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7 7条交友法则请遵守条交友法则请遵守 和别人朝夕相处地工作 你不得不去交朋友 人际关系处理得好 这份友谊能帮上大忙 带来欢乐 或至少能让你在处理烦闷工作时 不那么烦躁 但如果处理得不当心 你就要注意办公室友情中的小 陷进了 When you work with people day after day you re bound to make friends If handled correctly friendships can make work so much more enjoyable or at least tolerable if you re in a less than desirable job but there can also be some pitfalls if you re not careful 和别人朝夕相处地工作 你不得不去交朋友 人际关系处理得好 这份友谊能帮上大忙 带来欢乐 或至少能让你在处理烦闷工作时 不那么烦躁 但如果处理得不当心 你就要注意办公室友情中的小 陷进了 Some of these friendships in the office will outlive the job others will not In either case office friendships are a valuable part of any professional work and can be a boost to your career if managed in a professional manner If mishandled they can do a tremendous amount of damage 有些办公室友谊能让工作充满乐趣 有些则不然 无论何种情况 办公室友情都是职场社交圈中有价值的一部分 如果处理得当 会 给你的职业带来促进作用 然而如果处理不当 带给你的只会是无 穷尽的灾难 1 Beware oversharing 1 不要分享过多 Share with caution Take the time to get to know your co workers a bit before divulging personal information and stay appropriate and professional even with those you trust Have clear boundaries about what is shareable and what is not Family updates hobbies interests educational pursuits etc are all fair game Illegal activities intimate details and resume exaggerations not so much 分享的时候小心点 花点时间了解一下你的同事 再分享你的个人 信息 即使和那些你信任的人也要注意得当专业 要对 可分享 有明确的界限 知道什么可以说什么不该说 家庭信息 爱好 乐 趣 学业追求 这些都是不错的聊天话题 但是 非法活动 亲密 细节 还有 夸大事实 这些就不要多说了 2 Nix the plaining 2 不要抱怨 No matter how well you know your office friend don t gossip or plain about your boss That s a big no no It puts your office friend in a very unfortable situation and could be potentially damaging if your words ever reached the ears of the wrong person Save your venting for your partner other personal friends outside of work 无论跟 办公室朋友 多熟 都不要八卦或者抱怨老板 这个绝对 绝对不要 这会让你的办公室朋友非常不舒服 如果这些话传到不 该听到的人耳里甚至会毁了你 把这些吐槽都跟工作圈子外的朋友 们说吧 3 Maintain individuality 3 保持个性 Be careful that your office friendships don t obscure your individual aomplishments and separateness You still need to build and protect your individual reputation on the job Especially in the beginning of your career you need to shine and stand out from the crowd Office alliances are part of the work culture that s fine just don t let your own contr