研究生综合英语：His politeness is her powerlessness.ppt

HisPolitenessIsHerPowerlessness,LOREMIPSUMDOLOR,1,INTRODUCTION,Whentheytalk.,WhenaGUYtalkstoaGIRL,WhATTHEguyMEANT,WhATTHEgirlUNDERSTOOD,Whenagirltalkstoaguy,WhenTHEgirlREALLYMEANT,WHATTHEguyUNDERSTOOD,BackgroundInformation,DeborahTannen,Occupation:Academicandprofessoroflinguistics,Published:20booksandover100articles,ThispasageisfromthebookYouJustDontUnderstand,2,Whyarewomenswayoftalkingmisinterpreted?,Differencesbetweenmaleandfemale,Women:avoidappearing“superiority.”Men:appearing“superior”.,Women:buildrelationships.Men:giveinformation,solveproblems,showexpertise.,Women:wanttoreachconsensusandconsult.Men:wanttogetstraightandchoosewithoutconsulting.,Interviewacouple,Whatisthemeaningofbeingverypolite,Themansaid:Subservience,Thewomansaid:Sensitivity.,3,DoesIndirectnessreflectpowerlessness?,Indirect=Powerlessness,indirect,powerlessness,|,？,Direct=Natural,indirect,powerlessness,=,？,Right=Gene,Point3,Point2,TWOSITUATIONS,Situation1Awealthycoupleandtheirmaids,Situation2Parentsandtheirchildren,Situation1,Itiscoldhere.,Itisdinnertime.,Havingdinnerserved.,Raisingthetemperature.,Situation2,whenwearemisbehaving.Thenparentsshowup.,4,indirectnessindifferentcultures,FOURCULTURES,MADAGASCAR,THEUSA,JAPAN,GREEK,Greek:indirectnesswasappropriate,Wouldyouliketogototheparty?Itmeansshewantedtogo!,Japan:indirectnessisanart,1.Determine2.Accept3.Severalrepeatedexchange4.Answeredinpolitely,America:directnessisavalue,ItisdifferentfromJapaneseculture.,MADAGASCAR:Indirectness=highstatuese,Women：Women:directstyleisclumsyandcrudeMen:indirectstyleisregardasbetter,5,Summarize,B