first moment you form an impression in your mind of that person. Your reactions to other people, however, are really just barometers for how you perceive yourself. Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate about yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.Therefore, you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely, you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.To coexist peacefully with others, you will need to learn tolerance. A big challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions, judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and become whole.I recently has a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners. My first reaction was to judge him as offensive and his table manners as disgusting. When I noticed that I was judging him, I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling. I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose. I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me.Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you becoming like him. Just because I judge my lunch partner as offensive does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him. In the same way, extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open.When you approach life in this manner, those with whom you have the greatest grievances as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors, guiding your to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality.第一次见到某人时，在第一瞬间，你的脑海里会形成一个印象。你对他人的反应，其实就像你如何看待自己的晴雨表，更多的是反映处你自己，而不是其他人。你不可能真正喜欢或讨厌他人的某个方面, 除非它反射处你对自身某方面的喜好. 通常, 我们靠近与自己类似的人, 而那些展示处我们自身某个不喜欢的方面的人, 往往令我们讨厌.所以, 你以他人为镜, 能更清楚地折射出你对自我价值的感受. 反过来, 对于你不认同的人, 你也能以之为镜, 显露出对自身不满意的方面.要与他人和睦相处, 你必须学会容忍. 你要从根本上转变视角, 不去评判别人, 而是不断地反省自身, 而这是一个巨大的挑战. 你的任务是, 以你对别人做出的所有的决定, 评判为线索, 来改进和完善自我.最近, 我与一位客户一起吃午饭, 他吃饭的样子实在令我很反感. 我的第一反应就是: 他粗鲁无礼, 吃饭的样子令人恶心. 当我意识到自己正评判他时, 便停下来, 扪心自问是什么感觉. 被人看到与这么个张着嘴咀嚼, 大声擤鼻涕的人在一起, 我发现自己感到很难堪. 我还发现自己很在乎餐馆里其他人对我的看法, 这让我感到很惊讶.记住, 你对他人的评判并不意味着你就不会像他那样. 比如, 仅仅因为我评判那位客户粗鲁无礼, 并不能保证我永远都不会有像他那样的行为. 同样, 如果我容忍他的行为, 并不会因此突然张嘴咀嚼.假如你用这种方式走进生活, 你就能同时以你最不满的人, 和你罪尊敬, 最爱的人为镜, 指引你发现自身的缺陷, 同时欣赏自己的最佳品质.让梦想成长My dream ended when I was born. Although I never knew it then, I just held on to something that would never come to pass. Dreams really do exist. But in the morning when you wake up, they are remembered just as a dream. That is what happened to me.I always had the dream to dance like a beautiful ballerina twirling around and around and hearing people applaud for me. When I was young, I would twirl around and around in the fields of wildflowers that grew in my backyard.I thought that if I twirled faster everything would disappear and I would wake up