myths-about-relationshipsPPT课件

.,1,Unit2MythsaboutRelationships,ByYanRenming,.,2,1.ScanpassageBtoanswerthequestion:Whatmythsarementioned?,Threecommonmythsaboutrelationshipsarementioned:Loveatfirstsight,Honestyisthebestpolicy.,Oppositesattract,.,3,MythsaboutRelationships,2ReadpassageBandcirclethebestanswer.Whatdoescommonmythmeaninthepassage?Atraditionalstoryortale.b.Apopularbutwrongideaaboutsomething.c.Afamousandwonderfulideaaboutsomehing.,.,4,Basedonthepassage,whydomanypeoplebelievethatoppositesattract?Itsexcitingtobewithsomeonewhoisverydifferent.b.Yourelesslikelytohaveconflictswithsomeonewhoisverydifferent.c.Itsannoyingtobewithsomeonewhoissimilar.,.,5,Thebeliefthatweshouldalwaysbehonestwithourpartnersmightnotwork.Thereasonisthat_.ifwealwayshonest,ourpartnermightstartlyingtousinsteadb.itsmoreexcitingtolietoapartnerthantomakehimorherhappyc.Sometimesbeingcompletelyhonestmighthurtthefeelingsofourpartmer,.,6,3CompletethefollowingtablebasedonpassageB.,Oppositesattract.,Loveatfirstsight.,Honestyisthebestpolicy.,Rememberthattheattractioncanoftenfadeasquicklyasitarrives.,Decidewhatsmostimportanttoyouandfindsomeonewhohasasimilarlist.,Remembertotellthetruthabouttheimportantthings,thesmall,unimportantlieswontbeproblems.,.,7,4CompletetheoutlineofpassageB.,Introduction:Hereareseveralcommonmythsaboutrelationshipthatpeoplebelieve.,Myth1:Oppositesattract.,Myth2:Loveatfirstsight.,Myth3:Honestyisthebestpolicy.,Conclusion:Itsimportanttolookathowrelationshipsworkinaclearandlogicalwayandtobelievefactsinsteadofmyths.,.,8,5ThreekindsofcommonmythsareintroducedinpassageB.Doyouknowanyothercommonmythsaboutrelationships?Makeanoutlineandwriteapassagebasedonit.,.,9,Languagepoints,1.Inmypracticeasarelationshipcounsellor,Icomeacrosspeoplenearlyeverydaywhobelievecommonmythsaboutrelationships._comeacross意为“碰到”，例如：Icameacrossmyoldchildhoodfriendonthestreetoneday._B.本句中，whobelievecommonmythsaboutrelationships是_,修饰_,在我作为人际关系顾问工作的期间，我几乎每天都能碰到一些人，他们对人际关系的理解都存在误区。,有一天我在街上碰到我儿时的朋友。,定语从句,people,.,10,2.Manypeoplebelievethatfindingapartnerwhoisverydifferentfromthemselvesisagreatrelationshipmatch._bedifferentfrom意为“_”本句中，that引导了一个_,在该从句中，findingapartner是_,whoisverydifferentfromthemselves是_,修饰_.,许多人认为找一个与自己截然不同的伴侣是绝配。,与不同的,宾语从句,主语,定语从句。,partner,.,11,3.Butwhileitmaybeexcitingatfirsttobewithsomeonenotlikeyou,inreality,oncetheearlyexcitementwearsoff,youmayfindthatthethingsyouusedtofindunusualaboutthatpersonnowannoyyou._atfirst_inreality_wearoff_usedtodosth.意为“_”例如：HeusedtoliveinShanghai._也可以表示“_”例如：Iusedtotakemorningexerciseeveryday.ButIbecamelazynow._be/become/getusedtosth./doingsth._beusedtodosth._,和与自己不同的人在一起，起初会很兴奋，但事实上一旦最初的兴奋褪去，你会发现过去你觉得这个人身上不同寻常的地方现在会让你觉得讨厌。,起初,实际上,逐渐消失,曾经做某事,他曾经在上海居住过。,过去惯常做某事，而现在则不了,过去每天早上我都晨练。但是现在我变懒了。,习惯某物/做某事,被用来做某事,.,12,E.本句中，that引导了一个_，该从句中_是_,youusedtofindunusualaboutthatperson是_,修饰_,从句的谓语动词是annoy.,宾语从句,things,主语,后置定语,things,.,13,4.Instead,stopfocusingonfindingyouroppositeandfindsomeonewhohasanapproachtolifesimilartoyou._stopdoingsth._stoptodosth._focusonsth./doingsth._besimilarto_,不要再关注于寻找与你性格相反的人，要找那个与你有着类似生活态度的人。,停止正在做的事情,停下来做另一件事情,专注于,与相似,.,14,5.Firstofall,tellingyourpartneraboutthingsinyourpastthatyouknowarelikelytobeupsettingisnotgoingtodooryourrelationshipanygood,andcouldbehurtfultoyourpartner._Tellingyourpartnerupsetting是_做_.dosb.good_behurtfulto_6.dowonder