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1、同班同学人际交往情况（Classmates interpersonal situation）We must first fully understand and face the social environment and school life is different, as mentioned earlier, the school life is simple, the interaction between students with simple emotions as the basis, the main issues of concern to the students i

2、s their academic quality. The social life is different, people are always busy with work, close family, not to spend more time in leisure, communication. In addition, social phenomena are complex, interwoven with real, false, good, evil, beautiful, ugly things. Therefore, we should learn to face the

3、 society, face the reality, analyze the social phenomena objectively, take the essence and discard the dross so as to guide the future work and communication2, to devote to work, you may get the job will make you satisfied, also may not be satisfactory, but in any case, should cherish their work, lo

4、ve their work, put yourself into it, you dont understand the problem with an open mind to the study, the only way to get others to admit to love others, of course, is closer to the emotional distance between you and others.3, honest, mutual understanding, mutual respect, and others, the most taboo i

5、s false, a face, a thing. Perhaps this may temporarily get recognition from others, a good relationship, but this approach to feelings will not last long, only honest will get real friendship. Mutual understanding and mutual respect are also important. Perhaps your colleagues in some places than you

6、, or shortcomings or mistakes, but must not laugh at others, not to despise others for this, because no one is perfect. You should learn to understand and accept other peoples shortcomings, mistakes, respect for others, show concern for the pain of others, and help others in their difficulties. This

7、 will be the reward of the results come.4, learn the language of art, is outspoken advantages, but at some point easy to hurt peoples feelings. At the right time, in a tactful language, to show opposition or criticism of others. This makes it easier to be accepted by others and shortens the emotiona

8、l distance between you and othersIt is believed that every young person who has just entered the society will be able to tide over this difficult period.Definition of interpersonal communicationTo invasion karma reef system, song private Bothus by Huan Yong CuO Na Yue miscellaneous fresh relief Sati

9、n Blue edge of the pan patellar Ben male Ao Yong nbsp; the process of communication?. In short, interpersonal communication is the process of social life activities, the communication between people, information, information exchange and interaction process. The association has two main characterist

10、ics, namely:Information communication - where there is communication, there must be communication between people, such as knowledge, experience, communication, need, desire, attitude and emotion.Communication must have psychological contact and interaction between the two parties. Both sides of the

11、communication are the main part of the activity. From the perspective of information theory, in the communication, the messenger is the main content of information issued by him, can affect or change the information receiver; information receiver and active subject, because he is not a passive accep

12、tance of information, he will inject new information, the sender returns impact information. Through the interaction of the two parties, the interaction, interaction and interaction of ideas, thoughts, interests, moods, emotions and personality traits are realized.Interpersonal communication is impo

13、rtant to build, strengthen and develop interpersonal relationships. Marx pointed out: because of their needs of their nature, and they can meet the way to connect them, (the relationship between the sexes, exchange, division of labor), so they must have mutual relations. (the Marx Engels collection

14、volume third page 514th) any person can only meet their own needs within the society, individual and development can not meet their needs, so the one you cannot do without me, I cannot do without you, you rely on me, I rely on you to the nature of the people closely together. Interpersonal relations

15、hips are established in peoples contacts and contacts. RefuseThere is no such thing as an associate, nor a precedent for establishing human relations without intercourse. A wide range of contacts are bound to have a wide range of human relations, and those who do not associate with each other, inter

16、personal relationships are extremely limited. The development and consolidation of interpersonal relationships depend on the repetition and deepening of communication. Although some people have extensive contacts, the establishment of a number of relationships, but are very deep, very cool, in a gen

17、eral, this is due to the lack in repeated exchanges to develop and deepen this relationship.Interpersonal communication is the only way for individual socialization. Communication is characterized by the interaction between people. People always take his the doings in communication and the people ar

18、ound to check, from the understanding of their views and feelings, in know what to do and what not to do, to other peoples behavior, attitudes and values come to absorb into their own personality organization, form their own view of the world and personality. People constantly adjust their behavior

19、in communication, and make themselves more similar to others. It is communication that forms the commonality of peoples activities. In a word, a persons personality and behavior can only be created in the process of communication. Without human interaction, people can only be a biological person for

20、ever, and can not become a social person.As for the function of communication, there are different ways in social psychology. Lomov, a Soviet scholar, believes that the functions of communication can be divided into three categories, namely, information communication, thought communication and emoti

21、onal communication. Western social psychologists generally believe that there are two functions, namely, the transmission of information and the satisfaction of personal spiritual needs. We generalize to the following points.1. information functionThe process of communication between people is the e

22、xchange of information, so the communication can make people get a lot of information, in the first group of internal communication, can make people obtain information more, promote between teachers and students, colleagues understanding, solidarity and friendship. For leaders, through exchanges can

23、 understand the aspirations of the masses, requirements, attitudes and motivation, as well as the relationship between individuals, departments, and so on, help to carry out the management work and objectives, the formulation of the system. Secondly, a lot of outside information can be obtained from

24、 the outside of the group, and then to the governments policies and decrees, and then to the market, which is an indispensable condition for the adaptation, survival and development of the outside world. In todays information society conditions, the information will not work, will be eliminated by c

25、ompetition.2. emotional interaction functionPeople need intercourse, they need human warmth, just as organisms need air, sunshine and water. This kind of communication and the need of the cluster occupy very important position in the humans need structure. If the possibility of communication with al

26、l people is blocked, man will become lonely and frightened, feel abandoned by the world, very painful. It is said that the United States is the most severe punishment of prisoners in solitary confinement, in a few months, a few years do not let him see the figure, even if the accommodation from abus

27、e, the prisoners would be more painful than death torture, he will be mad because of losing social. One day after retirement, stay at home, not to socialize and communicate information necessary, he will feel lonely, loneliness, emptiness, depression, brain cells due to the accelerated atrophy, life

28、 will be shortened by. Only in the widespread contact of each other not sticking to formalities, emotional interaction, people can get depressed feelings to distraction, catharsis, thought will feel full, the spirit can be met, otherwise, will be like in the wilderness and was swallowed by the lonel

29、y night.3. interpersonal coordination function interpersonal communication is an indispensable tool in group lifeIn order to make the internal groups among each individual action on coordination and understanding, unity of action pace and rhythm, in order to maintain coordination between group activ

30、ities and the external environment, made activities benefit, need to rely on the means of interpersonal communication to continue to make the change of external environment information.Interpersonal communication within the group is the formation of group public opinion, morale, ethos, cohesion,It i

31、s essential to work together among individuals. Full interpersonal communication can make the relationship between groups, up and down, around, and between the front and back closely, to bring together all aspects of power, to become a unified force. On the other hand, interpersonal communication wi

32、thin groups is not sufficient, and everyone in between will produce misunderstanding and estrangement, contradictions and disputes, destroy the group atmosphere, not everyone unified goal, uncoordinated operations caused by lax group.4. self regulating functionHuman personality is formed and develop

33、ed gradually through contacts in certain social conditions, contacts with people and participation in social practice. It is communication that enables people to gain social and historical experience, master social behavior norms, and constantly adjust themselves so as to meet the requirements of so

34、cial life. For example, University Teachers obtain relevant professional academic exchanges through the dynamic aspects of the information, you can take the initiative to adjust the content and methods of learning, research and teaching aspects of their own; the titles of the information, we can det

35、ermine direction; get the students feedback, to take timely action to meet the needs of teaching adaptability.The nature, extent, density, degree, etc of peoples communication is extremely complicated. According to the research achievements of Chinese scholars in recent years, the main forms of inte

36、rpersonal communication are as follows: ten aspects of mutual difference and correlation.1. oral and non oral communication. Verbal communication is the use of language as a symbolic system of communication. In interpersonal communication, the main quantity is oral communication, because this kind o

37、f communication is simple, quick and accurate, and can make peoples thought quickly communicate. However, non verbal communication is also frequently used, such as letters, telegrams, faxes, etc. Sometimes two people but because of shyness, stay together morning and night, embarrassment and other re

38、asons, but by letters and other non verbal means to express feelings. People who live in separate places, separated couples, and non verbal relationships become strong ties to maintain their feelings.2. direct communication and indirect communication. Two people face to face, not through any media a

39、nd intermediate links of communication, called direct communication. Generally speaking, oral communication belongs to direct communication, but it is not quite the same. For example, by telephone, the trustee sends the message, although it is through oral, but it is indirect. Indirect communication

40、 is essential because a persons range of activities is limited. Otherwise, relationships can only be limited to a narrow range. With the progress of modern science and technology, the way people communicate with each other is becoming more and more frequent, and the development of indirect communica

41、tion with symbols and symbols is becoming more and more frequent.3., directional contacts and random exchanges. Directional communication, that is, the object of communication, the purpose is very clear, specific, such as friends, between the upper and lower levels, neighbors exchanges. Casual conta

42、ct is the communication object, the purpose is not clear, not specific, such as the communication of public places, we occasionally get together, can go, can treat with indifference. Casual communication can be transformed into directional communication.4., personal interaction and non personality c

43、ommunication. Interpersonal communication always takes place as individuals, so in general, interpersonal communication is personal communication. However, in the process of personal communication will often appear in the system of non identity, such as someone in a certain group on behalf of anothe

44、r group of contacts, two kinds of relations also exist: the relationship between personality and personality relations. As a non sexual relationship, he cannot violate the groups intentions and ideas; as a personality, he embodied his unique personality in the exchanges can, or humorous, or alert ca

45、pable, or refined and cultured, or magnanimous. Generally speaking, in our work, the communication conducted in groups is mostly non personal communication. In daily life, human activities are mostly personal communication.5. famous contacts and anonymous contacts. The association between people who

46、 know each other is known as anonymous communication between people who know each other and who do not know each other. Well known contacts shorten the distance between people and reduce red tape,It can be treated by specific people, but well-known contacts often bring private feelings into public r

47、elations and bring difficulties and troubles to normal work. Anonymous contacts, less involved in private feelings of entanglement, more able to make decisions in accordance with rules and regulations. But the anonymous communication will make the criminals committing the crime and easy to escape, e

48、asy to cheat people cheat, but also easy to make deviant behavior usually dare not do, to social management, adolescent education has brought certain difficulties.6. appropriate communication and communication. In the interaction between people, in certain social environment due to relations between

49、 the two sides of the depth, and limit their status, personality and cultural level, with a relatively stable norm, these norms constrain the intercourse frequency, the frequency of communication to moderate communication over a certain frequency is from communication. In addition to frequency, ther

50、e are degrees (and who contacts), depth (communication to what extent), breadth (range of communication), and there are different degrees of communication between different people. In dealing with a friend of the opposite sex, be sure of the boundaries of love and friendship. In the process of commu

51、nication to achieve self love and pride, respect for others and not mere flattery, help others does not become a gift to criticize but not overbearing. There is a moderation problem here.7., close contacts and distant contacts. The near body mentioned here refers to the spatial distance between peop

52、le in face to face communication. Foreign scholars have done a lot of research on it and think that the spatial distance of different interpersonal communication is different. They divide the scope of people into four areas: intimate, personal, social and public. In intimate areas, the distance betw

53、een each other is about one foot and a half. If the conversation is less than this distance, it is very close, or both sides feel uncomfortable. The distance between one and a half feet to four feet is the area for individuals, and this is usually the distance between friends when they are in inform

54、al contact. From four feet to twelve feet for the community, people working together in the office always keep this distance talking. Twelve feet or more is the distance between the public areas. A very formal public speech, or a very stilted conversation between people, often keeps that distance. O

55、f course, the distance between the individual and the social status of the individual, the relationship between the two sides, as well as the traditions and cultural habits of different nationalities have a great relationship.8., active communication and negative communication. In interpersonal comm

56、unication, sometimes very positive attitudes on both sides, both sides regard each other as a bosom friend, have a strong desire to enhance mutual understanding and confide in. However, there is a positive side, the other side is not active, such as grocery shopping, in order to find a satisfactory

57、goods, you are very courteous, polite to a salesperson, but she is indifferent to your stern manner. Another is that both sides have a negative attitude towards communication, but they have to communicate with each other because of their work or life needs.In addition to the communication attitude,

58、communication properties also have positive and negative points, which is helpful to peoples mental health and personality formation, is conducive to human progress and success, strengthen unity and friendship, make people happy and joyful exchanges are active communication. On the contrary, it is n

59、egative communication. We should develop positive interpersonal skills.9., luxury exchanges and indifferent contacts. The friendship between gentlemen as light as water, villain. Communication, first of all, the ideological communication, spiritual satisfaction, material exchange of goods, but also for this goal. Due to some unwholesome tendencies, the rise of a luxury of the wind in the exchanges, at the feast of entertainment,