原谅别人,放过自己

1、原谅别人 ,放过自己I hold grudges against everyone ， even when making a conscious effort not to. I even hold grudges against myself for the things I 've done in my life ， things that I still feel guilty about today； like failing acting class in college ， which ended up costing my mother tens of thousands

2、 of dollars. I also hold a grudge against my dad. But however justified my anger may be ， as the years go by， my desire to mend fences and reconnect only grows stronger. But when I open my computer to make that trans-world reconciliatory call ， something stops me. It' s that grudge I can't l

3、et go of， my inability to handle the emotions that are destined to surface during our talk. And that just makes me madder at myself for not being able to forgive a man who was just looking out for his “ real” family ， his wife and two daughters( my half-sisters ).As you may have been able to surmise

4、 from the intro ， this month' s features are all about forgiveness. First， in Forgiveness and Freedom， Nancy 's late father keeps appearing on her sofa， until she realizes that her forgiveness could set them both free. Next ， in Moms Are Like That ， Sallie ' s mother-in-law never approve

5、d of Sallie marrying her son. And Sallie wasn't able to forgive her for it ， that is， until both her husband and mother-in-law had passed on. And Forgiveness Is Possible shows us that even a bitter ex-wife can put grudges aside and forgive the man who hurt her ， as in the final months of her ex-

6、husband' s life ， she tries to help heal the wounds he caused and repair the familial bonds between him and his kids.So what do you guys think ？ Should I just call my dad andmake amends already? I know I should So, why it is so hard to forgive him ？ Probably has something to do with forgiving my

7、self 我记恨着每一个人，即使我已有意识不让自己这样做。 我甚至记恨着自己，为了那些曾经做过的事，那些时至今日 依然让我觉得愧疚的事；像是考砸了大学的表演课，结果让 我妈妈损失了几万美元。我也记恨着我父亲。然而无论我生 气的理由多么正当，日久天长，与他修复关系、重新联系的 渴望却越来越强烈。但是每当我打开电脑要拨通那越洋和解 电话时，有些东西让我停了下来。是我心里放不下的怨恨， 每当和他交谈时，我心里总是止不住涌出愤怒的情绪，无力 控制。我没办法原谅这样一个只不过是在关心他“真正”的 家庭一一他的妻子和两个女儿（我同父异母的两个妹妹）的 男人，这让我对自己更加生气。也许你已经从上面的引子中猜出，这个月的主题文章都 是关于原谅。首先，在原谅：还你一颗自由的心一文中， 南希已故的父亲不断地出现在她家的沙发上，直到她明白原 谅能让他们俩都获得自由。接下来，在母亲的心这篇文 章中，萨利的婆婆一直不赞同她儿子娶萨利，萨利因而无法 原谅她，直到她丈夫和婆婆都去世后才释怀。而原谅过去，拥抱未来则给我们展现了，即使是一位心有怨愤的前妻也 能把仇恨放下，原谅那个