marriage across nations.pptx

MarriageAcrossNations,Unit3,SectionA,Warmingup,LanguageApplication,TextStructureStudy,Summary,CONTENTS,WeddingVow,Itakeyoutobemyhusband/wife,mypartnerinlifeandmyonetruelove.IwillcherishourunionandloveyoumoreeachdaythanIdidthedaybefore.Iwilltrustyouandrespectyou,laughwithyouandcrywithyou,lovingyoufaithfullythroughgoodtimesandbad,regardlessoftheobstacleswemayfacetogether.Igiveyoumyhand,myheart,andmylove,fromthisdayforwardforaslongaswebothshalllive.,Guessinggame,Guessthemeaningsoffamily,wifeandhusband.,FAMILYFatherandmotherIloveyou.,WIFE,W-washingI-ironinganF-foodE-entertaining,W-witchI-intelligentF-faithfulE-everyday,HUSBAND,HhousingUunderstandingSsharingBbuyingAandNneverDdemanding,S,sentence,C,clock,I,institution,Marriageisnotaword,itisasentence,alifesentence.,Loveisalongandsweetdream,whilemarriageisthealarmclock.,MarriageisaninstitutioninwhichamanloseshisBachelorsDegreeandthewomangetsherMasters.,WhatisMarriage?,Whatisyouridealtypetogetmarried?2.Whatarethepossiblefactorsyoumaytakeintoaccountwhenyouaregettingmarried?,Warm-upQuestions,uncletype,flowerboy,beefcakeguy,humorous,artistic,cute,stylish,sexy,refreshing,elegant,loveeachother,factors,gentle,responsible,wealthy,humorous,pretty,slim,considerate,between20-30,thought-provoking,educationalbackground,单击此处添加标题,单击familiesetc.,financialstatus,personality,physicalappearance,age,1,4,2,3,FourQuestions,Quickquestions,Haveyoueverconsideredmarryingaforeigner?,Whatarethebiggest3difficultiesintransnationalmarriage?,Ifmarryingaforeigner,whatwoulddoforhim/her?,Couldyougivesomeexamplesillustratingsuccessfulandunsuccessfulmixedmarriage?,A,B,C,Iusedtodatewithaforeigner,Ididthinkaboutit,Never,请输入您需要的文字,Haveyoueverconsideredmarryingaforeigner?,A,B,D,Liveinhis/hercountry,Learninghis/herlanguage,Believeinhis/herreligion,Ifmarryingaforeigner,whatwoulddoforhim/her?,C,others,Adoptinghis/hercustoms,F,A,B,D,Language,HabitsRaisequestionsifany.Whoarethecharactersmentionedinthearticle?Findoutbriefinformationaboutthem.Whatdidtheydecidetodorencently?Didtheyreceivecongratulations?Why?,LanguageApplication,Para1,GailandIimaginedaquietwedding.(Para.1),Meaning:GailandIplannedtohaveaweddingwithoutmanypeopleorwithoutmanyactivities.,imagine:vt.plantohave,thinkabouthaving,eg.忙碌了一年，我们打算今年夏天在家过个安静的假期。,Weimagineaquietholidayathomeforthissummerafterabusyyear.,toformapictureoranideainmind,imagine+v-ing,eg.很难想象在一个没有车的地方生活。,Itishardtoimaginelivinginaplacewheretherearenocars.,Meaning:amixofgoodexperiencesandbadexperiences人生充满了欢乐与痛苦(起伏)。Lifeisfullofupsanddowns.,3）Butthroughitallwehadhonestlyconfrontedtheweaknessesandstrengthsofeachotherscharacters.(Para.1),through:prep.Fromthebeginningtotheendof,weaknessesandstrengths:,weakpointsandstrongpoints,eg.了解你自己的缺点和优点很重要。,Itsimportanttoknowyourownweaknessesandstrengths.,2)upsanddowns,4）Character,allthequalitiesandfeaturesthatmakeaperson,groupsofpeople,andplacesdifferentfromothers品格，性格,Haveastrong/weakcharactercharactertraits/defects,eg.这本书对布莱尔夫人的性格作了生动的剖析ThebooksgiveafascinatinginsightintoMrs.Blairscharacter.,thewaythatsth.is,oraparticularqualityorfeaturethatathing,aneventoraplacehas特点，特征，特色,thedelicatecharacterofthelightintheevening夜间灯火所具有的柔和的特点,apersoninabook,playorfilm/movie人物角色,cartooncharacteramajor/minorcharacterinthebook,theopinionthatpeoplehaveofyou,particularlyofwhetheryoucanbetrustedorreliedon名誉，声望，名气,Myteacheragreedtobeacharacterwitnessformeincourt.我的老师同意出庭做我的品德信誉见证人,5)confront：v.,toappearandneedtobedealtwithbysb.使.无法回避；降临于形式：,todealwithaproblemordifficultsituation处理，解决（问题或困境）近义：faceupto,Sheknewthatshehadtoconfrontherfears.她心里明白自己必须克服恐惧心理,theeconomicproblemsconfrontingthecountry这个国家所面临的经济问题,动词+名词短语confrontsb.withsth.beconfrontedwithsth.,Heconfrontedherwithachoicebetweenhercareerandtheirrelationship.他要他在事业和他们之间的关系之间做出选择。,Thiswasthefirsttimehehadconfrontedanarmedrobber.这是他第一次面对一个武装劫匪。,tofacesbsothattheycannotavoidseeingandhearingyou,Especiallyinanunfriendlyordangeroussituation面对；对抗；与（某人）对峙,MainIdeaofPara1,GailandMarkwerepreparedtohaveaquietweddingastheybelievedthattheykneweachotherwell.,Agreatdeal,Para2,agreatdealof加不可数名词agreatnumberof加可数名词agreatquantityof既可修饰可数也可修饰不可数,2)andbeingopenwitheachother:behonestwithBeopento:对.开放的；易受到Beopenwithsb.aboutsth.:关于某事对某人毫无隐瞒Bringoutintheopen:揭露，公布出来,comeoutintotheopen:公开化；不加保密intheopen：在户外，公开地layoneselfopento:是自己容易招致leaveopen：未解决，悬而未决,Translation:,作为朋友，我们要开诚布公，而不是相互猜疑。,Asfriends,weshouldbeopenwitheachotherratherthanfeeldoubtfulaboutoneanother.,openup:打开，开办，开发openupon：朝向，俯瞰，展望openwith：以.开始,3)Compromisev.n.v.让步，妥协compromisewith,compromiseonHpromiseontheoildispute.n.妥协，让步compromiseisaninevitablepartofmarriagereachacompromise/makecompromisesCompromising使处于理亏的境地：compromisingposition/situation,4)beinvolvedwith：totakepartin,orbeconnectedwith.beinvolvedin:包含在.；被卷入；专心地（做）beinvolvedwith：涉及becomeinvolvedin:卷入，陷入getinvolvedwith给.缠住,Translation:,别把别人牵涉进你的麻烦中去,Dontinvolveotherpeopleinyourtrouble.,所有的孩子都参加了学校排练的剧,Allthechildrenwereinvolvedintheschoolplay,marry既可用作及物动词,也可用作不及物动词,意为结婚；嫁；娶；与.结婚等。常见用法如下：,4)marry,African-Americancivilrightsmovement.,CivilRightsActof1964,Anti-apartheidprtatsanctionsbill,MainIdeaofPara2,Theirracialandculturaldifferencesenhancedtheirrelationship.,一、sbmarrysb表示嫁给某人；与.结婚二、sbbe/getmarriedtosb表示“与某人结婚”Janewasmarriedtoadoctorlastmonth.上个月简和一位医生结婚了。Rosegotmarriedtoateacher.罗斯和一位教师结婚了.三、sbmarrysbtosb表示“父母把女儿嫁给某人”或“为儿子娶媳妇”Shemarriedherdaughtertoabusinessman.她把女儿嫁给了一位商人。,四、marry作不及物动词时，往往用副词或介词短语来修饰：Shemarriedveryearly/well.她很早就结婚了.五、marry一般不与介词with连用。例如：她和一位英国人结了婚。【误】ShemarriedwithanEnglishman.【正】ShemarriedanEnglishman.【正】Shewas/gotmarriedtoanEnglishman.,married:已婚的，有配偶的，夫妇的maritalmrt()l：婚姻的，夫妻间的maritalstatus：婚姻状况maritalviolence：婚姻暴力,Para4,patible:adj.,becompatiblewith,（ofpeople,ideas,etc.）suitable,abletoexisttogether适合的,一致的,Iveneverseentwopeoplewhoweremorecompatible.,我从来没见过比他们更加般配的两个人。,（ofequipment）abletobeusedtogether兼容的,Theprinteriscompatiblewithmycomputer.,这台打印机和我的电脑兼容。,incompatible:,Waterisincompatiblewithfire.,2overlookedvt.,notnoticesth.orignore未注意到，忽视，忽略,你忽略了这项工作中的几个错误。,Youhaveoverlookedseveralmistakesinthiswork.,pretendnottonotice;forgive原谅,这一次我们不计较你的错误行为，但是切勿再犯了。,Welloverlookyourbadbehaviorthistime,butdontdoitagain.,Irentedaroomoverlookingthesea.,haveorgiveaviewof(aplace)fromabove俯视，眺望,3.intheexpectationthat:expectingthat;inthehopeof珍妮不得不向父亲说明每一个便士是怎么花的，希望父亲能够原谅她。Jennyhadtoaccounttoherfatherforeverypennyshespentintheexpectationthatherfatherwouldforgiveher.,accordingtoexpectation:如所预料Againstexpectation出乎预料Beyondonesexpectation：出乎意料Haveexpectationsof:对.抱有希望Inexpectationof:期望Liveuptosb.sexpectation:不辜负某人的希望,Wewanttoavoidmistakes(madebymanycouples)of,marryingforthewrongreasons,findingout(ten,twentyorthirtyyearslater),thattheyareincompatiblethattheyhardlytooktimetoknoweachotherthattheyoverlookedpersonalityconflictsin,Sentencestructure,许多夫妻因为错误的理由结了婚，结果在10年，20年或30年后才发觉他们原来是合不来的。他们在婚前几乎没有花时间去互相了解，他们忽视了严重的性格差异，指望婚姻会自然而然地解决各种问题。我们希望避免重蹈覆辙。事实更说明了这一点：已经结婚35年的盖尔的父母正经历着一场充满怨恨，令人痛苦的婚变，这件事给盖尔带来了很大打击，并一度给我们正处于萌芽状态的关系造成了负面影响。,MainIdeaofPara4,GailandMarkalsoknewwelltoavoidthemistakemadebymanycoupleswhomarryforthewrongreasons.,After-readingquestions(1-4),1.WhatdidGailandMarkexperienceduringtheirtwoyearstogether?(inPara.1),upsanddownsunderstandandrespecteachotherconfrontweaknessesandstrengths,2.WhatdidGailandMarklearnfromtheirracialandculturaldifference?(inPara.2),Tolerance,compromise,andbeingopenwitheachother,2.WhatdidGailandIwanttoavoid?Whatistheexampletheauthorpresenttoillustratethem?(inPara.4),Incompatible,hardlytakethetimetoknoweachother,overlookseriouspersonalityconflicts,GailandIhadexperienced_and_intwoyears,nowwecometo_,_and_eachother.Weconfronted_and_ofeachotherscharacter.Wehavelearnttobe_,_and_.Thesourceofourstrengthwasourmutual_and_.,ups,downs,know,understand,respect,weaknesses,strengths,tolerant,compromising,open,trust,respect,Counsel:n.v.n.劝告，忠告，建议listentothecounselofyourelders.法律顾问，律师=counselorthecounselforthedefendant/prosecution被告/原告的律师v.提供专业咨询建议，劝告动词+带to的不定式eg.他建议他们放弃此项计划Hecounseledthemtogiveuptheplan,Para5,2.subsequentadj.随后的，继.之后的Theseskillswerepassedontosubsequentgenerations.这些技能都传给了后代subsequentpagesofthebook接下去的书页subsequenttosth.:之后发生的事情eventsthathappenedsubsequenttotheaccidentadv.SubsequentlySubsequently,thecompanyfiledforbankruptcy申请破产,Para6,Harborn.v.n.港口TheysailedintoPortsmouthHarbor他们驶入了朴茨茅斯港v.怀有，心存Ithinkhesharboringsomesortofgrudgeagainstme我觉得他对我怀恨在心。包含，藏有sinkscanharborgerms水槽会藏有病菌,prejudicesyoumightevencallthemisapposition(同位语)ofreservationsaboutamixedmarriage.Thetwoactuallyrefertothesamething.,thesameperson,同位语：,对句子某一成分作进一步解释、说明，而在语法上和这一成分处于同等地位的句子成分。,I,theyoungestsoninthefamily,amoftentakengoodcareof.,Mr.Green,ournewEnglish,isanAmerican.,Hetoldmethenewsthathewontheprize.,Para7,HermotherarguedthatMarkscolorisnottheproblemforher.Instead,shewasworriedaboutGaildidnotknowMarkwellenough.,MainIdeaofPara7,Para8,Confirmv.v.tostateorshowthatsth.Isdefinitelytrueorcorrect,especiallybyprovidingevidence证实，证明，确认Rumoursofjoblosseswerelaterconfirmed.裁员的传言后来得到了证实confirm+从句：Ithasbeenconfirmedthatthemeetingwilltakeplacenextweek.已经确定会议将于下个星期召开。使感觉更强烈，使确信：sth.confirmsb.insth.Thewalkinthemountainsconfirmedhisfearofheights.山里的步行使他更加确信自己有恐高症,辨析和attimes有关的短语：atatime:一次；每次；在某时（强调具体的某一次)attimes：有时；偶尔atalltimes不论什么时候,老是(at)anytime随时;无论何时atnotime永不.,在任何时候都不atoddtimes在闲暇的时候,利用零碎的时间;偶尔atonetime(过去)有个时期;曾经,一度同时,atonestimeoflife在这个年纪atothertimes平素,往常;在其它时候;在另外场合atthebestoftimes在情况最好时候atthesametime同时尽管如此atthetime当时,在那个时候attimes有时,偶尔,不时,After-readingquestions(5-9),1.WhatisGailsmothersmotherattitudetowardsmixedmarriage?(Para.7),Harborreservationsabout,prejudice,2.WhatdoesGailsmotherworryabout?(Para.7),Color,thesamewrongreason,seehimasthebeloved,intelligent,charming,caring,didnotknowhimverywell,Mother,adviseGailtobemorecareful1.mixedmarriage2.Markhimself3.exampleofherself,Decision:wait,structure,Approachv.n.v.走进，靠近，接近Sheheardfootstepsapproaching接洽，要求：approachsb.forsth.Studentsshouldbeabletoapproachteachersforadvice学生应当能够找老师征求意见approachsb./sth.about(doing)sth.Thecharityapproachedseveralstoresaboutgivingfoodaid.慈善机构找了几家商店，请求给予食品援助。,Para10,临近,接近withwinterapproaching,manyanimalsarestoringfood.temperatureapproaching35处理，应付approachaproblem/task/mattern.方法，步骤（+to）anewapproachtoteachinglanguagesadoptapositiveapproachto,2.Suspectv.nv.tothinkthatsomethingisprobablytrue猜想，怀疑suspectthatIsuspectedthattherewassomethingwrongwiththeengine.suspectmurder怀疑谋杀suspectsb.of(doing)sth.Hewassuspectedofgivingawaygovernmentsecretstotheenemy.,n.someonewhoisthoughttobeguiltyofacrime嫌疑人Twosuspectswerearrestedtodayinconnectionwiththerobbery.有两名与劫案有关的嫌疑人今天被逮捕。main/prime/chiefsuspect首要嫌疑犯,proceedv.v.tocontinuetodosomethingthathasalreadybeenplannedorstarted继续做proceed+with:Thegovernmentwasdeterminedtoproceedwiththeelectionproceedtodosth:playerswhoproceedtothefinalsofthecompetition.Wceeding:n.事件，一连串发生的事,诉讼Wewatchedtheproceedingsinthestreetbelow.legalproceedings：法律诉讼,Para14,resolvev.v.解决（问题，困难）Thecrisiswasresolvedbynegotiations.危机通过谈判得到解决。下决心，决意（做某事）：resolvetodosth.演变成某事：resolveintosth.Theargumentresolveditselfintoatruce(和解）,她的父亲开始引用统计数据说明异族通婚的离婚率比同族结婚要高，而且还列举了接受过他咨询的、在婚姻上有麻烦的异族通婚夫妇的例子。,Hisfather,proceededtoquotestatistics,gaveexamplesofmixedcouples,showing(作定语，修饰statistics）thatmixedcoupleshadhigherdivorceratesthancouplesofthesamerace,hehadcounseled,Whowerehavingmaritaldifficulties,Sentencestructure,两个并列谓语,Father,suspicionofMarksmotivesolvetheproblemofcitizenship,quotestatisticsshowingthatmixedcouplehaveahigherdivorcerate,childrenproblemstheymaygothroughhardships,Decision:changehermind,Mark,Gail,Heisablackman.,Heisacharmingintelligentyoungguy.,HeisnotanAmericancitizen.,Sheisawhitewoman.,SheisgoingtomarryMark.,HerparentsdivorcehasnegativeeffectonherrelationshipwithMark.,Mother,PrejudicesIharborreservationsaboutthemixedmarriage.PeertalkMyfriendstalk.HerownexperiencesMybiggestworryisthatyoumaybemarryingMarkforthesamewrongreasonsthatImarriedyourfarther.,Mother,1.Harboringreservations2.AcceptingthatMarkisacharmingandintelligentguy3.Takingtheexampleofherself,Decision:wait,structure,Father,CitizenshipstatusWhenhelearnedmyproblemswiththecitizenshipdepartment,hesuspectedthatIwasmarryinghisdaughterinordertoremainintheUnitedStates.DivorcerateofmixedcouplesChildrenproblemsPeoplewouldbecrueltowardchildrenfromthemixedmarriages.,Father,suspicionofMarksmotivesolvetheproblemofcitizenship,quotestatisticsshowingthatmixedcouplehaveahigherdivorcerate,childrenproblemstheymaygothroughhardships,Decision:changehermind,Inthispassage,thewritertriestoapproachthesameissuefromdifferentperspectives,asshowninthefollowingchart:,IssueMarriageacrossthenations(Mixedmarriage),Younglovers,Mother,Father,makeactiveattemptstohandleit,takeacautiousattitude,takeanopposingattitude,Back,(Paras.1-4),ThemixedmarriageofGailandMark,(Paras.5-9),ThereactionofGailsmothertothemarriage,(Paras.10-21),TheresponseofGailsfathertothemarriage,Throughnarrationinthefirstperson,theauthortellsthereader:Toavoidthemistakemadebymanyunhappymixedmarriages,welivedtogetherfortwoyears,whichenhancedourloveforeachothersomuchthatwedecidedtogetmarried.,Oneofthecommonwaystopresentargumentsisfirsttorejectsomeideasandthenpresentsomeotherideas.GailsmotherusedthismethodtoaskherdaughtertomakesurethatMarkwasherrightlifelongpartner.,Thedevice“dialogue”isemployedheretohelpdepictvividlythecontrastsofattitudesbetweenGailandherfather:GailsfathertriedtopersuadeGailtochangehermind,butGailthoughttheywouldrathermarrynowandworrylater.,ParagraphWriting,“TostartwithImustadmitthatatfirstIharboredreservationsaboutamixedmarriage,prejudicesyoumightevencallthem.(Statingoneidea)ButwhenImetMarkIfoundhimacharmingandintelligentyoungguy.Anymotherwouldbeproudtohavehimforason-in-law.So,colorhasnothingtodowithit.(Correctingtheidea),Yes,myfriendstalk.Someevenexpressshockatwhatyouaredoing.Buttheyliveinadifferentworld.Soyousee,Markscolorisnottheproblem.(Rejectingtheidea)MybiggestworryisthatyoumaybemarryingMarkforthesamewrongreasonsthatImarriedyourfather.(Presentinganewidea),WhenwemetIsawhimasmybeloved,intelligent,charming,andcaring.Itwasallsonew,allsoexciting,andweboththought,onthesurfaceatleast,thatourswasanidealmarriagewitheveryindicationthatitwouldlastforever.IrealizedonlylaterthatIdidntknowmybeloved,yourfather,verywellwhenwemarried.”(Givinganexampletosupporttheidea),Practice:Failureisnotnecessarilybad,Manypeopleplacesomuchemphasisonsuccessthattheythinkanyfailureisbad.Failureisneverpleasantbecauseithurtspeople.Butinfactitcanmakeapositivecontributiontoourlifeoncewelearnhowtomakethebestofit.,Wecanlearnfromadisastrouspartyhowtogiveagoodone.Andwecanlearnfromanill-chosenfirsthousewhattolookforinasecond.Evenatotalfailurecangiveusfreshideasorachangeofdirection.Repeatedfailuresleadtosuccessandprovetobebeneficialtousasweexperimenteverydaytofindouttherightwayofdoingthings.,LanguageApplication,LanguageApplication,我们本着实用美观的原则，为您精心设计最专业的PPT作品。模板内页图表的文字、色块、图片均可自由编辑、改色、替换。,我们本着实用美观的原则，为您精心设计最专业的PPT作品。模板内页图表的文字、色块、图片均可自由编辑、改色、替换。,我们本着实用美观的原则，为您精心设计最专业的PPT作品。模板内页图表的文字、色块、图片均可自由编辑、改色、替换。,我们本着实用美观的原则，为您精心设计最专业的PPT作品。模板内页图表的文字、色块、图片均可自由编辑、改色、替换。,文本,文本,文本,单击此处添加标题,添加标题,添加标题,我们本着实用美观的原则，为您精心设计最专业的PPT作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