TED演讲语段精华整理

1、TED1 It's one thing to work up (激发)the confidence to write honestly about your experiences with love, but it is another thing to discover that your love life has made international news .2 The moment you admit to loving someone, you admit to having a lot to lose.3 So rather than that question, I

2、 would propose we ask some more difficult questions, questions like:How do you decide who deserves your love and who does not? How do you stay in love when things get difficult, and how do you know when to just cut and run? How do you live with the doubt that inevitably creeps into every relationshi

3、p, or even harder, how do you live with your partner's doubt? I don't necessarily know the answers to these questions, but I think they're an important start at having a more thoughtful conversation about what it means to love someone.-1What struck (strike使震惊，使迷住）me was that I.Q. was not

4、 the only differenceGrit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals.Grit is having stamina（恒心）.Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out,not just for the week, not just for the month,but for years, and working really hard to make that future a reality.Grit is living life like it&#

5、39;s a marathon, not a sprint（短跑）.（表达）In fact, in our data, grit is usually unrelated or even inversely related to measures of talent.毅力通常与其他因素无关，甚至与才华的衡量标准背道而驰。growth mindset We need to take our best ideas, our strongest intuition, and we need to test them. We need to measure whether we have been s

6、uccessful, and we have to be willing to fail, to be wrong, just start over again with the lesson learned.In other words, we need to be gritty about getting our kids grittier.-Stage fright 怯场cerebral palsy 脑瘫C.P.our obstacles can only do two things:one, stop us in our tracks or two, force us to get c

7、reative.they forced me to rely on my imagination and to believe in the possibilities, and that's why i believe that our imaginations can be used as tools for breaking through borders.because in our minds,we can do anything and we can be anything .it's believing in those dreams can facing our

8、 fears head on that allows us to live our lives beyond our limitsborders are where the actual ends but also where the imagination and the story begins.so the thought that I'd like to challenge you with today is that maybe instead of looking at our challenges and limitations as something negative

9、 or bad ,we can begin to look at them as blessings,magnificent gifts that can be used to ignite our imaginations and help us go further than we ever knew we could go.it's not about breaking down borders,it's about pushing off of them and seeing what amazing places they might bring usIf your

10、life were a book,and you were the author,how would you want your story to go?梦想这玩意都是说出来让人笑话的，做起来让人看着疯狂的，成功后让人闭嘴的东西。Passion is your greatest love.Passion, interest - it's not the same thing.You're afraid to pursue your passion.You're afraid to look ridiculous.You're afraid to try. You

11、're afraid you may fail.Education做自己想做的人，不要做他们想让你成为的人。不要接受他们的奴役，因为你的母亲让你来世上，给了你自由。Be who you want to be, not who they want you to be, don't accept their enslavement, for your mother birthed you free. Some of our octogenarian couples could bicker with each other day in and day out（天天地）, but a

12、s long as they felt that they could really count on the other when the going got tough, those arguments didn't take a toll （造成损失；产生负面影响）on their memories. those all-too-common family feuds(家庭不和） take a terrible toll on the people who hold the grudges.英谚 When the going gets tough,the tough get go

13、ing.（道路艰难，唯勇者行） Speech I'd like to close with a quote /kwot/ from Mark Twain. More than a century ago, he was looking back on his life, and he wrote this: "There isn't time, so brief is life, for bickerings, apologies, heartburnings,callings to account. There is only time for loving, an

14、d but an instant, so to speak, for that." The good life is built with good relationships. Thank you.And this is consistent across Finland, the U.S. and China, and is true regardless of how much you actually weigh. Speech But how do we do that? Well, talking, on its own, only gets you so far. It

15、's not enough by itself. If you actually want to make a difference, you have to do something. Now, the good news is that there are many programs out there available to do this. The bad news is that most of them don't work. We have to help our teenagers develop strategies to overcome image-re

16、lated pressures and build their self-esteem.It is not okay that we judge the contribution of our politicians by their haircuts or the size of their breasts, or to infer that the determination or the success of an Olympian is down to her not being a looker. We need to start judging people by what the

17、y do, not what they look like.And let me ask you, when was the last time that you kissed a mirror? Ultimately, we need to work together as communities, as governments and as businesses to really change this culture of ours so that our kids grow up valuing their whole selves, valuing individuality, d

18、iversity, inclusion. And let's work together as communities, from grassroots to governments, so that the happy little one-year-olds of today become the confident change makers of tomorrow. Let's do this. (Applause)Twentysomethings like Alex and I had nothing but time.which means that whateve

19、r it is you want to change about yourself,now is the time to change it.it's a time when your ordinary, day-to-day life has an inordinate impact on who you will become“我那会在做什么？我那会在想什么？”"What was I doing? What was I thinking?"如何爱与被爱If we can begin to make an effort to love and be loved w

20、ithout any conditions,we will bring a whole new level of meaning to our relationships and to our experience.Picture the sun.Author Anthony de Mello（安东尼德梅洛） Writes，“Has the Sun ever said to the Earth:you owe me.Look what happens to a love like that.It lights up the whole sky.只需专注十分钟we can't change every little things that happens to us in life.but we can change the way that we experience it.权利一直在你的手上，只是有人骗你说你没有，而且你从不怀疑。去把属于你的找出来，认出来，然后用它去创造所有你想要的。如何成为一个更好的交谈者？Everyone you will ever meet knows something you dont.Everybody is an expert in something.做勇敢的女孩I s